Quotes about people
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“You cannot expect to live a positive life if you hang with negative people.”

"Let's Not Climb the Washington Monument Tonight"
Versus (1949)
Source: Complete Poems of Stephen Crane


“Pursuing your passions makes you more interesting, and interesting people are enchanting.”

“I believe people ought to mate for life… like pigeons or Catholics.”
Source: Manhattan

“Looking at the ocean makes me miss people, and hanging out with people makes me miss the ocean.”
Source: Wind/Pinball: Two Novels

“you must be careful with kindness. It's usually mistaken for weakness by stupid people.”
Source: Days of Magic, Nights of War

“the words people do not speak are louder than the ones they do.”
Source: The First Phone Call from Heaven

“People simply feel better about themselves when they’re good at something.”
Source: The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness
Source: Paradise

“Harry: All people know the same truth. Our lives consist of how we choose to distort it.”
Deconstructing Harry (1997)

“Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”
Source: Shadow of the Giant
“Too many people miss the silver lining because they're expecting gold.”
Source: The Haunting of Hill House (1959)
Context: This house, which seemed somehow to have formed itself, flying together into its own powerful pattern under the hands of its builders, fitting itself into its own construction of lines and angles, reared its great head back against the sky without concession to humanity. It was a house without kindness, never meant to be lived in, not a fit place for people or for love or for hope. Exorcism cannot alter the countenance of a house; Hill House would stay as it was until it was destroyed.

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or objects.”
As quoted by Ernst Straus in Einstein: A Centenary Volume by A.P. French (1980), p. 32.
Attributed in posthumous publications
Variant: "if you want to be a happy man, you should tie your life to a goal, not to other people and not to things." A quote from Ernst Straus' memoir of Einstein in Albert Einstein: Historical and Cultural Perspectives edited by Gerald Holton and Yehuda Elkana (1982), p. 420 http://books.google.com/books?id=CNuwE3NL1QgC&lpg=PP1&pg=PA420#v=onepage&q&f=false
“People and their rituals. They cling to things so hard sometimes.”
Source: The Art of Racing in the Rain

Source: The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

Variants (Many of MLKs' speeches were delivered many times with slight variants): An Individual has not started living fully until they can rise above the narrow confines of individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of humanity. Every person must decide at some point, whether they will walk in light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness. This is the judgment: Life's most persistent and urgent question is: 'What are you doing for others?'
As quoted in The Words of Martin Luther King, Jr. by Coretta Scott King, Second Edition (2011), Ch. "Community of Man", p. 3
1950s, Conquering Self-centeredness (1957)

“Some people have a way with words, and other people… oh, uh, not have way.”

“The people one loves should take all their things with them when they die.”

“It is not what happens to people that is significant, but what they think happens to them.”

“I never trust people with no appetite. It's like they're always holding something back on you.”
Source: Hardboiled Wonderland and the End of the World (1985), Chapter 35, Nail Clippers, Butter Sauce, Iron Vase
Source: Hard-Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World

Source: Children of the Future: On the Prevention of Sexual Pathology

“People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of character.”
The Conduct of Life, Chapter 6, “Worship,” p. 214
1860s, The Conduct of Life (1860)

Source: Love, Sexuality and Matriarchy: About Gender

“Politics is not about big money or power games; it's about the improvement of people's lives”

“Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.”
Variant: You can't blame gravity for falling in love.

Source: Secrets of a Summer Night

“You can only understand people if you feel them in yourself.”

“Rich People plan for three generations
Poor people plan for Saturday night”
Source: The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake

“The tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible.”


Source: Love, Lust & Faking It: The Naked Truth About Sex, Lies, and True Romance