Sad quotes

A collection of quotes on the topic of goodbye, depressing, heartbreaking, moving on.

Best sad quotes

Emily Dickinson photo
Rumi photo

“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.”

Rumi (1207–1273) Iranian poet

As quoted in Path for Greatness : Spiritualty at Work (2000) by Linda J. Ferguson, p. 51

Hermann Hesse photo

“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”

Narcissus and Goldmund (1930)

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“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”

Dr. Seuss (1904–1991) American children's writer and illustrator, co-founder of Beginner Books

Often attributed to Dr. Seuss without citation; also cited as an anonymous proverb.
This quote has also been attributed to Gabriel García Márquez, in Spanish: "No llores porque ya se terminó, sonríe porque sucedió."
Compare lines from In Memoriam A.H.H. of Tennyson:
  'Tis better to have loved and lost
  Than never to have loved at all.
Disputed
Variant: Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Bob Marley photo

“The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.”

Bob Marley (1945–1981) Jamaican singer, songwriter, musician

Variant: The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.

Confucius photo

“The funniest people are the saddest ones”

Confucius (-551–-479 BC) Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher
Vladimir Lenin photo

“One man with a gun can control 100 without one.”

Vladimir Lenin (1870–1924) Russian politician, led the October Revolution

Not found in Lenin's Collected Works. Began to surface on the internet in the mid-1990s.
Misattributed
Variant: One man with a gun can control a hundred without one.

Henry Rollins photo

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”

Henry Rollins (1961) American singer-songwriter

Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.

Khalil Gibran photo

“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”

The Prophet (1923)

Sad quotes

Ernest Hemingway photo

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too”

Disputed
Source: Claimed to be from Men Without Women, but it does not appear in that work. May have originated in a 2011 blogpost by Marc Chernoff entitled 30 things to stop doing to yourself http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/11/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/.

Bob Marley photo

“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”

Bob Marley (1945–1981) Jamaican singer, songwriter, musician

Variant: One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.

Franz Kafka photo
Morrissey photo

“There is no such thing in life as normal”

Morrissey (1959) English singer

Ref: en.wikiquote.org - Lauretta Bender / Quotes / 1954 Senate Subcommittee Hearings into Juvenile Delinquency, "Testimony of Dr. Lauretta Bender, senior psychiatrist, Belleveu hospital Newyork N.Y." http://www.thecomicbooks.com/bender.html
From songs

Johnny Depp photo

“You can close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel.”

Johnny Depp (1963) American actor, film producer, and musician

Also attributed to Chester Bennington (singer of Linkin Park)

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Marilyn Monroe photo

“Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”

Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer

Variant: Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.

Alain de Botton photo
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow photo

“If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.”

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807–1882) American poet

Table-Talk (1857)
Source: The Complete Works of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

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Percy Bysshe Shelley photo

“Our sweetest songs are those of saddest thought.”

Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792–1822) English Romantic poet

Source: The Complete Poems

Fannie Flagg photo

“being a successful person is not necessarily defined by what you have achieved, but by what you have overcome.”

Fannie Flagg (1944) American actress, comedian and author

Source: The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion

Zora Neale Hurston photo

“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”

Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937), Ch. 3, p. 21.

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“Depression is the most unpleasant thing I have ever experienced. … It is that absence of being able to envisage that you will ever be cheerful again. The absence of hope.”

Joanne K. Rowling (1965) British novelist, author of the Harry Potter series

2000s
Context: Depression is the most unpleasant thing I have ever experienced. … It is that absence of being able to envisage that you will ever be cheerful again. The absence of hope. That very deadened feeling, which is so very different from feeling sad. Sad hurts but it's a healthy feeling. It's a necessary thing to feel. Depression is very different.

As quoted in "J. K. Rowling : The Interview," by Ann Treneman in The Times (30 June 2000) http://www.accio-quote.org/articles/2000/0600-times-treneman.html

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Jane Austen photo

“Life seems but a quick succession of busy nothings.”

Dinner was soon followed by tea and coffee, a ten miles' drive home allowed no waste of hours; and from the time of their sitting down to table, it was a quick succession of busy nothings till the carriage came to the door, and Mrs. Norris, having fidgeted about, and obtained a few pheasants' eggs and a cream cheese from the housekeeper, and made abundance of civil speeches to Mrs. Rushworth, was ready to lead the way.
Misattributed
Source: Said by Fanny Price in a 1999 adaptation of Mansfield Park. Actual quote:

Miguel de Unamuno photo

“It is sad not to be loved, but it is much sadder not to be able to love.”

Miguel de Unamuno (1864–1936) 19th-20th century Spanish writer and philosopher

To a Young Writer

John Lennon photo
Albert Einstein photo

“The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.”

Albert Einstein (1879–1955) German-born physicist and founder of the theory of relativity
Arthur Schopenhauer photo

“Mostly it is loss which teaches us about the worth of things.”

Meistens belehrt uns erst der Verlust über den Wert der Dinge.
Source: Parerga and Paralipomena (1851), Aphorisms on the Wisdom of Life

Leonard Cohen photo

“Love is not a victory march
It's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah”

Leonard Cohen (1934–2016) Canadian poet and singer-songwriter

Source: Songs of Leonard Cohen, Herewith: Music, Words and Photographs

Suzanne Collins photo

“You don't forget the face of the person who was your last hope.”

Katniss Everdeen, p. 85
Source: The Hunger Games trilogy, The Hunger Games (2008)

Thomas Aquinas photo

“To love is to will the good of the other.”

II-II, q. 26, art. 6
Summa Theologica (1265–1274)

Eleanor Roosevelt photo
Pablo Neruda photo

“Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.”

"Tonight I Can Write" (Puedo Escribir), XX, p. 49.
Source: Veinte Poemas de Amor y una Canción Desesperada (Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair) (1924)

Brigitte Bardot photo

“It is sad to grow old but nice to ripen.”

Brigitte Bardot (1934) French model, actor, singer and animal rights activist
Friedrich Nietzsche photo
Vladimir Nabokov photo
Eleanor Roosevelt photo

“There are no have-to's, just choices”

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States
Albert Schweitzer photo

“The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.”

Albert Schweitzer (1875–1965) French-German physician, theologian, musician and philosopher

Variant: The tragedy in a man’s life is what dies inside of him while he lives.

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Eckhart Tolle photo
Eckhart Tolle photo
Oscar Wilde photo
Oscar Wilde photo
Oscar Wilde photo

“Art is the only serious thing in the world. And the artist is the only person who is never serious.”

Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish writer and poet

A Few Maxims for the Instruction of the Over-Educated (1894)

Virginia Woolf photo
Virginia Woolf photo
Carlos Ruiz Zafón photo
Rumi photo

“Do not grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.”

Rumi (1207–1273) Iranian poet

"Unmarked boxes" /Ode#1937
Disputed, The Essential Rumi (1995)

C.G. Jung photo

“Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.”

C.G. Jung (1875–1961) Swiss psychiatrist and psychotherapist who founded analytical psychology

"The Art of Living", interview with journalist Gordon Young first published in 1960
Variant: [T]here are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word "happy" would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.

C.G. Jung photo
Victor Hugo photo
Pearl S.  Buck photo
Paulo Coelho photo

“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by

Alfred, Lord Tennyson photo
André Gide photo

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”

André Gide (1869–1951) French novelist and essayist

Frequently misattributed to Marilyn Monroe or Kurt Cobain.
Source: https://books.google.com/books?id=xUtdDnEhkMMC&pg=PT12&lpg=PT12#v=onepage&q&f=false
Source: Autumn Leaves, Philosophical eLibrary, 2012, (Feuillets d'automne, 1941, trans. Jeanine Parisier Plottel)

Helen Keller photo
Ned Vizzini photo
George Gordon Byron photo

“The heart will break, but broken live on.”

George Gordon Byron (1788–1824) English poet and a leading figure in the Romantic movement

Variant: And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on.

John F. Kennedy photo
Haruki Murakami photo
Jonathan Safran Foer photo
Benjamin Disraeli photo

“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end.”

Benjamin Disraeli (1804–1881) British Conservative politician, writer, aristocrat and Prime Minister

Book 4, chapter 1. Often misquoted as "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end".
Books, Coningsby (1844), Henrietta Temple (1837)

Marya Hornbacher photo
David Levithan photo
Fannie Flagg photo

“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”

Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

George Eliot photo
Stephen R. Covey photo

“The way we see the problem is the problem.”

Stephen R. Covey (1932–2012) American educator, author, businessman and motivational speaker
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“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”

Axel Munthe (1857–1949) Swedish physician

Source: supanet.com/find/famous-quotes-by/axel-munthe/a-man-can-stand-a-lot-as-fqb50991/

Stephen Chbosky photo

“It's much easier not to know things sometimes.”

Variant: It’s much easier not to know things sometimes.
Source: The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Washington Irving photo
Jonathan Safran Foer photo
John Steinbeck photo

“None of it is important or all of it is.”

Introduction
The Log from the Sea of Cortez (1951)
Context: "... Let us go," we said, "into the Sea of Cortez, realizing that we become forever a part of it; that our rubber boots slogging through a flat of eel-grass, that the rocks we turn over in a tide pool, make us truly and permanently a factor in the ecology of the region. We shall take something away from it, but we shall leave something too." And if we seem a small factor in a huge pattern, nevertheless it is of relative importance. We take a tiny colony of soft corals from a rock in a little water world. And that isn't terribly important to the tide pool. Fifty miles away the Japanese shrimp boats are dredging with overlapping scoops, bringing up tons of shrimps, rapidly destroying the species so that it may never come back, and with the species destroying the ecological balance of the whole region. That isn't very important in the world. And thousands of miles away the great bombs are falling and the stars are not moved thereby. None of it is important or all of it is.

Washington Irving photo
William Wordsworth photo

“If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.”

William Wordsworth (1770–1850) English Romantic poet

Actually Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, Driftwood (1857)
Misattributed

David Bowie photo

“As long as there's me
As long as there's you”

David Bowie (1947–2016) British musician, actor, record producer and arranger

"Where Are We Now?" (2013)
Song lyrics, The Next Day (2013)
Context: Where are we now?
Where are we now?
The moment you know
You know, you know
As long as there's sun
As long as there's sun
As long as there's rain
As long as there's rain
As long as there's fire
As long as there's fire
As long as there's me
As long as there's you

Edna St. Vincent Millay photo
Katherine Paterson photo

“The love that is not all pain is not all love.”

Antonio Porchia (1885–1968) Italian Argentinian poet

El amor que no es todo dolor, no es todo amor.
Voces (1943)

Bette Davis photo
Alexander Smith photo

“The saddest thing that befalls a soul
Is when it loses faith in God and woman.”

Alexander Smith (1829–1867) Scottish poet and essayist

Scene 12.
A Life Drama and other Poems (1853)

Jim Butcher photo