“Retaliation gets you nothing. Revenge is worthless.”
Tom Hiddleston (1981) English actor, producer and musical performer
A collection of quotes on the topic of revenge, doing, people, man.
“Retaliation gets you nothing. Revenge is worthless.”
Tom Hiddleston (1981) English actor, producer and musical performer
“Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”
Confucius (-551–-479 BC) Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher
Attributed in Lillet Walters (2000), Secrets of Superstar Speakers; attributed in English sources as a "Japanese proverb" as early as 1924
Misattributed, Not Chinese
“There are plenty of people more «difficult» than me. ”
Alan Rickman (1946–2016) English film, television and stage actor
“In politics evils should be remedied not revenged.”
Napoleon III (1808–1873) French emperor, president, and member of the House of Bonaparte
Napoléon III, Des Idées napoléoniennes, edited by Henri Colburn, London (1839), chapter 3, p. 39: En politique il faut guérir les maux, jamais les venger.
Translated by James A. Dorr, in: Napoleonic Ideas, Appleton & Co, New York (1859), p. 41
“Resolved, never to do anything out of revenge.”
Jonathan Edwards (1703–1758) Christian preacher, philosopher, and theologian
No. 14.
Seventy Resolutions (1722-1723)
“Forgiveness is better than revenge.”
Pittacus of Mytilene Greek sage
As quoted by Diogenes Laërtius in Life of Pittacus, i. 76, citing Heraclitus as his source.
Pittacus made this remark to justify his release of his captured enemy Alcaeus.
According to William Shepard Walsh, in Handy-book of Literary Curiosities (1892), p. 392, Epictetus, quoting from the same source, gives the phrase thus: "Forgiveness is better than punishment; for the one is proof of a gentle, the other of a savage, nature."
Konrad Adenauer (1876–1967) German statesman, Federal Chancellor of Germany, politician (CDU)
To French PM Guy Mollet after British PM Sir Anthony Eden unilaterally cancelled the Suez operation, thus angering Mollet. (6 November 1956), as quoted in Europe's Troubled Peace, 1945-2000 (2006) by Tom Buchanan, p.102, 2nd ed. 2012 p. 84 books.google https://books.google.de/books?id=cAHcBeZhm6UC&pg=PA84&dq=revenge
“Indifference is the revenge the world takes on mediocrities.”
Oscar Wilde Vera; or, The Nihilists
Vera; or, The Nihilists (1880)
Lil Peep (1996–2017) American rapper
Song Life is Beautiful, Album: Come Over When You're Sober, Pt. 2
“The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.”
Marcus Aurelius book Meditations
VI, 6
Variant: The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.
Source: Meditations (c. 121–180 AD), Book VI
“I ain't a killer, but don't push me
Revenge is like the sweetest joy next to gettin' pussy.”
Tupac Shakur (1971–1996) rapper and actor
"Hail Mary"
1990s, The Don Killuminati: The 7 Day Theory (1996)
“Forgiveness is too easy. I can forget by indifference, but not forgive. I prefer revenge.”
Karl Lagerfeld (1933–2019) German fashion designer
Ali book Nahj al-Balagha
Nahj al-Balagha
Adeline Yen Mah book Chinese Cinderella and the Secret Dragon Society
Source: Chinese Cinderella and the Secret Dragon Society
“There are four basic human needs: food, sleep, sex and revenge.”
Banksy pseudonymous England-based graffiti artist, political activist, and painter
Existencilism (2002)
Konrad Adenauer (1876–1967) German statesman, Federal Chancellor of Germany, politician (CDU)
As quoted by General Sir Charles Fergusson in a memorandum (10 July 1945), recalling conversations with Adenauer in 1918-1919, at the end of World War I. As published in Adenauer : The Father of the New Germany (2000) by Charles Williams, p. 293 books.google https://books.google.de/books?id=7mhpKYpugJsC&pg=PA293
Moshe Dayan (1915–1981) Israeli military leader and politician
This has been reported to be a direct quotation of Dayan in the diaries of Moshe Sharett, but is actually derived from an interpretive commentary by Livia Rokach in "Israel's Sacred Terrorism" (1980) upon statements of Dayan reported in Sharett's diaries, from accounts provided to him by Ya'acob Herzog and Gideon Raphael — in other words, it is a third-hand interpretation of Dayan's meaning, based on a second hand report of his arguments. Sharett's summation of Dayan's statements of 26 May 1955 read: We do not need a security pact with the U.S.: such a pact will only constitute an obstacle for us. We face no danger at all of an Arab advantage of force for the next 8-10 years. Even if they receive massive military aid from the West, we shall maintain our military superiority thanks to our infinitely greater capacity to assimilate new armaments. The security pact will only handcuff us and deny us the freedom of action which we need in the coming years. Reprisal actions which we couldn't carry out if we were tied to a security pact are our vital lymph ... they make it possible for us to maintain a high level of tension among our population and in the army. Without these actions we would have ceased to be a combative people and without the discipline of a combative people we are lost. We have to cry out that the Negev is in danger, so that young men will go there.... Rokach's interpretive assessment of this diary entry by Sharett produces: The conclusions from Dayan's words are clear: This State has no international obligations, no economic problems, the question of peace is nonexistent... It must calculate its steps narrow-mindedly and live on its sword. It must see the sword as the main, if not the only, instrument with which to keep its morale high and to retain its moral tension. Toward this end it may, no — it must — invent dangers, and to do this it must adopt the method of provocation-and-revenge.. . . And above all — let us hope for a new war with the Arab countries, so that we may finally get rid of our troubles and acquire our space.
Ref: en.wikiquote.org - Moshe Dayan / Misattributed
The Iron Wall (1999)
George Orwell (1903–1950) English author and journalist
"Revenge is Sour" http://orwell.ru/library/articles/revenge/english/e_revso, Tribune (9 November 1945)
Stephen Fry (1957) English comedian, actor, writer, presenter, and activist
1990s, Moab is My Washpot (autobiography, 1997)
“For those of you praying tonight.. Please pray for peace, not revenge…”
Alexander Rybak (1986) Norwegian singer, actor, violinist, composer, pianist
Emil M. Cioran book History and Utopia
p. 70. https://books.google.com/books?id=5DuCDwAAQBAJ&pg=PT70 <br class="br">History and Utopia (1960)
Benjamin Disraeli (1804–1881) British Conservative politician, writer, aristocrat and Prime Minister
Source: 'Letter VII. to Lord John Russell' (30 January 1836), The Letters of Runnymede (1836), pp. 60-61
John Milton book Paradise Lost
Variant: All is not lost, the unconquerable will, and study of revenge, immortal hate, and the courage never to submit or yield.
Source: Paradise Lost
William Shakespeare The Merchant of Venice
Shylock, Act III, scene i.
Source: The Merchant of Venice (1596–7)
Context: I am a Jew. Hath not a Jew eyes? Hath not a Jew hands, organs, dimensions, senses, affections, passions; fed with the same food, hurt with the same weapons, subject to the same diseases, heal'd by the same means, warm'd and cool'd by the same winter and summer, as a Christian is? If you prick us, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If you poison us, do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
“Revenge is not always sweet: once it is consummated we feel inferior to our victim.”
Emil M. Cioran book History and Utopia
History and Utopia (1960)
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
“You know what they say - the sweetest word in the English language is revenge.”
Peter Beard (1938–2020) American photographer and writer
Interview magazine, 1978.
Mark Twain (1835–1910) American author and humorist
Source: Autobiography of Mark Twain, Volume 1 (2010), p. 312
John Chrysostom (349–407) important Early Church Father
Homilies on the Statues http://www.ccel.org/ccel/schaff/npnf109/Page_474.html, Homily XX
Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist
Source: 1930s, In Praise of Idleness and Other Essays (1935), Ch. 7: The Case for Socialism
“When a man steals your wife there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.”
Sacha Guitry (1885–1957) French dramatist and playwright
Book of Humorous Quotations, ed. Connie Robertson (1998), page 83
Thomas Paine (1737–1809) English and American political activist
The Crisis No. I.
1770s, The American Crisis (1776–1783)
Mahinda Rajapaksa (1945) Prime Minister of Sri Lanka
Quoted in The Hindu, "Rajapaksa promises peace and prosperity at Independence Day speech" http://www.thehindu.com/news/international/article100524.ece, February 4, 2010.
John Locke (1632–1704) English philosopher and physician
§ 116
The Reasonableness of Christianity (1695)
Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology
Other
“I want your love and I want your revenge
You and me could write a bad romance”
Lady Gaga (1986) American singer, songwriter, and actress
Bad Romance, written by Lady Gaga and RedOne
Song lyrics, The Fame Monster (2009)
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
Springfield, Ohio campaign event http://www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/2012/11/02/remarks-president-springfield-oh, <br class="br">quoted in * 2012-11-02 <br class="br">Obama to supporters: Voting 'best revenge' against Mitt Romney <br class="br">Joe <br class="br">Newby <br class="br">Examiner <br class="br">http://www.examiner.com/node/54880521 <br class="br">2012-11-03 and * 2012-11-03 <br class="br">Obama tells crowd 'voting is the best revenge'; Romney freaks out <br class="br">Laura <br class="br">Clawson <br class="br">Daily Kos <br class="br">http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/11/03/1154805/-Obama-tells-crowd-voting-is-the-best-revenge-Romney-freaks-out <br class="br">2012-11-03 <br class="br">2012
Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology
Other
Albert Pierrepoint (1905–1992) English executioner
Executioner: Pierrepoint. Harrap 1974. p. 210.
John Locke (1632–1704) English philosopher and physician
Letter to Edward Clarke (c. April 1690), quoted in James Farr and Clayton Roberts, 'John Locke on the Glorious Revolution: A Rediscovered Document', The Historical Journal, Vol. 28, No. 2 (Jun., 1985), pp. 385-398.
Albert Pike book Morals and Dogma of the Ancient and Accepted Scottish Rite of Freemasonry
Source: Morals and Dogma of the Ancient and Accepted Scottish Rite of Freemasonry (1871), Ch. III : The Master, p. 70
Context: Justice in no wise consists in meting out to another that exact measure of reward or punishment which we think and decree his merit, or what we call his crime, which is more often merely his error, deserves. The justice of the father is not incompatible with forgiveness by him of the errors and offences of his child. The Infinite Justice of God does not consist in meting out exact measures of punishment for human frailties and sins. We are too apt to erect our own little and narrow notions of what is right and just, into the law of justice, and to insist that God shall adopt that as His law; to measure off something with our own little tape-line, and call it God's law of justice. Continually we seek to ennoble our own ignoble love of revenge and retaliation, by misnaming it justice.
Abraham Lincoln (1809–1865) 16th President of the United States
1860s, On Democratic Government (1864)
Context: If the loyal people united were put to the utmost of their strength by the rebellion, must they not fail when divided and partially paralyzed by a political war among themselves? But the election was a necessity. We cannot have free government without elections; and if the election could force us to forego or postpone a national election, it might fairly claim to have already conquered and ruined us. The strife of the election is but human nature practically applied to the facts of the case. What has occurred in this case must ever recur in similar cases. Human nature will not change. In any future great national trial, compared with the men of this, we will have as weak and as strong, as silly and as wise, as bad and as good. Let us, therefore, study the incidents of this as philosophy to learn wisdom from, and none of them as wrongs to be revenged.
George Washington (1732–1799) first President of the United States
1790s, Farewell Address (1796)
Context: The alternate domination of one faction over another, sharpened by the spirit of revenge, natural to party dissension, which in different ages and countries has perpetrated the most horrid enormities, is itself a frightful despotism. But this leads at length to a more formal and permanent despotism. The disorders and miseries, which result, gradually incline the minds of men to seek security and repose in the absolute power of an individual; and sooner or later the chief of some prevailing faction, more able or more fortunate than his competitors, turns this disposition to the purposes of his own elevation, on the ruins of Public Liberty.
Pope Francis (1936) 266th Pope of the Catholic Church
On the coronavirus and environmental crises. Cited in Pope salutes 'saints next door' in fight against coronavirus https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/apr/08/pope-salutes-saints-next-door-fight-against-coronavirus-hyprocrisy in the Guardian. (8 April 2020) <br class="br">2010s, 2020
A. C. Grayling (1949) English philosopher
Source: Life, Sex, and Ideas: The Good Life Without God (2002), Chapter 47, “Remembrance” (p. 173)
“Unfortunately, we're all out of bitter revenge at the moment, so it's either tea or nothing.”
Cassandra Clare book City of Bones
Hodge and Clary, pg. 75
Source: The Mortal Instruments, City of Bones (2007)
Context: "Is there anything I could get for you?" he asked. "Something to drink? Some tea?"
"I don't want tea," said Clary, with a muffled force. "I want to find my mother. And then I want to find out who took her in the first place, and I want to kill them."
"Unfortunately," said Hodge, "we're all out of bitter revenge at the moment, so it's either tea or nothing."
Ilona Andrews American husband-and-wife novelist duo
Source: Magic Gifts
“Interpretation is the revenge of the intellect upon art.”
Susan Sontag (1933–2004) American writer and filmmaker, professor, and activist
Source: Against Interpretation and Other Essays (1966), p. 7
“Do not seek revenge and call it justice.”
Cassandra Clare book Clockwork Princess
Source: Clockwork Princess
“Fool that I am," said he,"that I did not tear out my heart the day I resolved to revenge myself".”
Alexandre Dumas book The Count of Monte Cristo
Variant: What a fool I was, not to tear my heart out on the day when I resolved to avenge myself!
Source: The Count of Monte Cristo
“Life being what it is, one dreams of revenge — and has to content oneself with dreaming.”
Paul Gauguin (1848–1903) French Post-Impressionist artist
Quote in Avant et Après, (1903); taken from Paul Gauguin's Intimate Journals, trans. (1923) Van Wyck Brooks [Dover, 1997, ISBN 0-486-29441-2], p. 2
1890s - 1910s
“There are 6 reasons that a person does anything: Love, faith, greed, boredom, fear… revenge.”
Ally Carter book Don't Judge a Girl by Her Cover
Source: Don't Judge a Girl by Her Cover
“Revenge is a dish that tastes best when served cold.”
Variant: Revenge is a dish which taste best when served cold.
Source: The Godfather
“Revenge is profitable, gratitude is expensive.”
Edward Gibbon The History of the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire
Vol. 1, Chap. 11.
The Decline And Fall Of The Roman Empire: Volume 1 (1776)
Source: The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire
“Bitterness is the coward's revenge on the world for having been hurt.”
Zora Neale Hurston (1891–1960) American folklorist, novelist, short story writer
“Revenge is the sweetest morsel to the mouth, that ever was cooked in hell.”
Walter Scott (1771–1832) Scottish historical novelist, playwright, and poet
The Heart of Midlothian', Ch. 30 (1818).
Source: The Heart of Mid-Lothian
“Revenge is a dish best served unexpectedly and from a distance - like a thrown trifle.”
Frances Hardinge (1973) British children's writer
Source: Twilight Robbery
“In taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy; but in passing it over, he is superior.”
Francis Bacon book Essays
Of Revenge
Essays (1625)
Variant: Certainly, in taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy; but in passing it over, he is superior; for it is a prince's part to pardon.
“Happiness is the best revenge, you know? Just be happy. It's a choice.”
Emily Giffin (1972) American writer
Source: Heart of the Matter
“520. Living well is the best revenge.”
George Herbert (1593–1633) Welsh-born English poet, orator and Anglican priest
Jacula Prudentum (1651)