
Variant: You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect — you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break — her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.

“The Sea, once it casts its spell, holds one in its net of wonder forever.”

“The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.”

“Hold everything in your hands lightly, otherwise it hurts when God pries your fingers open.”

“Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes, it is letting go.”

“Never bend your head. Hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye.”

“It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”
“Whosoever holds this hammer, if he be worthy, shall possess the power of Thor.”
"In Blackwater Woods"
American Primitive (1983)
Source: New and Selected Poems, Vol. 1

“When you're at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on.”

“Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together.”
Red Cross Speech http://books.google.com/books?id=f6l-dsvnjhEC&pg=PA406&dq=%22Friendship+is+the+only+cement%22, New York (18 May 1918)
1910s
1936 speeches to the Great Council of Chiefs
Source: Way of the Peaceful Warrior: A Book That Changes Lives


“A body of men, holding themselves accountable to nobody, ought not to be trusted by any body.”
Part 1.3 Rights of Man
1790s, Rights of Man, Part I (1791)

“Getting rid of a delusion makes us wiser than getting hold of a truth.”
Variant: Losing an illusion makes you wiser than finding a truth.

“Everything interests me, but nothing holds me.”

“Education is a weapon whose effects depend on who holds it in his hands and at whom it is aimed.”
Interview http://www.rationalrevolution.net/special/library/cc835_44.htm with H. G. Wells (September 1937)
Stalin's speeches, writings and authorised interviews

Interview for Sounds Magazine on 17 July 1982. [Armed Combat, Sounds Magazine, 17 July 1982]

Try Me, from Please Please Please (album) (1959)
Song lyrics

The Problem of Peace (1954)

Tolkien in Oxford (1968) http://www.bbc.co.uk/archive/writers/12237.shtml, a BBC 2 television documentary (at 21:49)

Das Wesen der Materie [The Nature of Matter], a 1944 speech in Florence, Italy, Archiv zur Geschichte der Max‑ Planck‑ Gesellschaft, Abt. Va, Rep. 11 Planck, Nr. 1797; the German original is as quoted in The Spontaneous Healing of Belief https://archive.org/stream/GreggBradenTheSpontaneousHealingOfBelief/Gregg%20Braden/Gregg%20Braden%20-%20The%20Spontaneous%20Healing%20Of%20Belief#page/n1 (2008) by Gregg Braden, p. 212; Braden mistranslates intelligenten Geist as "intelligent Mind", which is an obvious tautology.

“Hold out baits to entice the enemy. Feign disorder, and crush him.”
Source: The Art of War, Chapter I · Detail Assessment and Planning

Message during the international year of the child, 28 July 1979, quoted in The Talking Mountains (26 Oct 2015)

“Move on...holding on to any one experience will limit you.”
Tiya-A Parrot's Journey Home ( Page 20 )

Quoted from his first book https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Success_and_Failure_Based_on_Reason_and_Reality, "Success and Failure Based on Reason and Reality" https://www.amazon.co.uk/SUCCESS-FAILURE-BASED-REASON-REALITY/dp/9970983903/ on Amazon, P.36 (July 2018)

“Life is not always a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes, playing a poor hand well.”
As quoted in Sacred Journey of the Peaceful Warrior (1991) by Dan Millman, p. 78
Life’s not a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes playing a poor hand well.
As quoted in "They Came to Write in Hawai‘i" by Joseph Theroux, in Spirit of Aloha (March/April 2007)

Source: Out of Africa (1937)
Context: People who dream when they sleep at night know of a special kind of happiness which the world of the day holds not, a placid ecstasy, and ease of heart, that are like honey on the tongue. They also know that the real glory of dreams lies in their atmosphere of unlimited freedom. It is not the freedom of the dictator, who enforces his own will on the world, but the freedom of the artist, who has no will, who is free of will. The pleasure of the true dreamer does not lie in the substance of the dream, but in this: that there things happen without any interference from his side, and altogether outside his control. Great landscapes create themselves, long splendid views, rich and delicate colours, roads, houses, which he has never seen or heard of...

Source: Lullaby (2002), Chapter 3
Context: Old George Orwell got it backward. Big Brother isn't watching. He's singing and dancing. He's pulling rabbits out of a hat. Big Brother’s busy holding your attention every moment you're awake. He's making sure you're always distracted. He's making sure you're fully absorbed. He's making sure your imagination withers. Until it's as useful as your appendix. He's making sure your attention is always filled. And this being fed, it's worse than being watched. With the world always filling you, no one has to worry about what's in your mind. With everyone's imagination atrophied, no one will ever be a threat to the world.

“Prayer is not overcoming God's reluctance. It is laying hold of His willingness.”

“I hold it to be the inalienable right of anybody to go to hell in his own way.”
Variant: I hold it to be the inalienable right of anybody to go to hell in his own way.

“A true friend is the one who holds your hand and touches your heart”
Variant: Friend is the person that holds your hand and touches your heart!


“Art is not a mirror to hold up to society, but a hammer with which to shape it.”
Mistakenly attributed to Vladimir Mayakovsky in The Political Psyche (1993) by Andrew Samuels, p. 9; mistakenly attributed to Brecht in Paulo Freire: A Critical Encounter (1993) by Peter McLaren and Peter Leonard, p. 80; variant translation: "Art is not a mirror held up to society, but a hammer with which to shape it."
First recorded in Leon Trotsky, Literature and Revolution (1924; edited by William Keach (2005), Ch. 4: Futurism, p. 120): "Art, it is said, is not a mirror, but a hammer: it does not reflect, it shapes."
Disputed

Source: The Book of Awakening: Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life You Have

“Too young to hold on and too old to just break free and run”

Source: What I Know For Sure
Source: The Outermost House: A Year of Life On The Great Beach of Cape Cod

2008, A More Perfect Union (March 2008)

Speech as Viceroy of India (1926), quoted in Birkenhead, Halifax (Hamish Hamilton, 1965), pp. 223-234
Viceroy of India

1850s, The House Divided speech (1858)

2018-08-01
Is The Second Civil War Coming?
The Ben Shapiro Show
593
38:35
https://soundcloud.com/benshapiroshow/ep593
2018

Remarks at the Monogahela House (14 February 1861); as published in The Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln (1953) by Roy P. Basler, vol. 4, p. 209
1860s
My Twisted World (2014), 19-22, UC Santa Barbara, Building to Violence

“If you see a man dedicated to his stomach, crawling on the ground, you see a plant and not a man; or if you see a man bedazzled by the empty forms of the imagination, as by the wiles of Calypso, and through their alluring solicitations made a slave to his own senses, you see a brute and not a man. If, however, you see a philosopher, judging and distinguishing all things according to the rule of reason, him shall you hold in veneration, for he is a creature of heaven and not of earth; if, finally, a pure contemplator, unmindful of the body, wholly withdrawn into the inner chambers of the mind, here indeed is neither a creature of earth nor a heavenly creature, but some higher divinity, clothed in human flesh.”
Si quem enim videris deditum ventri, humi serpentem hominem, frutex est, non homo, quem vides; si quem in fantasiae quasi Calipsus vanis praestigiis cecucientem et subscalpenti delinitum illecebra sensibus mancipatum, brutum est, non homo, quem vides. Si recta philosophum ratione omnia discernentem, hunc venereris; caeleste est animal, non terrenum. Si purum contemplatorem corporis nescium, in penetralia mentis relegatum, hic non terrenum, non caeleste animal: hic augustius est numen humana carne circumvestitum.
8. 40-42; translation by A. Robert Caponigri
Oration on the Dignity of Man (1496)

"Poetry is Not a Luxury"
Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches (1984)

What US leaders have never understood about Iran http://nypost.com/2015/07/19/what-us-leaders-have-never-understood-about-iran/, New York Post (July 19, 2015).
New York Post

Jewish Newsletter [New York] (19 May 1959); quoted in Prophets in Babylon (1980) by Marion Woolfson, p. 13

“I hold nothing as an article of my Religion, but what the highest evidence forced me to embrace.”
Christianity not Mysterious (1696), Preface

"Meatless Monday: WWE Superstar Daniel Bryan Stomps On Meat" by Ellen Kanner, HuffPost (16 April 2012) https://www.huffingtonpost.com/ellen-kanner/meatless-monday-wwe-super_b_1424303.html.

“We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.”
"The Haunted Smile: The Story of Jewish Comedians in America" (2001)