“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”
Hermann Hesse book Narcissus and Goldmund
Narcissus and Goldmund (1930)
A collection of quotes on the topic of sad quotes, heartbreaking, heart, love.
“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”
Hermann Hesse book Narcissus and Goldmund
Narcissus and Goldmund (1930)
“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”
Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States
Source: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 29–30
Context: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." … You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
“It's easier to build strong children then repair broken men.”
Frederick Douglass (1818–1895) American social reformer, orator, writer and statesman
Variant: It is easier to build strong men, than to repair broken ones.
Source: Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass
“There is no remedy for love but to love more.”
Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862) 1817-1862 American poet, essayist, naturalist, and abolitionist
Variant: The only remedy for love is to love more.
“The friendship that can cease has never been real.”
Amicitia quae desinere potest vera numquam fuit.
Jerome (345–420) Catholic saint and Doctor of the Church
Letter 3
Letters
“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”
Jean De La Fontaine (1621–1695) French poet, fabulist and writer.
“The course of true love never did run smooth.”
William Shakespeare A Midsummer Night's Dream
Lysander, Act I, scene i.
Source: A Midsummer Night's Dream (1595)
“The heart will break, but broken live on.”
George Gordon Byron (1788–1824) English poet and a leading figure in the Romantic movement
Variant: And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on.
“Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer
“The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.”
Bob Marley (1945–1981) Jamaican singer, songwriter, musician
Variant: The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.
“In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends.”
Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929–1968) American clergyman, activist, and leader in the American Civil Rights Movement
1960s, The Trumpet of Conscience (1967)
Variant: In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”
Henry Rollins (1961) American singer-songwriter
Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.
“There's a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go.”
Tennessee Williams (1911–1983) American playwright
“Everybody said, "Follow your heart". I did, it got broken”
Agatha Christie (1890–1976) English mystery and detective writer
“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
Khalil Gibran book The Prophet
The Prophet (1923)
“It is sad not to be loved, but it is much sadder not to be able to love.”
Miguel de Unamuno (1864–1936) 19th-20th century Spanish writer and philosopher
To a Young Writer
“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”
Mark Twain (1835–1910) American author and humorist
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable.”
Neil Gaiman (1960) English fantasy writer
The character "Rose Walker" in The Sandman #65
Context: Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up a whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' or 'how very perceptive' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love. I hate love.
Mary Oliver (1935–2019) American writer
"In Blackwater Woods"
American Primitive (1983)
Source: New and Selected Poems, Vol. 1
“Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”
Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer
Variant: Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.
“To love is to will the good of the other.”
Thomas Aquinas book Summa Theologica
II-II, q. 26, art. 6
Summa Theologica (1265–1274)
Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States
Source: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 29–30
Context: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." … You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Paulo Coelho book Manuscript Found in Accra
Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by
“She took a step and didn't want to take any more, but she did.”
Markus Zusak book The Book Thief
Source: The Book Thief
“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end.”
Benjamin Disraeli (1804–1881) British Conservative politician, writer, aristocrat and Prime Minister
Book 4, chapter 1. Often misquoted as "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end".
Books, Coningsby (1844), Henrietta Temple (1837)
“I am hopelessly in love with a memory.
An echo from another time, another place.”
Michel Foucault (1926–1984) French philosopher
“Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. ”
Alfred, Lord Tennyson (1809–1892) British poet laureate
“There is, in the end, the letting go.”
Marya Hornbacher book Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia
Source: Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia
“If there is a good will, there is great way.”
William Shakespeare (1564–1616) English playwright and poet
“Breathing is hard. When you cry so much, it makes you realize that breathing is hard.”
David Levithan book Love Is the Higher Law
Source: Love Is the Higher Law
“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.”
Nicholas Sparks (1965) American writer and novelist
“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”
Fannie Flagg book Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe
Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe
“The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.”
Robert B. Cialdini (1945) American social psychologist
Source: Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion
“Pain is always emotional. Fear and depression keep constant company with chronic hurting.”
Siri Hustvedt (1955) novelist, essayist, poet
Source: The Shaking Woman, or A History of My Nerves
“It will never rain roses: when we want to have more roses, we must plant more roses.”
George Eliot (1819–1880) English novelist, journalist and translator
“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”
Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States
“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
William Shakespeare (1564–1616) English playwright and poet
“The question is—what is the question?”
John Archibald Wheeler (1911–2008) American physicist
Leonard Susskind, The Black Hole War (2008), chapter 13
“Hearts are not to be had as a gift, hearts are to be earned.”
W.B. Yeats (1865–1939) Irish poet and playwright
“What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you.”
Richard Wilbur (1921–2017) American poet
"Opposites" (1973)
Source: Opposites, More Opposites, and a Few Differences
“Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
Bette Davis (1908–1989) film and television actress from the United States
“Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.”
Washington Irving (1783–1859) writer, historian and diplomat from the United States
Attributed to Irving as early as 1883. [Hit and miss : a story of real life, Angie Stewart, Manly, Chicago, J.L. Regan, 1883, i, http://hdl.handle.net/2027/osu.32435018229575?urlappend=%3Bseq=7] However, it does not seem to appear in Irving's known works. Other citations from the same year leave the quotation unattributed. [Henry S. (ed.), Clubb, The Peacemaker and Court of Arbitration, Volume 1, Universal Peace Union, 1883, 125, Philadelphia, https://books.google.com/books?id=Uu84AQAAMAAJ&pg=PA125] [The Australian Women's Magazine and Domestic Journal, Vol. 2 No. 2 (May 1883), 1883, Melbourne, 435, https://books.google.com/books?id=mq0sAQAAMAAJ&pg=PA435]. A similar passage is found in a pseudonymous novel published two years earlier in 1881: "Julia knew that sacrifices to patience are not in vain. Although they often do not produce the happiness for which they are made, they will, always, flow back and soften and purify the heart of the one who makes them". [Illma, Or, Which was Wife?, Miss, M.L.A., Cornwell & Johnson, 1881, 239, New York, http://hdl.handle.net/2027/osu.32435017658592?urlappend=%3Bseq=245]
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“Hearts are breakable and I think even when you heal, you're never what you were before.”
Cassandra Clare book City of Fallen Angels
Source: City of Fallen Angels, character Isabelle
“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”
Haruki Murakami book What I Talk About When I Talk About Running
Source: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running
“I know my heart will never be the same
But I'm telling myself I'll be okay”
Sara Evans (1971) American country singer and songwriter
“To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.”
Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist
1920s, Marriage and Morals (1929)
“I like the saying "The world is as you are."”
David Lynch book Catching the Big Fish
The Circle, p. 21
Catching the Big Fish (2006)
Context: I like the saying "The world is as you are." And I think films are as you are. That's why, although the frames of a film are always the same — the same number, in the same sequence, with the same sounds — every screening is different. The difference is sometimes subtle but it's there. It depends on the audience. There is a circle that goes from the audience to the film and back. Each person is looking and thinking and feeling and coming up with his or her own sense of things. And it's probably different from what I fell in love with.
So you don’t know how it's going to hit people. But if you thought about how it's going to hit people, or if it's going to hurt someone, or if it's going to do this or do that, then you would have to stop making films. You just do these things that you fall in love with, and you never know what's going to happen.
“Happiness is the china shop; love is the bull.”
H.L. Mencken (1880–1956) American journalist and writer
“It's just a matter of willpower. The day you decide it's over, it's over. You never get over it.”
Junot Díaz book This Is How You Lose Her
Source: This Is How You Lose Her
“The cure for a broken heart is simple, my lady. A hot bath and a good night's sleep.”
Margaret George (1943) American writer
Source: Mary Queen of Scotland and The Isles
“I did the searching and remembering, she did the disappearing and the forgetting.”
Ann Brashares book My Name is Memory
Source: My Name Is Memory
“For my part, I prefer my heart to be broken. It is so lovely, dawn-kaleidoscopic within the crack.”
D.H. Lawrence (1885–1930) English novelist, poet, playwright, essayist, literary critic and painter
“The lessons of life amount not to wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.”
Wallace Stegner book The Spectator Bird
Variant: Most things break, including hearts. The lessons of life amount not to
wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.
Source: The Spectator Bird
“We tiptoed around each other like heartbreaking new friends.”
Jack Kerouac book On the Road
Source: On the Road
“Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.”
Langston Hughes (1902–1967) American writer and social activist
"Dreams," from the anthology Golden Slippers: An Anthology of Negro Poetry for Young Readers, ed. Arna Bontemps (1941)
“There's beauty, heartbreaking beauty, everywhere.”
Edward Abbey (1927–1989) American author and essayist
"The Ancient Dust", page 153
Beyond the Wall: Essays from the Outside (1984)
“Sharp are the arrows of a broken heart.”
Cassandra Clare book City of Heavenly Fire
Source: City of Heavenly Fire
“Only time can heal your broken heart. Just as only time can heal his broken arms and legs.”
Jim Henson (1936–1990) American puppeteer
“Always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie”
Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer
Variant: Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will?
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807–1882) American poet
Hyperion http://www.gutenberg.org/etext/5436, Bk. III, Ch. IV (1839). <br class="br">Variant: Believe me, every heart has its secret sorrows, which the world knows not, and oftentimes we call a man cold, when he is only sad. <br class="br">Context: "Ah! this beautiful world!" said Flemming, with a smile. "Indeed, I know not what to think of it. Sometimes it is all gladness and sunshine, and Heaven itself lies not far off. And then it changes suddenly; and is dark and sorrowful, and clouds shut out the sky. In the lives of the saddest of us, there are bright days like this, when we feel as if we could take the great world in our arms and kiss it. Then come the gloomy hours, when the fire will neither burn on our hearths nor in our hearts; and all without and within is dismal, cold, and dark. Believe me, every heart has its secret sorrows, which the world knows not, and oftentimes we call a man cold, when he is only sad."
“The difference between friendship and love is how much you can hurt each other.”
Ashleigh Brilliant (1933) American author and cartoonist
Jonathan Safran Foer book Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close
Variant: There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me. (p. 181)
Source: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (2005), p. 181
Diana Peterfreund (1979) American writer
Source: For Darkness Shows the Stars
“Just because you fail once doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything.”
Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer
“Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable.
- Wizard”
L. Frank Baum book The Wonderful Wizard of Oz
Source: The Wonderful Wizard of Oz
“but back then, in those first days, I was so alone that every day was like eating my own heart.”
Junot Díaz book This Is How You Lose Her
Source: This Is How You Lose Her
“You may be hurt if you love too much, but you will live in misery if you love too little.”
Napoleon Hill (1883–1970) American author
Source: Napoleon Hill's Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success
“The discovery that heartbreak is indeed heartbreaking consoles us about our humanity.”
Lionel Shriver book We Need to Talk About Kevin
Source: We Need to Talk About Kevin