“I thought I'd lie on the floor and writhe in pain for awhile. It relaxes me.”
Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes
Jace to Alec, pg. 318
Source: The Mortal Instruments, City of Ashes (2008)
“I thought I'd lie on the floor and writhe in pain for awhile. It relaxes me.”
Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes
Jace to Alec, pg. 318
Source: The Mortal Instruments, City of Ashes (2008)
“The deeper the feeling, the greater the pain”
Leonardo Da Vinci (1452–1519) Italian Renaissance polymath
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
“Where there is anger there is always pain underneath.”
Eckhart Tolle book The Power of Now
Source: The Power of Now
“Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.”
Joseph Campbell (1904–1987) American mythologist, writer and lecturer
Variant: Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.
“The bad part is life continues. The good part is that the pain goes away.”
Mary Balogh (1944) Welsh-Canadian novelist
Source: The Devil's Web
Marshall B. Rosenberg (1934–2015) American psychologist
Source: Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
“Do you think it takes true pain to experience true pleasure?”
Gena Showalter (1975) American writer
Source: Oh My Goth
Sadhguru book Inner Engineering: A Yogi's Guide to Joy
Source: Inner Engineering: A Yogi's Guide to Joy
Paulo Coelho book By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
Source: By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”
Haruki Murakami book What I Talk About When I Talk About Running
Source: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running
Terry Pratchett (1948–2015) English author
Source: Good Omens: The Nice and Accurate Prophecies of Agnes Nutter, Witch
Anthony de Mello (1931–1987) Indian writer
Healing
One Minute Wisdom (1989)
Source: Awareness: A de Mello Spirituality Conference in His Own Words
Brené Brown (1965) US writer and professor
Source: The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
“Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.”
Cecelia Ahern book Thanks for the Memories
Source: Thanks for the Memories
Lois Lowry book The Giver
Variant: The worse part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared.
Source: The Giver
“There is darkness in light, there is pain in joy, and there are thorns on the rose.”
Cate Tiernan (1961) American novelist
“Pain or love or danger makes you real again….”
Jack Kerouac book The Dharma Bums
Source: The Dharma Bums
David Lynch (1946) American filmmaker, television director, visual artist, musician and occasional actor
“The only thing more painful than being an active forgetter is to be an inert rememberer.”
Jonathan Safran Foer book Everything Is Illuminated
Variant: The only thing worse than being sad is for others to know you are sad.
Source: Everything Is Illuminated
“One fire burns out another's burning,
One pain is lessen'd by another's anguish.”
William Shakespeare book Romeo and Juliet
Source: Romeo and Juliet
“Neurosis is the natural by-product of pain avoidance.”
C.G. Jung (1875–1961) Swiss psychiatrist and psychotherapist who founded analytical psychology
“The blood of love welled up in my heart with a slow pain.”
Sylvia Plath (1932–1963) American poet, novelist and short story writer
1950-07-17 http://books.guardian.co.uk/firstchapters/story/0,6761,222716,00.html <br class="br">The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath (2000) <br class="br">Source: The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath
“Today in my heart
a vague trembling of stars
and all roses are
as white as my pain.”
Federico García Lorca (1898–1936) Spanish poet, dramatist and theatre director
“Pain is an event. It happens to you, and you deal with it in whatever way you can.”
Hugh Laurie book The Gun Seller
Source: The Gun Seller
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
“Pain means you're alive. Pain is good. Pain is life.”
Barry Lyga (1971) American writer
Source: Blood of My Blood
Antonin Artaud (1896–1948) French-Occitanian poet, playwright, actor and theatre director
Source: Lettres à Génica Athanasiou
Dorothy Parker (1893–1967) American poet, short story writer, critic and satirist
Source: Enough Rope
“Fear is pain arising from the anticipation of evil.”
Aristotle (-384–-321 BC) Classical Greek philosopher, student of Plato and founder of Western philosophy
C.G. Jung (1875–1961) Swiss psychiatrist and psychotherapist who founded analytical psychology
Source: The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious
Masaru Emoto (1943–2014) Japanese writer
Source: The Hidden Messages in Water
“God is a concept by which we measure our pain.”
John Lennon (1940–1980) English singer and songwriter
"God"
Lyrics, John Lennon/Plastic Ono Band (1970)
“The worst kind of pain is when you're smiling just to stop the tears from falling.”
Hiro Mashima (1977) Japanese manga artist
John Lennon (1940–1980) English singer and songwriter
John Lennon, in "Instant Karma!" (written 27 January 1970)
Lyrics
Context: Instant Karma's gonna get you
Gonna knock you off your feet
Better recognize your brothers
Everyone you meet Why in the world are we here?
Surely not to live in pain and fear
Why on Earth are you there
When you're everywhere
Gonna get your share Well, we all shine on
Like the moon and the stars and the sun
Yeah, we all shine on
C'mon and on and on, on, on
Alan Brennert (1954) American writer
Source: Moloka'i
Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist
Part I: Man and Nature, Ch. 1: Current Perplexities, pp. 4–5
1950s, New Hopes for a Changing World (1951)
Context: Consider MacArthur and his Republican supporters. So limited is his intelligence and his imagination that he is never puzzled for one moment. All we have to do is to go back to the days of the Opium War. After we have killed a sufficient number of millions of Chinese, the survivors among them will perceive our moral superiority and hail MacArthur as a saviour. But let us not be one-sided. Stalin, I should say, is equally simple- minded and equally out of date. He, too, believes that if his armies could occupy Britain and reduce us all to the economic level of Soviet peasants and the political level of convicts, we should hail him as a great deliverer and bless the day when we were freed from the shackles of democracy. One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision.
Klaus Kinski (1926–1991) German actor
Source: Kinski Uncut : The Autobiography of Klaus Kinski (1996), p. 72-73
Context: At a performance everything works out on its own. I've solved the mystery: You have to submit silently. Open up, let go. Let anything penetrate you, even the most painful things. Endure. Bear up. That's the magic key! The text comes by itself, and its meaning shakes the soul. Everything else is taken care of by the life one has to live without sparing oneself. You mustn't let scar tissue form on your wounds; you have to keep ripping them open in order to turn your insides into a marvelous instrument that is capable of anything. All this has its price. I become so sensitive that I can't live under normal conditions. That's why the hours between performances are worst.
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
Haruki Murakami book Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage
Source: Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage
“Some pains are physical, and some pains are mental, but the one that's both is dental.”
Ogden Nash (1902–1971) American poet
May Sarton (1912–1995) American poet, novelist, and memoirist
“Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.”
Perfer et obdura, dolor hic tibi proderit olim.
Ovid (-43–17 BC) Roman poet
Fernando Pessoa (1888–1935) Portuguese poet, writer, literary critic, translator, publisher and philosopher
Source: Poems of Fernando Pessoa
“look for a long time at what pleases you, and longer still at what pains you…”
Colette (1873–1954) 1873-1954 French novelist: wrote Gigi
“He has chosen not to heal me, but to hold me. The more intense the pain, the closer His embrace.”
Joni Eareckson Tada (1949) American artist
Source: A Place of Healing: Wrestling with the Mysteries of Suffering, Pain, and God's Sovereignty
Sita Ram Goel (1921–2003) Indian activist
St. Francis Xavier: The man and his mission. 1985.
Kurt Vonnegut (1922–2007) American writer
Originates in a 2007 blog post by Iain S. Thomas entitled The Fur http://www.iwrotethisforyou.me/2007/08/fur.html <br class="br">Misattributed
“Things have never been so swell
and I have never felt this well! I have never failed to feel… Pain!”
Kurt Cobain (1967–1994) American musician and artist
You Know You're Right.
Song lyrics, Posthumously released (post-1994)
Marcel Proust book In Search of Lost Time
http://books.google.com/books?id=PSmIRcmLPSQC&q=%22illness+is+the+doctor+to+whom+we+pay+most+heed+to+kindness+to+knowledge+we+make+promises+only+pain+we+obey%22&pg=PA131#v=onepage
La maladie est le plus écouté des médecins: à la bonté, au savoir on ne fait que promettre; on obéit à la souffrance.
http://books.google.com/books?id=bfwLAAAAIAAJ&q=%22La+maladie+est+le+plus+%C3%A9cout%C3%A9+des+m%C3%A9decins+%C3%A0+la+bont%C3%A9+au+savoir+on+ne+fait+que+promettre+on+ob%C3%A9it+%C3%A0+la+souffrance%22&pg=PA160#v=onepage
Pt. II, Ch. 1
In Search of Lost Time, Remembrance of Things Past (1913-1927), Vol. IV: Cities of the Plain (1921-1922)
William Empson (1906–1984) English literary critic and poet
"Villanelle" (1928), line 1; cited from John Haffenden (ed.) The Complete Poems (London: Allen Lane, 2000) p. 33.
The Complete Poems
Louis Antoine de Saint-Just (1767–1794) military and political leader
(1794) [Source: Saint-Just, Fragments sur les institutions républicaines]
Aleksandr Pushkin book Eugene Onegin
Eugene Onegin (1823)
Original: (ru) Но так и быть — рукой пристрастной Прими собранье пестрых глав, Полусмешных, полупечальных, Простонародных, идеальных, Небрежный плод моих забав, Бессониц, легких вдохновений, Незрелых и увядших лет, Ума холодных наблюдений И сердца горестных замет.
Phillis Wheatley (1753–1784) American poet
"To a Gentleman and Lady on the Death of the Lady's Brother and Sister, and a Child of the Name of Avis, aged one Year." st. 2, Poems on Various Subjects, Religious and Moral (1773)
Jim Carrey (1962) Canadian-American actor, comedian, and producer
Carrey: 'Life Is Too Beautiful': Star Talks About Bouts With Depression And His Spirituality http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2004/11/18/60minutes/main656547.shtml 60 Minutes (21 November 2004)
Ronald Reagan (1911–2004) American politician, 40th president of the United States (in office from 1981 to 1989)
I will continue to support every effort to restore that protection including the Hyde-Jepsen respect life bill. I've asked for your all-out commitment, for the mighty power of your prayers, so that together we can convince our fellow countrymen that America should, can, and will preserve God's greatest gift. <br class="br"> Remarks at the Annual Convention of the National Religious Broadcasters (30 January 1984) http://www.presidency.ucsb.edu/ws/?pid=40394 · YouTube - Remarks at the Annual Convention of the National Religious Broadcasters https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Elph9CfsKs <br class="br">1980s, First term of office (1981–1985)
Rocky Marciano (1923–1969) American boxer
Reminiscing about his opponents; quoted in "Sept. 17, 1954: Marciano vs Charles" by Eliott McCormick, in The Fight City (17 September 2019) https://www.thefightcity.com/sept-17-1954-marciano-vs-charles-ii-rocky-marciano-ezzard-charles-heavyweight-championship-joe-louis-jersey-joe-walcott/