Quotes about controller
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“You must gain control over your money or the lack of it will forever control you.”
“No one controls your destiny. Even at the very worst - there is always choice.”
Source: Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West
Source: Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West

Source: Radical Sanity: Commonsense Advice for Uncommon Women
Source: Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West

“Got to lose control before you take control.”
“If you can't control your peanut butter, you can't expect to control your life.”
Source: The Authoritative Calvin and Hobbes: A Calvin and Hobbes Treasury

“Power can do everything but the most important thing: it cannot control love.”
Source: Disappointment with God: Three Questions No One Asks Aloud

“Not unlike the toaster, I control darkness.”
Source: You Suck

By The River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept (1994)
Source: By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
Context: Love is much like a dam: if you allow a tiny crack to form through which only a trickle of water can pass, that trickle will quickly bring down the whole structure, and soon no one will be able to control the force of the current. For when those walls come down, then love takes over, and it no longer matters what is possible or impossible; it doesn't even matter whether we can keep the loved one at our side. To love is to lose control.

“Mind control won't work on those who are really hardheaded. You know… Creatures like you.”
Source: Infamous

“My fault, my failure, is not in the passions I have, but in my lack of control of them.”
Not a Kerouac quote, but by Allen Ginsberg in his journal of 30 July 1947. Published in The Book of Martyrdom and Artifice, page 199.
Misattributed

“The art of life is not controlling what happens to us, but using what happens to us”
Source: Caught by the Sea

“We gained control of many things. But we had to let go of others.”
Source: The Giver
“Life comes at us in waves. We can't predict or control those waves, but we can learn to surf”

“If you want to control someone, all you have to do is to make them feel afraid.”
Variant: Fear again. If you want to control someone, all you have to do is to make them feel afraid.
Source: The Devil and Miss Prym


“It is not life that's complicated, it's the struggle to guide and control life.”
Source: This Side of Paradise

“You might have to lose control before you could find out what you'd been missing.”
Source: Nineteen Minutes

“I have not ceased being fearful, but I have ceased to let fear control me.”

“Read, learn, work it up, go to the literature.
Information is control.”
Source: The Year of Magical Thinking
“You can only control your own actions. Not other people’s reactions.”
Source: Something Blue

As quoted in The Story of Our Money (1946) by Olive Cushing Dwinell, p. 71; this is in an author's note following a quote by Alexander Hamilton. After the author's note there is the sentence "From Writings of Madison, previously quoted. Vol. 2, p. 14". This is apparently an editor's error since the note is clearly Dwinell's. See the talk page for more details.
Misattributed

“Politics is the Art of Controlling Your Enviroment.”
Source: Kingdom of Fear: Loathsome Secrets of a Star-Crossed Child in the Final Days of the American Century

Source: Living Beyond Your Feelings: Controlling Emotions So They Don't Control You
“You can't retire to weakness -- you've got to learn to control strength.”
Source: Angle of Repose

“Control leads to compliance; autonomy leads to engagement.”

Source: 1960s, Strength to Love (1963), Ch. 1 : A tough mind and a tender heart
Context: Softmindedness often invades religion. … Softminded persons have revised the Beautitudes to read "Blessed are the pure in ignorance: for they shall see God." This has led to a widespread belief that there is a conflict between science and religion. But this is not true. There may be a conflict between softminded religionists and toughminded scientists, but not between science and religion. … Science investigates; religion interprets. Science gives man knowledge which is power; religion gives man wisdom which is control. Science deals mainly with facts; religion deals mainly with values. The two are not rivals. They are complementary.

“The thinking mind is best controlled by the imagination.”
Source: Illumination and Night Glare: The Unfinished Autobiography of Carson McCullers

Source: The Price of the Ticket: Collected Nonfiction, 1948-1985
“Who wants to be a goddess when we can be human? Perfection is a flaw disguised as control.”
Source: When Women Were Birds: Fifty-four Variations on Voice
Source: Appetites: Why Women Want
“Men are intrigued by anything they do not completly control.”
Source: How to Win Friends and Influence People

“Emotions were like wild horses and it required wisdom to be able to control them”

“Straight people. Why can't they control themselves?”
Alec Lightwood, pg. 533
Source: The Mortal Instruments, City of Heavenly Fire (2014)
As quoted in The Social Dimensions Of Law And Justice In Contemporary India (1979) by V. R. Krishna Iyer
Context: It may be that we are puppets — puppets controlled by the strings of society. But at least we are puppets with perception, with awareness. And perhaps our awareness is the first step to our liberation. The fact that obedience is often a necessity in human society does not diminish our responsibility as citizens. Rather, it confers on us a special obligation to place in positions of authority those most likely to use it humanely. And people are inventive. The variety of political forms we have seen in history are only several of many possible political arrangements. Perhaps the next step is to invent and to explore political forms that will give conscience a better chance to resist errant authority.

1960s, Operating Manual for Spaceship Earth (1963)