Hurtful quotes
A collection of quotes on the topic of sad quotes, hurtful, hurt, heartbreaking.
Best hurtful quotes

“To live is to not know that one is living”
Diary (20 April, 1930), quoted in Afinado desconcerto (2002), p. 262
Context: Sometimes I start looking at the mirror and examining myself, feature by feature: eyes, mouth, shape of the forehead, eyelids curve, the face line... And this vulgar and hideous-looking, grotesque and miserable amalgam, would it know how to do verses? Oh, no! There is something else … but what? After all, why think? To live is to not know that one is living... Why don't I forget that I am living... to live?

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”
Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.

“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
The Prophet (1923)

“The more you love, the more you suffer”
Hurtful quotes

“Hold everything in your hands lightly, otherwise it hurts when God pries your fingers open.”

“There's a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go.”

“I pay no attention whatever to anybody's praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings.”
Unsourced in Musician's Little Book of Wisdom (1996) by Scott E. Power, Quote 416.
Misattributed

“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”

“From childhood's hour I have not been
As others were — I have not seen
As others saw —”
" Alone http://gothlupin.tripod.com/valone.html", l. 1-8 (written 1829, published 1875).
Context: From childhood's hour I have not been
As others were — I have not seen
As others saw — I could not bring
My passions from a common spring —
From the same source I have not taken
My sorrow — I could not awaken
My heart to joy at the same tone —
And all I lov'd — I lov'd alone

“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by

“One thing you can't hide - is when you're crippled inside.”
“Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship—never.”
Vol. II; LXXXIII
Lacon

“It is us today. It will be you tomorrow.”
Statement after his speech before the League of Nations (30 June 1936), as quoted in " "The Lion is Freed" in TIME magazine (8 September 1975) http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,917777,00.html?iid=chix-sphere

“Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. ”

“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”
Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937), Ch. 3, p. 21.

Source: The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion

“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.”

“For it is in giving that we receive.”

“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”
Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.”

“Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them.”
Source: Adam Bede (1859)

Source: It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy

“Pain is always emotional. Fear and depression keep constant company with chronic hurting.”
Source: The Shaking Woman, or A History of My Nerves

“If you're lonely when you're alone, you're in bad company.”

“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”

“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”

“I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.”
As quoted in Love Until It Hurts: A Tribute to Mother Teresa and the work of the men and women of the Missionaries of Charity (1980) by Daphne Rae
1980s

“I can bear any pain as long as it has meaning.”
IQ84 (2009-2010)
Source: 1Q84

“Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.”
Variant: Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.

“I am suffocated and lost when I have not the bright feeling of progression.”

“And nothing on earth consumes a man more quickly than the passion of resentment.”
"Why I Am So Wise", 6
Ecce Homo (1888)

“no expectations, no disappointments!”
Sleeping with Strangers

“The will-to-live becomes the will-to-power.”
Source: (1932), p.1

“The world is in your hands, now use it.”
"Dance Into the Light"

“One word
Frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
That word is love.”
Source: Oedipus at Colonus, Line 1616–18

“I am not, I will not be.
I have not, I will not have.”
That frightens all the childish
And extinguishes fear in the wise.
§ 26
Major attributed works, Ratnāvalī (Precious Garland)

“The opportunity of your life, it's you.”
Original: (it) L'occasione della tua vita, sei tu.
Source: prevale.net

“They should tell you when you’re born: have a suitcase heart, be ready to travel.”
Variant: Have a suitcase heart, be ready to travel.
Source: Memoirs of a Teenage Amnesiac

“Most men judge your importance in their lives by how much you can hurt them.”
Source: My Story

“Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect.”
“I can be hurt, she said, only by people I respect.”
Source: Then Comes Seduction

“sometimes it's hard to know
what to
do.”
Source: You Get So Alone at Times That it Just Makes Sense

“People need hard times and oppression to develop psychic muscles.”
“Our spirit is mightier than the filth of our memories.”
Source: Quintana of Charyn

“Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been.”
Source: The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Adversity to Advantage

“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.”

“Hurt leads to bitterness, bitterness to anger. Travel too far that road and the way is lost.”
Source: The Elfstones of Shannara

“The excursion is the same when you go looking for your sorrow as when you go looking for your joy.”

“The difference between friendship and love is how much you can hurt each other.”
“Either give me your hand, or end it now, and put us both out of our misery”
Source: Paradise

“… when pain is over, the remembrance of it often becomes a pleasure.”
Source: Persuasion

“A torn jacket is soon mended; but hard words bruise the heart of a child.”
Table-Talk (1857)

“A truth that no one knows is still the truth.”
Source: Jenna Starborn

“The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.”
Source: Little Foxes (1865), Ch. 3.
Source: Little Foxes: Or, the Insignificant Little Habits Which Mar Domestic Happiness

“What hurts the victim most is not the cruelty of the oppressor but the silence of the bystander.”
In an interview with Carol Rittner and Sandra Meyers in Courage To Care - Rescuers of Jews during the Holocaust, NYU Press, 1986, p. 2. Also quoted by Yad Vashem http://www.yadvashem.org/righteous/about-the-program.html and Nicholas Kristoff in The Silence of the Bystanders https://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/19/opinion/the-silence-of-bystanders.html, New York Times (March 19, 2006).
Source: Night

“It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.”
Variant: It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.

“In any relationship in which two people become one, the end result is two half people.”

“It's always funny until someone gets hurt.
Then it's just hilarious.”
“Withhold a smile only when the smile can hurt someone. Otherwise, let it bloom forth in a riot.”
Source: The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration