“It isn't what we say or think that defines us, but what we do.”
Jane Austen book Sense and Sensibility
Variant: It is not what we think or feel that makes us who we are. It is what we do. Or fail to do...
Source: Sense and Sensibility
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Jane Austen was an English novelist who is best known for her six novels, which offer a critique of the British landed gentry in the 18th century. Her works primarily explore the role of women in society and their reliance on marriage for social standing and financial security. Austen's novels, characterized by their social commentary, realism, and clever irony, have garnered praise from critics and scholars alike.
Although Austen's novels, such as Sense and Sensibility, Pride and Prejudice, Mansfield Park, and Emma, were initially met with modest success during her lifetime, they did not bring her much fame. She also wrote two other novels, Northanger Abbey and Persuasion, which were published posthumously in 1818. Additionally, she left behind several volumes of juvenile writings as well as an unfinished novel called Sanditon. However, after her death in 1817, her novels gained recognition when they were republished in Richard Bentley's Standard Novels series in 1833. Since then, Austen's works have enjoyed widespread acclaim and popularity among readers.
Austen's literary legacy extends beyond the written word. Her novels have served as inspiration for numerous critical essays and have been included in various literary anthologies. Moreover, her stories have been adapted into several films over the years, such as Pride and Prejudice (1940), Sense and Sensibility (1995), and Love & Friendship (2016). Despite her supposed uneventful life during her time, Jane Austen's insightful portrayal of societal expectations continues to captivate audiences even today.

“It isn't what we say or think that defines us, but what we do.”
Jane Austen book Sense and Sensibility
Variant: It is not what we think or feel that makes us who we are. It is what we do. Or fail to do...
Source: Sense and Sensibility
“I could easily forgive his pride, if he had not mortified mine.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbors and laugh at them in our turn?”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice (1813)
Jane Austen book Sense and Sensibility
Variant: Mama, the more I know of the world, the more I am convinced that I shall never see a man whom I can really love.
Source: Sense and Sensibility
“Friendship is really the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.”
Jane Austen book Northanger Abbey
Variant: Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.
Source: Northanger Abbey
“To be fond of dancing was a certain step towards falling in love.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice (1813)
“You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope… I have loved none but you.”
Jane Austen book Persuasion
Variant: You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever.
Source: Persuasion
“Life seems but a quick succession of busy nothings.”
Jane Austen book Mansfield Park
Dinner was soon followed by tea and coffee, a ten miles' drive home allowed no waste of hours; and from the time of their sitting down to table, it was a quick succession of busy nothings till the carriage came to the door, and Mrs. Norris, having fidgeted about, and obtained a few pheasants' eggs and a cream cheese from the housekeeper, and made abundance of civil speeches to Mrs. Rushworth, was ready to lead the way.
Misattributed
Source: Said by Fanny Price in a 1999 adaptation of Mansfield Park. Actual quote:
Letter (1811-05-31) referring to the Peninsular War [Letters of Jane Austen -- Brabourne Edition]
Letters
“I do not want people to be very agreeable, as it saves me the trouble of liking them a great deal.”
Letter to Cassandra (1798-12-24) [Letters of Jane Austen -- Brabourne Edition]
Letters
Source: Jane Austen's Letters
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“Till this moment I never knew myself.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.
-Mr. Darcy”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“Mary wished to say something very sensible, but knew not how.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“Business, you know, may bring money, but friendship hardly ever does.”
Jane Austen book Emma
Source: Emma (1815)
“Think only of the past as its remembrance gives you pleasure.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Variant: You must learn some of my philosophy. Think only of the past as its remembrance gives you pleasure.
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“my courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“You must really begin to harden yourself to the idea of being worth looking at.”
Jane Austen book Mansfield Park
Source: Mansfield Park
“How clever you are, to know something of which you are ignorant.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
Variant: In vain I have struggled. It will not do. My feelings will no longer be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.
Source: Pride And Prejudice
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Variant: It's a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.
Source: Pride and Prejudice (1813)
Jane Austen book Persuasion
Variant: But I hate to hear you talking so like a fine gentleman, and as if women were all fine ladies, instead of rational creatures. We none of us expect to be in smooth water all our days.
Source: Persuasion
“Ah! there is nothing like staying at home for real comfort.”
Jane Austen book Emma
Emma (1815)
Works, Emma
“The Very first moment I beheld him, my heart was irrevocably gone.”
Jane Austen book Love and Freindship
Source: Love and Friendship
“I must learn to be content with being happier than I deserve.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Persuasion (1817)
Works, Persuasion
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“I have not the pleasure of understanding you.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“He is a gentleman, and I am a gentleman's daughter. So far we are equal.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“If I could but know his heart, everything would become easy.”
Jane Austen book Sense and Sensibility
Source: Sense and Sensibility
“My good opinion once lost is lost forever.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“A girl likes to be crossed a little in love now and then.
It is something to think of”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“Nothing ever fatigues me, but doing what I do not like.”
Jane Austen book Mansfield Park
Variant: I am very strong. Nothing ever fatigues me, but doing what I do not like.
Source: Mansfield Park
“Her heart did whisper that he had done it for her.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
“The distance is nothing when one has a motive.”
Jane Austen book Pride and Prejudice
Source: Pride and Prejudice
