Sad quotes
A collection of quotes on the topic of goodbye, depressing, heartbreaking, moving on.
Best sad quotes

“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.”
As quoted in Path for Greatness : Spiritualty at Work (2000) by Linda J. Ferguson, p. 51

“Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.”
Often attributed to Dr. Seuss without citation; also cited as an anonymous proverb.
This quote has also been attributed to Gabriel García Márquez, in Spanish: "No llores porque ya se terminó, sonríe porque sucedió."
Compare lines from In Memoriam A.H.H. of Tennyson:
  'Tis better to have loved and lost
  Than never to have loved at all.
Disputed
Variant: Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

“The funniest people are the saddest ones”

“The way we see the problem is the problem.”

“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”

“The trouble is, you think you have time.”
Source: Buddha's Little Instruction Book

“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.”
Sad quotes

“Normality is a paved road: It’s comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.”

Also attributed to Chester Bennington (singer of Linkin Park)

“The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.”
Variant: The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”
Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.

“There's a time for departure even when there's no certain place to go.”

“The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.”
Variant: The tragedy in a man’s life is what dies inside of him while he lives.

“Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
The Prophet (1923)
“If it's not important for you, then it's not important for me.”
2021

“It is sad not to be loved, but it is much sadder not to be able to love.”
To a Young Writer

“Nothing is more sad than the death of an illusion.”

“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”
Variant: One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.”
Frequently misattributed to Marilyn Monroe or Kurt Cobain.
Source: https://books.google.com/books?id=xUtdDnEhkMMC&pg=PT12&lpg=PT12#v=onepage&q&f=false
Source: Autumn Leaves, Philosophical eLibrary, 2012, (Feuillets d'automne, 1941, trans. Jeanine Parisier Plottel)
"In Blackwater Woods"
American Primitive (1983)
Source: New and Selected Poems, Vol. 1

“If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.”
Source: The Bell Jar (1963), Ch. 5

“Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”
Variant: Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.

2000s
Context: Depression is the most unpleasant thing I have ever experienced. … It is that absence of being able to envisage that you will ever be cheerful again. The absence of hope. That very deadened feeling, which is so very different from feeling sad. Sad hurts but it's a healthy feeling. It's a necessary thing to feel. Depression is very different.
As quoted in "J. K. Rowling : The Interview," by Ann Treneman in The Times (30 June 2000) http://www.accio-quote.org/articles/2000/0600-times-treneman.html

“One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain.”
Source: supanet.com/find/famous-quotes-by/axel-munthe/a-man-can-stand-a-lot-as-fqb50991/

“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by

“One thing you can't hide - is when you're crippled inside.”

“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end.”
Book 4, chapter 1. Often misquoted as "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end".
Books, Coningsby (1844), Henrietta Temple (1837)

Variant: If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man.

“Mostly it is loss which teaches us about the worth of things.”
Meistens belehrt uns erst der Verlust über den Wert der Dinge.
Source: Parerga and Paralipomena (1851), Aphorisms on the Wisdom of Life

“There are no have-to's, just choices”

“Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.”

“A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.”
Variant: A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray

“You don't forget the face of the person who was your last hope.”
Katniss Everdeen, p. 85
Source: The Hunger Games trilogy, The Hunger Games (2008)

“Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. ”

“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”
Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God (1937), Ch. 3, p. 21.

"The Art of Living", interview with journalist Gordon Young first published in 1960
Variant: [T]here are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word "happy" would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.

“Breathing is hard. When you cry so much, it makes you realize that breathing is hard.”
Source: Love Is the Higher Law

“It's much easier not to know things sometimes.”
Variant: It’s much easier not to know things sometimes.
Source: The Perks of Being a Wallflower

St. 18
To a Skylark (1821)
Source: The Complete Poems

Source: The All-Girl Filling Station's Last Reunion

“The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected.”

“Our sweetest songs are those of saddest thought.”
Source: The Complete Poems

“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”
Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

“The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.”
Source: Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

“I couldn’t see the point of getting up. I had nothing to look forward to.”
Source: The Bell Jar

“Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them.”
Source: Adam Bede (1859)

“I didn't want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And that's really sad.”
Source: It's Kind of a Funny Story

“It will never rain roses: when we want to have more roses, we must plant more roses.”

“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”

“Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”

“There is no such thing in life as normal”
Ref: en.wikiquote.org - Lauretta Bender / Quotes / 1954 Senate Subcommittee Hearings into Juvenile Delinquency, "Testimony of Dr. Lauretta Bender, senior psychiatrist, Belleveu hospital Newyork N.Y." http://www.thecomicbooks.com/bender.html
From songs

“Do not grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form.”
"Unmarked boxes" /Ode#1937
Disputed, The Essential Rumi (1995)

“As long as there's me
As long as there's you”
"Where Are We Now?" (2013)
Song lyrics, The Next Day (2013)
Context: Where are we now?
Where are we now?
The moment you know
You know, you know
As long as there's sun
As long as there's sun
As long as there's rain
As long as there's rain
As long as there's fire
As long as there's fire
As long as there's me
As long as there's you

“Liberty means responsibility. That is why most men dread it.”
#25
1900s, Maxims for Revolutionists (1903)
Source: Man and Superman

“Tonight I can write the saddest lines.
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.”
"Tonight I Can Write" (Puedo Escribir), XX, p. 49.
Source: Veinte Poemas de Amor y una Canción Desesperada (Twenty Love Poems and a Song of Despair) (1924)

“Hearts are not to be had as a gift, hearts are to be earned.”

“Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime.”

“The heart will break, but broken live on.”
Variant: And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on.

“Life is to be lived, not controlled.”

“Nothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.”
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Melancholy is the happiness of being sad.”

“Love is not a victory march
It's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah”
Source: Songs of Leonard Cohen, Herewith: Music, Words and Photographs

A Few Maxims for the Instruction of the Over-Educated (1894)

“The tragedy of life is what dies inside a man while he lives.”

“We must find time to stop and thank the people who make a difference in our lives.”

Table-Talk (1857)
Source: The Complete Works of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

“Let us live so that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry.”
Variant: Let us endeavor so to live that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry.
Source: Pudd'nhead Wilson

“Life seems but a quick succession of busy nothings.”
Dinner was soon followed by tea and coffee, a ten miles' drive home allowed no waste of hours; and from the time of their sitting down to table, it was a quick succession of busy nothings till the carriage came to the door, and Mrs. Norris, having fidgeted about, and obtained a few pheasants' eggs and a cream cheese from the housekeeper, and made abundance of civil speeches to Mrs. Rushworth, was ready to lead the way.
Misattributed
Source: Said by Fanny Price in a 1999 adaptation of Mansfield Park. Actual quote:


“no expectations, no disappointments!”
Sleeping with Strangers

“Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it.”
“The love that is not all pain is not all love.”
El amor que no es todo dolor, no es todo amor.
Voces (1943)
“The saddest thing that befalls a soul
Is when it loses faith in God and woman.”
Scene 12.
A Life Drama and other Poems (1853)