Sad quotes
A collection of quotes on the topic of goodbye, depressing, heartbreaking, moving on.
Best sad quotes
“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.”
As quoted in Path for Greatness : Spiritualty at Work (2000) by Linda J. Ferguson, p. 51
“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”
Often attributed to Dr. Seuss without citation; also cited as an anonymous proverb.
This quote has also been attributed to Gabriel García Márquez, in Spanish: "No llores porque ya se terminó, sonríe porque sucedió."
Compare lines from In Memoriam A.H.H. of Tennyson:
  'Tis better to have loved and lost
  Than never to have loved at all.
Disputed
Variant: Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
“The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.”
Variant: The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.
“The funniest people are the saddest ones”
“One man with a gun can control 100 without one.”
Not found in Lenin's Collected Works. Began to surface on the internet in the mid-1990s.
Misattributed
Variant: One man with a gun can control a hundred without one.
“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”
Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.
“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
The Prophet (1923)
Sad quotes
“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”
Variant: One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.
“There is no such thing in life as normal”
Ref: en.wikiquote.org - Lauretta Bender / Quotes / 1954 Senate Subcommittee Hearings into Juvenile Delinquency, "Testimony of Dr. Lauretta Bender, senior psychiatrist, Belleveu hospital Newyork N.Y." http://www.thecomicbooks.com/bender.html
From songs
Also attributed to Chester Bennington (singer of Linkin Park)
“Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”
Variant: Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.
Table-Talk (1857)
Source: The Complete Works of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
St. 18
To a Skylark (1821)
Source: The Complete Poems
“Our sweetest songs are those of saddest thought.”
Source: The Complete Poems
Source: The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion
“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”
Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937), Ch. 3, p. 21.
2000s
Context: Depression is the most unpleasant thing I have ever experienced. … It is that absence of being able to envisage that you will ever be cheerful again. The absence of hope. That very deadened feeling, which is so very different from feeling sad. Sad hurts but it's a healthy feeling. It's a necessary thing to feel. Depression is very different.
As quoted in "J. K. Rowling : The Interview," by Ann Treneman in The Times (30 June 2000) http://www.accio-quote.org/articles/2000/0600-times-treneman.html
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”
“If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.”
Source: The Bell Jar (1963), Ch. 5
“Life seems but a quick succession of busy nothings.”
Dinner was soon followed by tea and coffee, a ten miles' drive home allowed no waste of hours; and from the time of their sitting down to table, it was a quick succession of busy nothings till the carriage came to the door, and Mrs. Norris, having fidgeted about, and obtained a few pheasants' eggs and a cream cheese from the housekeeper, and made abundance of civil speeches to Mrs. Rushworth, was ready to lead the way.
Misattributed
Source: Said by Fanny Price in a 1999 adaptation of Mansfield Park. Actual quote:
“It is sad not to be loved, but it is much sadder not to be able to love.”
To a Young Writer
“The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.”
“Mostly it is loss which teaches us about the worth of things.”
Meistens belehrt uns erst der Verlust über den Wert der Dinge.
Source: Parerga and Paralipomena (1851), Aphorisms on the Wisdom of Life
“Love is not a victory march
It's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah”
Source: Songs of Leonard Cohen, Herewith: Music, Words and Photographs
“You don't forget the face of the person who was your last hope.”
Katniss Everdeen, p. 85
Source: The Hunger Games trilogy, The Hunger Games (2008)
"In Blackwater Woods"
American Primitive (1983)
Source: New and Selected Poems, Vol. 1
“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”
“Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.”
"Tonight I Can Write" (Puedo Escribir), XX, p. 49.
Source: Veinte Poemas de Amor y una Canción Desesperada (Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair) (1924)
“It is sad to grow old but nice to ripen.”
“One thing you can't hide - is when you're crippled inside.”
“There are no have-to's, just choices”
“The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.”
Variant: The tragedy in a man’s life is what dies inside of him while he lives.
“Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it.”
“Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.”
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray
A Few Maxims for the Instruction of the Over-Educated (1894)
“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.”
“There's a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go.”
“Hearts are not to be had as a gift, hearts are to be earned.”
“Do not grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.”
"Unmarked boxes" /Ode#1937
Disputed, The Essential Rumi (1995)
"The Art of Living", interview with journalist Gordon Young first published in 1960
Variant: [T]here are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word "happy" would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.
“Melancholy is the happiness of being sad.”
“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by
“Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. ”
“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
Frequently misattributed to Marilyn Monroe or Kurt Cobain.
Source: https://books.google.com/books?id=xUtdDnEhkMMC&pg=PT12&lpg=PT12#v=onepage&q&f=false
Source: Autumn Leaves, Philosophical eLibrary, 2012, (Feuillets d'automne, 1941, trans. Jeanine Parisier Plottel)
“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad.”
Source: It's Kind of a Funny Story
“Life is to be lived, not controlled.”
“The heart will break, but broken live on.”
Variant: And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on.
“We must find time to stop and thank the people who make a difference in our lives.”
“Nothing is more sad than the death of an illusion.”
“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end.”
Book 4, chapter 1. Often misquoted as "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end".
Books, Coningsby (1844), Henrietta Temple (1837)
“If it's not important for you, then it's not important for me.”
2021
“Breathing is hard. When you cry so much, it makes you realize that breathing is hard.”
Source: Love Is the Higher Law
“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”
Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe
“Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them.”
Source: Adam Bede (1859)
“It will never rain roses: when we want to have more roses, we must plant more roses.”
“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.”
“The way we see the problem is the problem.”
“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”
Source: supanet.com/find/famous-quotes-by/axel-munthe/a-man-can-stand-a-lot-as-fqb50991/
“It's much easier not to know things sometimes.”
Variant: It’s much easier not to know things sometimes.
Source: The Perks of Being a Wallflower
“None of it is important or all of it is.”
Introduction
The Log from the Sea of Cortez (1951)
Context: "... Let us go," we said, "into the Sea of Cortez, realizing that we become forever a part of it; that our rubber boots slogging through a flat of eel-grass, that the rocks we turn over in a tide pool, make us truly and permanently a factor in the ecology of the region. We shall take something away from it, but we shall leave something too." And if we seem a small factor in a huge pattern, nevertheless it is of relative importance. We take a tiny colony of soft corals from a rock in a little water world. And that isn't terribly important to the tide pool. Fifty miles away the Japanese shrimp boats are dredging with overlapping scoops, bringing up tons of shrimps, rapidly destroying the species so that it may never come back, and with the species destroying the ecological balance of the whole region. That isn't very important in the world. And thousands of miles away the great bombs are falling and the stars are not moved thereby. None of it is important or all of it is.
“no expectations, no disappointments!”
Sleeping with Strangers
Actually Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, Driftwood (1857)
Misattributed
“As long as there's me
As long as there's you”
"Where Are We Now?" (2013)
Song lyrics, The Next Day (2013)
Context: Where are we now?
Where are we now?
The moment you know
You know, you know
As long as there's sun
As long as there's sun
As long as there's rain
As long as there's rain
As long as there's fire
As long as there's fire
As long as there's me
As long as there's you
“The trouble is, you think you have time.”
Source: Buddha's Little Instruction Book
“I couldn’t see the point of getting up. I had nothing to look forward to.”
Source: The Bell Jar
“The love that is not all pain is not all love.”
El amor que no es todo dolor, no es todo amor.
Voces (1943)
“Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
“The trouble is, you think you have time.”
Source: Buddha's Little Instruction Book
“The saddest thing that befalls a soul
Is when it loses faith in God and woman.”
Scene 12.
A Life Drama and other Poems (1853)
“I had to smile at the man. I mean, you have to smile at idiots and children.”
Source: Fool Moon