Hurtful quotes

A collection of quotes on the topic of sad quotes, hurtful, hurt, heartbreaking.

Best hurtful quotes

Hermann Hesse photo

“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”

Narcissus and Goldmund (1930)

Rumi photo
James M. Cain photo

“If you have to do it, you can do it.”

Mildred Pierce

Libba Bray photo

“To live is to love, to love is to live.”

Source: Going Bovine

Charlie Kaufman photo
Florbela Espanca photo

“To live is to not know that one is living”

Florbela Espanca (1894–1930) Portuguese poet

Diary (20 April, 1930), quoted in Afinado desconcerto (2002), p. 262
Context: Sometimes I start looking at the mirror and examining myself, feature by feature: eyes, mouth, shape of the forehead, eyelids curve, the face line... And this vulgar and hideous-looking, grotesque and miserable amalgam, would it know how to do verses? Oh, no! There is something else … but what? After all, why think? To live is to not know that one is living... Why don't I forget that I am living... to live?

Henry Rollins photo

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”

Henry Rollins (1961) American singer-songwriter

Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.

Khalil Gibran photo

“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”

The Prophet (1923)

Vincent Van Gogh photo

“The more you love, the more you suffer”

Vincent Van Gogh (1853–1890) Dutch post-Impressionist painter (1853-1890)

Hurtful quotes

Ernest Hemingway photo

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too”

Disputed
Source: Claimed to be from Men Without Women, but it does not appear in that work. May have originated in a 2011 blogpost by Marc Chernoff entitled 30 things to stop doing to yourself http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/11/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/.

Corrie ten Boom photo
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart photo

“I pay no attention whatever to anybody's praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings.”

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart (1756–1791) Austrian Romantic composer

Unsourced in Musician's Little Book of Wisdom‎ (1996) by Scott E. Power, Quote 416.
Misattributed

Rosa Parks photo
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“From childhood's hour I have not been
As others were — I have not seen
As others saw —”

Edgar Allan Poe (1809–1849) American author, poet, editor and literary critic

" Alone http://gothlupin.tripod.com/valone.html", l. 1-8 (written 1829, published 1875).
Context: From childhood's hour I have not been
As others were — I have not seen
As others saw — I could not bring
My passions from a common spring —
From the same source I have not taken
My sorrow — I could not awaken
My heart to joy at the same tone —
And all I lov'd — I lov'd alone

Washington Irving photo
Paulo Coelho photo

“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by

Thich Nhat Hanh photo
James Baldwin photo

“I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.”

"Me and My House" in Harper's (November 1955); republished in Notes of a Native Son (1955)
Source: The Fire Next Time

“Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship—never.”

Charles Caleb Colton (1777–1832) British priest and writer

Vol. II; LXXXIII
Lacon

Haile Selassie photo

“It is us today. It will be you tomorrow.”

Haile Selassie (1892–1975) Emperor of Ethiopia

Statement after his speech before the League of Nations (30 June 1936), as quoted in " "The Lion is Freed" in TIME magazine (8 September 1975) http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,917777,00.html?iid=chix-sphere

Alfred, Lord Tennyson photo
Jim Morrison photo
Marya Hornbacher photo

“There is, in the end, the letting go.”

Source: Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

Zora Neale Hurston photo

“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”

Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937), Ch. 3, p. 21.

Fannie Flagg photo

“being a successful person is not necessarily defined by what you have achieved, but by what you have overcome.”

Fannie Flagg (1944) American actress, comedian and author

Source: The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion

Nicholas Sparks photo
Fannie Flagg photo

“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”

Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

Lou Holtz photo

“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.”

Lou Holtz (1937) American college football coach, professional football coach, television sports announcer
Greg Behrendt photo

“Being brokenhearted is like having broken ribs. On the outside it looks like nothing's wrong, but every breath hurts.”

Greg Behrendt (1963) American comedian

Source: It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy

Siri Hustvedt photo

“Pain is always emotional. Fear and depression keep constant company with chronic hurting.”

Siri Hustvedt (1955) novelist, essayist, poet

Source: The Shaking Woman, or A History of My Nerves

Jean Paul Sartre photo

“If you're lonely when you're alone, you're in bad company.”

Jean Paul Sartre (1905–1980) French existentialist philosopher, playwright, novelist, screenwriter, political activist, biographer, and …
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Eleanor Roosevelt photo
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Matka Tereza photo

“I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.”

Matka Tereza (1910–1997) Roman Catholic saint of Albanian origin

As quoted in Love Until It Hurts: A Tribute to Mother Teresa and the work of the men and women of the Missionaries of Charity (1980) by Daphne Rae
1980s

Ovid photo
Haruki Murakami photo

“I can bear any pain as long as it has meaning.”

IQ84 (2009-2010)
Source: 1Q84

“Warriors should suffer their pain silently.”

Source: Into the Wild

Joseph Campbell photo

“Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.”

Joseph Campbell (1904–1987) American mythologist, writer and lecturer

Variant: Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.

Ovid photo
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Alain de Botton photo
Reinhold Niebuhr photo

“The will-to-live becomes the will-to-power.”

Reinhold Niebuhr (1892–1971) American protestant theologian

Source: (1932), p.1

Phil Collins photo

“The world is in your hands, now use it.”

Phil Collins (1951) English musician, songwriter and actor

"Dance Into the Light"

Sophocles photo
Nagarjuna photo

“I am not, I will not be.
I have not, I will not have.”

Nagarjuna (150–250) Indian philosopher

That frightens all the childish
And extinguishes fear in the wise.

§ 26
Major attributed works, Ratnāvalī (Precious Garland)

Prevale photo

“The opportunity of your life, it's you.”

Prevale (1983) Italian DJ and producer

Original: ​(it) L'occasione della tua vita, sei tu.
Source: prevale.net

Alain de Botton photo
Gabrielle Zevin photo

“They should tell you when you’re born: have a suitcase heart, be ready to travel.”

Variant: Have a suitcase heart, be ready to travel.
Source: Memoirs of a Teenage Amnesiac

Clive Barker photo
F. Scott Fitzgerald photo
Muhammad Ali photo
Jodi Picoult photo
Marilyn Monroe photo

“Most men judge your importance in their lives by how much you can hurt them.”

Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer

Source: My Story

John Irving photo
John Steinbeck photo

“If you're in trouble, or hurt or need - go to the poor people. They're the only ones that'll help - the only ones.”

Variant: If you're in trouble or hurt or need–go to poor people. They're the only ones that'll help–the only ones.
Source: The Grapes of Wrath

Cheryl Strayed photo

“I can be hurt, she said, only by people I respect.”

Mary Balogh (1944) Welsh-Canadian novelist

Source: Then Comes Seduction

Charles Bukowski photo

“sometimes it's hard to know
what to
do.”

Charles Bukowski (1920–1994) American writer

Source: You Get So Alone at Times That it Just Makes Sense

“Our spirit is mightier than the filth of our memories.”

Melina Marchetta (1965) Australian teen writer

Source: Quintana of Charyn

Marcus Aurelius photo

“Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been.”

Marcus Aurelius (121–180) Emperor of Ancient Rome

Source: The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage

Karen Marie Moning photo

“You are what you are. Find a way to live with it.”

Karen Marie Moning (1964) author

Source: Burned

Jodi Picoult photo
Terry Brooks photo
Eudora Welty photo
Richelle Mead photo
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Jonathan Safran Foer photo

“There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me.”

Variant: There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me. (p. 181)
Source: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (2005), p. 181

Nicholas Sparks photo

“Either give me your hand, or end it now, and put us both out of our misery”

Judith McNaught (1944) American writer

Source: Paradise

Jane Austen photo
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow photo

“A torn jacket is soon mended; but hard words bruise the heart of a child.”

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807–1882) American poet

Table-Talk (1857)

Reba McEntire photo
Sharon Shinn photo

“A truth that no one knows is still the truth.”

Sharon Shinn (1957) American science fiction writer

Source: Jenna Starborn

Marianne Williamson photo
Harriet Beecher Stowe photo

“The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.”

Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811–1896) Abolitionist, author

Source: Little Foxes (1865), Ch. 3.
Source: Little Foxes: Or, the Insignificant Little Habits Which Mar Domestic Happiness

Elie Wiesel photo

“What hurts the victim most is not the cruelty of the oppressor but the silence of the bystander.”

In an interview with Carol Rittner and Sandra Meyers in Courage To Care - Rescuers of Jews during the Holocaust, NYU Press, 1986, p. 2. Also quoted by Yad Vashem http://www.yadvashem.org/righteous/about-the-program.html and Nicholas Kristoff in The Silence of the Bystanders https://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/19/opinion/the-silence-of-bystanders.html, New York Times (March 19, 2006).
Source: Night

Lena Horne photo

“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.”

Lena Horne (1917–2010) American singer, actress, civil rights activist and dancer

Variant: It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.

Graham Greene photo
Melissa de la Cruz photo
Yann Martel photo
L. Frank Baum photo

“Withhold a smile only when the smile can hurt someone. Otherwise, let it bloom forth in a riot.”

Vera Nazarian (1966) American writer

Source: The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration