“Perhaps watching someone you love suffer can teach you even more than suffering yourself can.”
Source: I Capture the Castle
“Perhaps watching someone you love suffer can teach you even more than suffering yourself can.”
Source: I Capture the Castle
“Everytime you see a flood like that on the news you tell yourself: That's it. That's my heart.”
Source: Kafka on the Shore
Jeremy Marsh, Chapter 7, p. 113
Variant: I think it happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. And so you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on. It's perfectly normal.
Source: 2000s, True Believer (2005)
From Are You the One for Me? (1992)
“Light yourself on fire with passion and people will come from miles to watch you burn.”
As quoted in The Peaceful Path of Prosperity : Practical and Spiritual Approaches to Enrich Your Life with Your Inner Wealth (2001) by Danny Babineaux; not found in any record of Wesley before 2001.
Misattributed
Variant: I set myself on fire and people come to watch me burn.
Source: 50/50: Secrets I Learned Running 50 Marathons in 50 Days -- and How You Too Can Achieve Super Endurance!
“Surround yourself with people who take their work seriously, but not themselves.”
Source: It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy
“Live to please the others, and everyone will love you, except yourself.”
“You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself.”
Pearls of Wisdom
“There is no trap so deadly as the trap you set for yourself.”
Source: Long Goodbye
Variant: There came a time when you realized that moving on was pointless. That you took yourself with you wherever you went.
Source: Doctor Sleep
As quoted in Violence Unveiled (1996) by Gil Bailie, p. xv
Variant: Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.
Source: The Living Wisdom of Howard Thurman: A Visionary for Our Time
“Have a belief in yourself that is bigger than anyone's disbelief.”
“Before you look for validation in others, try and find it in yourself”
Variant: The worst feeling: when you just have to wait and prepare yourself for the lie.
Source: Gone Girl
“You must write for yourself, above all. That is your only hope of creating something beautiful.”
“It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.”
Source: Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Source: Reading Like a Writer: A Guide for People Who Love Books and for Those Who Want to Write Them
Source: The Dead Man in Indian Creek
Source: An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness
Source: I Hated, Hated, Hated This Movie
Source: Stop Pretending: What Happened When My Big Sister Went Crazy
“Freedom is also about what you will allow yourself to do.”
Source: Two Boys Kissing
“Suck it up. This is the life you chose for yourself, so buck up and deal.”
Source: Wherever You Go, There You Are - Mindfulness Meditation In Everyday Life
Source: The Boyfriend List: 15 Guys, 11 Shrink Appointments, 4 Ceramic Frogs and Me, Ruby Oliver
From the Babylon 5 Calendar (1998).
Source: The Wisdom of Tenderness: What Happens When God's Fierce Mercy Transforms Our Lives
“Do for yourself, for no one else will.”
Source: A Heart So Wild
Source: Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life
The Sign (May 1938) This has been misquoted as: The pursuit of truth will set you free; even if you never catch up with it.
“Because anyone that can make you feel that bad about yourself is toxic.”
Source: The Truth About Forever
“You can’t make someone feel good about themselves until you feel good about
yourself.”
Source: Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life
“There´s no way to protect yourself against heartbreak. That's just a part of life.”
Source: P.S. I Still Love You
Source: Merry Christmas, Peter Rabbit!
“When you title yourself, you immediately lend yourself to all kinds of pretension”
Source: Black Coffee Blues