Quotes about family
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“Strangers are just family you have yet to come to know.”

The Five People You Meet in Heaven (2003)

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“I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. They are the real heroes, and so are the families and friends who have stood by them.”

Christopher Reeve (1952–2004) actor, director, producer, screenwriter

Still Me (1999); also quoted at the Christopher Reeve Foundation http://www.christopherreeve.org/site/c.geIMLPOpGjF/b.1097025/k.6FF5/Christopher_and_Dana_Reeve.htm
Context: When the first Superman movie came out, I gave dozens of interviews to promote it. The most frequent question was: What is a hero? My answer was that a hero is someone who commits a courageous action without considering the consequences. Now my definition is completely different. I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. They are the real heroes, and so are the families and friends who have stood by them.

“My bookstore obsession grew to the point where I'd search for new shops during family trips, as though that were the reason for our travel.”

Lewis Buzbee (1957) American writer

Source: The Yellow-Lighted Bookshop: A Memoir, a History

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Confucius photo

“The ancients who wished to illustrate illustrious virtue throughout the Kingdom, first ordered well their own states. Wishing to order well their states, they first regulated their families. Wishing to regulate their families, they first cultivated their persons. Wishing to cultivate their persons, they first rectified their hearts. Wishing to rectify their hearts, they first sought to be sincere in their thoughts. Wishing to be sincere in their thoughts, they first extended to the utmost their knowledge. Such extension of knowledge lay in the investigation of things.”

Confucius (-551–-479 BC) Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher

The Analects, The Great Learning
Context: The ancients who wished to illustrate illustrious virtue throughout the Kingdom, first ordered well their own states. Wishing to order well their states, they first regulated their families. Wishing to regulate their families, they first cultivated their persons. Wishing to cultivate their persons, they first rectified their hearts. Wishing to rectify their hearts, they first sought to be sincere in their thoughts. Wishing to be sincere in their thoughts, they first extended to the utmost their knowledge. Such extension of knowledge lay in the investigation of things.
Things being investigated, knowledge became complete. Their knowledge being complete, their thoughts were sincere. Their thoughts being sincere, their hearts were then rectified. Their hearts being rectified, their persons were cultivated. Their persons being cultivated, their families were regulated. Their families being regulated, their states were rightly governed. Their states being rightly governed, the whole kingdom was made tranquil and happy.
From the Son of Heaven down to the mass of the people, all must consider the cultivation of the person the root of everything besides.

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David Levithan photo

“Family, like arsenic, works best in small doses… unless you prefer to die.”

David Levithan (1972) American author and editor

Source: Dash & Lily's Book of Dares

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Robert Frost photo

“Families break up when they get hints you don't intend and miss hints that you do.”

Robert Frost (1874–1963) American poet

As quoted in Bartlett's Book of Love Quotations (1994) <!-- cited either to "Comment" or as a comment, this may have been attributed to Frost at least as early as 1962-->
General sources
Context: The greatest thing in family life is to take a hint when a hint is intended — and not to take a hint when a hint isn't intended.

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Arundhati Roy photo
George Bernard Shaw photo

“If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.”

George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950) Irish playwright

Variant: If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.
Source: Immaturity

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“There is nothing more touching to me then a family picture where everyone is trying to look his or her best, but you can see what a mess they all really are.”

Anne Lamott (1954) Novelist, essayist, memoirist, activist

Source: Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith

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“I had rather be shut up in a very modest cottage with my books, my family and a few old friends, dining on simple bacon, and letting the world roll on as it liked, than to occupy the most splendid post, which any human power can give.”

Thomas Jefferson (1743–1826) 3rd President of the United States of America

Letter to Alexander Donald (7 February 1788)
1780s
Source: Letters of Thomas Jefferson

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Cassandra Clare photo

“When a family breaks you don't hear the crack of the breaking. You don't hear a sound.”

Jude Watson (1956) novelist

Source: Strings Attached

Alan Moore photo

“Me? I'm the king of the twentieth century. I'm the bogeyman. The villain… The black sheep of the family.”

Variant: I'm the king of the 20th century. I'm the boogeyman, the villian, the black sheep of the family.
Source: V for Vendetta

Cassandra Clare photo
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Philip Yancey photo
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Naomi Wolf photo
Cassandra Clare photo
Winston S. Churchill photo
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“We have three kinds of family
1. Those we are born to
2. Those who are born to us
3. And those we let into our hearts”

Sherrilyn Kenyon (1965) Novelist

Variant: Simi? What was it you told me once about families?
We have three kinds of family. Those we are born to, those who are born to us, and those we let into our hearts.
Source: Bad Moon Rising

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Rick Riordan photo
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“I cannot comprehend the neglect of a family library in such days as these."
- Mr. Darcy”

Jane Austen (1775–1817) English novelist

Source: Jane Austen: Pride and Prejudice, Mansfield Park, Persuasion

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“Hey No one makes me do anything. Not my family. Not your family… not even you.”

Ally Carter (1974) American writer

Source: Uncommon Criminals

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“The shared meal elevates eating from a mechanical process of fueling the body to a ritual of family and community, from the mere animal biology to an act of culture.”

Michael Pollan (1955) American author, journalist, activist, and professor of journalism

Source: In Defense of Food: An Eater's Manifesto

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Cassandra Clare photo
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“You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.”

Desmond Tutu (1931) South African churchman, politician, archbishop, Nobel Prize winner

Address at his enthronement as Anglican archbishop of Cape Town (7 September 1986)

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Stephen Colbert photo

“Remember, Jesus would rather constantly shame gays than let orphans have a family.”

Stephen Colbert (1964) American political satirist, writer, comedian, television host, and actor
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“All happy families resemble one another, each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”

Все счастливые семьи похожи друг на друга, каждая несчастливая семья несчастлива по-своему.
Pt. I, ch. 1
Variant translations: Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
All happy families resemble one another; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
Variant: Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
Source: Anna Karenina (1875–1877; 1878)

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Elizabeth Berg photo

“You are born into your family and your family is born into you. No returns. No exchanges.”

Elizabeth Berg (1948) American novelist

Source: The Art of Mending

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Jodi Picoult photo
Jane Austen photo
Hugh Laurie photo
Jim Butcher photo

“We are made of stardust; why not take a few moments to look up at the family album?”

Natalie Angier (1958) American writer

Source: The Canon: A Whirligig Tour of the Beautiful Basics of Science

“Welcome to the Family."
- Mrs. Sterling”

Ellen Schreiber (1967) American writer

Source: Royal Blood

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“It is what a man does for strangers that counts more than what he does for his family.”

Melina Marchetta (1965) Australian teen writer

Source: Quintana of Charyn

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“Sister is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once the sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship.”

Margaret Mead (1901–1978) American anthropologist

Attributed in Sisters by Birth Friends by Choice : All the Things I Love About You (2003) by Ellyn Sanna
2000s

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