Quotes about men
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Jane Austen photo
Libba Bray photo

“Men have feelings too, you know. You bruise the petals of my manflower.”

Libba Bray (1964) American teen writer

Source: Beauty Queens

Ayn Rand photo

“Civilization is the process of setting man free from men.”

Source: The Fountainhead

“men i swear."
-jacky faber”

Source: Bloody Jack

Homér photo
Sigmund Freud photo
Mary Wollstonecraft Shelley photo
Richard Matheson photo
Nathaniel Hawthorne photo
Samuel Taylor Coleridge photo

“Good and bad men are each less so than they seem.”

Samuel Taylor Coleridge (1772–1834) English poet, literary critic and philosopher

“… the greatest weapon against big stupid men was a sharp mind.”

Melina Marchetta (1965) Australian teen writer

Source: Froi of the Exiles

James Salter photo

“Women fall in love when they get to know you. Men are just the opposite. When they finally know you they're ready to leave”

James Salter (1925–2015) American novelist and short-story writer

Source: Dusk and Other Stories

Emma Goldman photo
Thomas Aquinas photo

“Most men seem to live according to sense rather than reason.”

Thomas Aquinas (1225–1274) Italian Dominican scholastic philosopher of the Roman Catholic Church
Jack Kerouac photo

“What difference does it make after all? — anonymity in the world of men is better than fame in heaven, for what's heaven? what's earth? All in the mind.”

Part Three, Ch. 11
Source: On the Road (1957)
Context: In 1942 I was the star in one of the filthiest dramas of all time. I was a seaman, and went to the Imperial Café on Scollay Square in Boston to drink; I drank sixty glasses of beer and retired to the toilet, where I wrapped myself around the toilet bowl and went to sleep. During the night at least a hundred seamen and assorted civilians came in and cast their sentient debouchements on me till I was unrecognizably caked. What difference does it make after all? — anonymity in the world of men is better than fame in heaven, for what's heaven? what's earth? All in the mind.

Janet Evanovich photo
Yann Martel photo
Niccolo Machiavelli photo
H.L. Mencken photo

“Equality before the law is probably forever inattainable. It is a noble ideal, but it can never be realized, for what men value in this world is not rights but privileges.”

H.L. Mencken (1880–1956) American journalist and writer

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1940s–present, Minority Report : H.L. Mencken's Notebooks (1956)

Adrienne Rich photo

“There is nothing revolutionary whatsoever about the control of women's bodies by men. The woman's body is the terrain on which patriarchy is erected.”

Adrienne Rich (1929–2012) American poet, essayist and feminist

Source: Of Woman Born: Motherhood as Experience and Institution

John Steinbeck photo

“No man really knows about other human beings. The best he can do is to suppose that they are like himself.”

Source: The Winter of Our Discontent (1961), Part One, Chapter III

Cornelia Funke photo
Robert A. Heinlein photo

“You can sway a thousand men by appealing to their prejudices quicker than you can convince one man by logic.”

“If This Goes On—” Chapter 10, p. 426
The Past Through Tomorrow (1967)
Source: Revolt in 2100/Methuselah's Children
Context: “Do you seriously expect to start a rebellion with picayune stuff like that?”
“It’s not picayune stuff, because it acts directly on their emotions, below the logical level. You can sway a thousand men by appealing to their prejudices quicker than you can convince one man by logic. It doesn’t have to be a prejudice about an important matter either.

Milan Kundera photo

“Aren't we living in a world where heedless men only desire decapitated women?”

Milan Kundera (1929–2023) Czech author of Czech and French literature

Source: Life is Elsewhere

Orson Scott Card photo

“Only stupid men trying to seem smart need to be with dumb women. Only weak men trying to look strong are attracted to compliant women.”

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Ender's Game series, First Meetings in the Enderverse (2003), Teacher's Pest
Source: First Meetings in Ender's Universe

Jane Austen photo
John Steinbeck photo
Jean Paul Sartre photo
Ayn Rand photo

“Men who reject the responsibility of thought and reason can only exist as parasites on the thinking of others.”

Ayn Rand (1905–1982) Russian-American novelist and philosopher

Source: The Virtue of Selfishness: A New Concept of Egoism

Henry David Thoreau photo
Gertrude Stein photo
Patrick Rothfuss photo

“There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.”

Source: The Wise Man's Fear (2011), Chapter 43, “The Flickering Way” (p. 318)

Seth Grahame-Smith photo
Yasunari Kawabata photo
Henry David Thoreau photo

“Must the citizen ever for a moment, or in the least degree, resigns his conscience to the legislator? Why has every man a conscience then? I think that we should be men first, and subjects afterward.”

Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862) 1817-1862 American poet, essayist, naturalist, and abolitionist

Civil Disobedience (1849)
Source: Civil Disobedience and Other Essays
Context: Must the citizen ever for a moment, or in the least degree, resign his conscience to the legislator? Why has every man a conscience, then? I think that we should be men first, and subjects afterward. It is not desirable to cultivate a respect for the law, so much as for the right. The only obligation which I have a right to assume is to do at any time what I think right.
Context: To speak practically and as a citizen, unlike those who call themselves no-government men, I ask for, not at once no government, but at once a better government. Let every man make known what kind of government would command his respect, and that will be one step toward obtaining it. After all, the practical reason why, when the power is once in the hands of the people, a majority are permitted, and for a long period continue, to rule, is not because they are most likely to be in the right, nor because this seems fairest to the minority, but because they are physically the strongest. But a government in which the majority rule in all cases cannot be based on justice, even as far as men understand it. Can there not be a government in which majorities do not virtually decide right and wrong, but conscience? — in which majorities decide only those questions to which the rule of expediency is applicable? Must the citizen ever for a moment, or in the least degree, resign his conscience to the legislator? Why has every man a conscience, then? I think that we should be men first, and subjects afterward. It is not desirable to cultivate a respect for the law, so much as for the right. The only obligation which I have a right to assume is to do at any time what I think right. It is truly enough said that a corporation has no conscience; but a corporation of conscientious men is a corporation with a conscience. Law never made men a whit more just; and, by means of their respect for it, even the well-disposed are daily made the agents of injustice.

Charles Bukowski photo
Libba Bray photo
Julia Quinn photo

“Men. The day they learned to admit to a mistake was the day they became women.”

Julia Quinn (1970) American novelist

Source: To Sir Phillip, With Love

Gillian Flynn photo
Sherrilyn Kenyon photo
Pierre Teilhard De Chardin photo
Marguerite Duras photo
Louisa May Alcott photo
Mario Puzo photo
Alexandre Dumas photo
Ernest Hemingway photo
H.L. Mencken photo
Diana Gabaldon photo
Derek Walcott photo

“What are men? Children who doubt.”

Derek Walcott (1930–2017) Saint Lucian–Trinidadian poet and playwright

Source: The Odyssey

“It is better to believe in men too rashly, and regret, than believe too meanly. Men could be more than they are, if they would try for it. He has shown them that.”

On Alexander the Great, p. 312
Source: The Persian Boy (1972)
Context: It is better to believe in men too rashly, and regret, than believe too meanly. Men could be more than they are, if they would try for it. He has shown them that. How many have tried, because of him? Not only those I have seen; there will be men to come. Those who look in mankind only for their own littleness, and make them believe in that, kill more than he ever will in all his wars.

Ayn Rand photo

“Remember that rights are moral principles which define and protect a man's freedom of action, but impose no obligations on other men.”

Ayn Rand (1905–1982) Russian-American novelist and philosopher

Source: The Virtue of Selfishness: A New Concept of Egoism

Tsunetomo Yamamoto photo

“Some men die for lack of love…some die because of it. Think about it." - Daemon”

Anne Bishop (1955) American fiction writer

Source: Daughter of the Blood

Arthur Schopenhauer photo
George Bernard Shaw photo
Glen Cook photo

“I believe in our side and theirs, with the good and evil decided after the fact, by those who survive. Among men you seldom find the good with one standard and the shadow with another.”

Source: Shadows Linger (1984), Chapter 33, “Juniper: The Encounter” (p. 367)
Context: I do not believe in evil absolute. I have recounted that philosophy in specific in the Annals, and it affects my every observation throughout my tenure as Annalist. I believe in our side and theirs, with the good and evil decided after the fact, by those who survive. Among men you seldom find the good with one standard and the shadow with another.

Robert Jordan photo
James Allen photo
Sigmund Freud photo
Richelle Mead photo
F. Scott Fitzgerald photo
Helen Hunt Jackson photo
Camille Paglia photo

“Men chase by night those they will not greet by day.”

Camille Paglia (1947) American writer

Source: Sexual Personae: Art and Decadence from Nefertiti to Emily Dickinson

Alexis De Tocqueville photo
Jeffrey Eugenides photo
Mario Puzo photo
Marguerite Duras photo

“It was the men I deceived the most that I loved the most.”

Marguerite Duras (1914–1996) French writer and film director

The Chimneys of India Song, from Practicalities (1987, trans. 1990).

Barbara Ehrenreich photo
R. Scott Bakker photo
Cassandra Clare photo
Wilkie Collins photo
André Gide photo

“I do not love men: I love what devours them.”

André Gide (1869–1951) French novelist and essayist

Source: Prometheus Illbound

Dylan Thomas photo
Mark Z. Danielewski photo
Shūsaku Endō photo
Jennifer Donnelly photo
Wilkie Collins photo
Dylan Thomas photo
Janet Evanovich photo
Jane Austen photo
Leo Tolstoy photo

“Maybe all young men who love us become knights in shining armor when we love them back.”

Cameron Dokey (1956) American writer

Source: Golden: A Retelling of Rapunzel

Garrison Keillor photo

“That's the news from Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average.”

Garrison Keillor (1942) American radio host and writer

See also the Wikipedia article on the Lake Wobegon effect.
A Prairie Home Companion, News from Lake Wobegon