Anaïs Nin (1903–1977) writer of novels, short stories, and erotica
Fall 1943
Diary entries (1914 - 1974)
Source: Journals Of Anais Nin Volume 3
Anaïs Nin (1903–1977) writer of novels, short stories, and erotica
Fall 1943
Diary entries (1914 - 1974)
Source: Journals Of Anais Nin Volume 3
“We listened to them, but it was clear they'd received too much therapy to know the truth.”
Jeffrey Eugenides book The Virgin Suicides
Source: The Virgin Suicides
Jerry Spinelli (1941) American children's writer
Source: Today I Will: A Year of Quotes, Notes, and Promises to Myself
“When a woman has not received much flattery in her life, she will be seduced.”
Melina Marchetta (1965) Australian teen writer
Source: Froi of the Exiles
Tsunetomo Yamamoto book Hagakure
Variant translation:
It is very important to give advice to a man to help him mend his ways. It is a compassionate and important duty. However, it is extremely difficult to comprehend how this advice should be given. It is easy to recognise the good and bad points in others. Generally it is considered a kindness in helping people with things they hate or find difficult to say. However, one impracticality is that if people do not take in this advice they will think that there is nothing they should change. The same applies when we try to create shame in others by speaking badly of them. It seems outwardly that we are just complaining about them. One must get to know the person in question. Keep after him and get him to put his trust in you. Find out what interests he has. When you write to him or before you part company, you should express concrete examples of your own faults and get him to recall to mind whether or not he has the same problems. Also positively praise his qualities. It is important that he takes in your comments like a man thirsting for water. It is difficult to give such advice. We cannot easily correct our defects and weak points as they are dyed deeply within us. I have had bitter experience of this.
Hagakure (c. 1716)
Source: Hagakure: The Book of the Samurai
Context: To give a person an opinion one must first judge well whether that person is of the disposition to receive it or not. One must become close with him and make sure that he continually trusts one's word. Approaching subjects that are dear to him, seek the best way to speak and to be well understood.
Context: To give a person one's opinion and correct his faults is an important thing. It is compassionate and comes first in matters of service. But the way of doing this is extremely difficult. To discover the good and bad points of a person is an easy thing, and to give an opinion concerning them is easy, too. For the most part, people think that they are being kind by saying the things that others find distasteful or difficult to say. But if it is not received well, they think that there is nothing more to be done. This is completely worthless. It is the same as bringing shame to a person by slandering him. It is nothing more than getting it off one's chest.
To give a person an opinion one must first judge well whether that person is of the disposition to receive it or not. One must become close with him and make sure that he continually trusts one's word. Approaching subjects that are dear to him, seek the best way to speak and to be well understood. Judge the occasion, and determine whether it is better by letter or at the time of leave-taking. Praise his good points and use every device to encourage him, perhaps by talking about one's own faults without touching on his, but so that they will occur to him. Have him receive this in the way that a man would drink water when his throat is dry, and it will be an opinion that will correct faults.
This is extremely difficult. If a person's fault is a habit of some years prior, by and large it won't be remedied. I have had this experience myself. To be intimate with all one's comrades, correcting each other's faults, and being of one mind to be of use to the master is the great compassion of a retainer. By bringing shame to a person, how could one expect to make him a better man?
“Her wish to die was as pervasive as a dial tone: you lift the receiver, it's always there.”
Joyce Carol Oates (1938) American author
Source: Faithless
Nassim Nicholas Taleb book The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms
Source: The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms
“And each book has to receive your best effort every single time. No slacking.”
Nora Roberts (1950) American romance writer
Robert G. Ingersoll (1833–1899) Union United States Army officer
Source: The Liberty of Man, Woman and Child
“The value of a man should be seen in what he gives and not in what he is able to receive.”
Albert Einstein (1879–1955) German-born physicist and founder of the theory of relativity
“I prayed for freedom for twenty years, but received no answer until I prayed with my legs.”
Frederick Douglass (1818–1895) American social reformer, orator, writer and statesman
Source: Autobiographies
Gregory Maguire book Confessions of an Ugly Stepsister
Source: Confessions of an Ugly Stepsister
“The thankful receiver bears a plentiful harvest.”
William Blake book The Marriage of Heaven and Hell
Source: The Marriage of Heaven and Hell
“Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves”
Sherry Argov (1977) American writer
Source: Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
“Ask and you shall receive" is the rule, but you must learn how to ask and how to receive”
Gary Zukav (1942) American writer and revivalist
“Perchance you who pronounce my sentence are in greater fear than I who receive it.”
Maiori forsan cum timore sententiam in me fertis quam ego accipiam.
Giordano Bruno (1548–1600) Italian philosopher, mathematician and astronomer
His famous response to his judges upon his conviction as a heretic, prior to his transfer to the civil authorities for execution. (16 February 1600); as quoted by Gaspar Schopp of Breslau in a letter to Conrad Rittershausen; as translated in Giordano Bruno : His Life and Thought (1950) by Dorothea Waley Singer http://www.positiveatheism.org/hist/bruno00.htm <br class="br">Variant translations:<br>Perhaps your fear in passing judgment on me is greater than mine in receiving it.<br>It may be you fear more to deliver judgment upon me than I fear judgment.<br>You pronounce sentence upon me with greater fear than I receive it.
“Charity degrades those who receive it and hardens those who dispense it.”
George Sand (1804–1876) French novelist and memoirist; pseudonym of Lucile Aurore Dupin
Max Lucado (1955) American clergyman and writer
Source: Experiencing the Heart of Jesus: Knowing His Heart, Feeling His Love
“Never take your position for granted and never let any favors you receive go to your head.”
Robert Greene book The 48 Laws of Power
Source: The 48 Laws of Power
“We are divine enough to ask and we are important enough to receive.”
Wayne W. Dyer (1940–2015) American writer
Variant: You are important enough to ask and you are blessed enough to receive back.
“Hell hath no fury like a coolly received postmodernist.”
David Foster Wallace (1962–2008) American fiction writer and essayist
Source: Girl With Curious Hair
“I would rather receive a Pap smear from Captain Hook than venture out on New Year's Eve.”
Jen Lancaster (1967) American writer
Source: The Tao of Martha: My Year of LIVING; Or, Why I'm Never Getting All That Glitter Off of the Dog
Robert Muller (1923–2010) Civil servant with the United Nations
“I love and am loved, fully and freely, nothing expected, more than enough received.”
Amy Tan The Hundred Secret Senses
Source: The Hundred Secret Senses
Albert Einstein (1879–1955) German-born physicist and founder of the theory of relativity
1930s, Mein Weltbild (My World-view) (1931)
Source: The World As I See It
Context: How strange is the lot of us mortals! Each of us is here for a brief sojourn; for what purpose he knows not, though he sometimes thinks he senses it. But without deeper reflection one knows from daily life that one exists for other people — first of all for those upon whose smiles and well-being our own happiness is wholly dependent, and then for the many, unknown to us, to whose destinies we are bound by the ties of sympathy. A hundred times every day I remind myself that my inner and outer life are based on the labors of other men, living and dead, and that I must exert myself in order to give in the same measure as I have received and am still receiving....
“Receive without conceit, release without struggle.”
Marcus Aurelius book Meditations
Source: Meditations
“Until we can receive with an open heart, we are never really giving with an open heart.”
Brené Brown (1965) US writer and professor
Source: The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
Albrecht Thaer (1752–1828) German agronomist and an avid supporter of the humus theory for plant nutrition
Source: The Principles of Agriculture, 1844, Section I: The fundamental principles, p. 2.
Wilford Woodruff (1807–1898) President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
Journal of Discourses 7:100 (Jan. 10, 1858)
Christian Heinrich von Dillmann (1829–1899) German educationist
Source: Die Mathematik die Fackelträgerin einer neuen Zeit (Stuttgart, 1889), p. 40.
Catherine the Great (1729–1796) Empress of Russia
Decree on Serfs (1767) as quoted in A Source Book for Russian History Vol. 2 (1972) by George Vernadsky
Mani Madhava Chakyar (1899–1990) Indian actor
Awards
Source: K. A. Chandrahasan, In pursuit of excellence (Performing Arts), "The Hindu", Sunday March 26, 1989
Arjo Klamer (1953) Dutch columnist, economist and politician
Arjo Klamer, " 30 Gift economy http://www.klamer.nl/docs/1dec_2002.pdf." A handbook of cultural economics (2003): 243.
Aurangzeb (1618–1707) Sixth Mughal Emperor
Akhbarat, cited in : Sharma, Sri Ram, Religious Policy of the Mughal Emperors, Bombay, 1962. p. 136-139
Quotes from late medieval histories, 1700s
Arthur Schopenhauer book The World as Will and Representation
:s:The World as Will and Representation/Preface to the First Edition <br class="br">Kants Philosophie also ist die einzige, mit welcher eine gründliche Bekanntschaft bei dem hier Vorzutragenden gradezu vorausgesetzt wird. — Wenn aber überdies noch der Leser in der Schule des göttlichen Platon geweilt hat; so wird er um so besser vorbereitet und empfänglicher seyn mich zu hören. Ist er aber gar noch der Wohllhat der Veda's theilhaft geworden, deren uns durch die Upanischaden eröfneter Zugang, in meinen Augen, der größte Vorzug ist, den dieses noch junge Jahrhundert vor den früheren aufzuweisen hat, indem ich vermuthe, daß der Einfluß der Samskrit-Litteratur nicht weniger tief eingreifen wird, als im 14ten Jahrhundert die Wiederbelebung der Griechischen: hat also, sage ich, der Leser auch schon die Weihe uralter Indischer Weisheit empfangen und empfänglich aufgenommen; dann ist er auf das allerbeste bereitet zu hören, was ich ihm vorzutragen habe. Ihn wird es dann nicht, wie manchen Andern fremd, ja feindlich ansprechen; da ich, wenn es nicht zu stolz klänge, behaupten möchte, daß jeder von den einzelnen und abgerissenen Aussprüchen, welche die Upanischaden ausmachen, sich als Folgesatz aus dem von mir mitzutheilenden Gedanken ableiten ließe, obgleich keineswegs auch umgekehrt dieser schon dort zu finden ist. <br class="br">Die Welt als Wille und Vorstellung. Leipzig 1819. Vorrede. pp.XII-XIII books.google https://books.google.de/books?id=0HsPAAAAQAAJ&pg=PR12 <br class="br">The World as Will and Representation (1819; 1844; 1859)
Yehuda Ashlag (1886–1954) Orthodox Jewish Rabbi and Kabbalist
Assorted Themes, On Shame with regard to Receiving
Lois McMaster Bujold (1949) Science Fiction and fantasy author from the USA
Source: World of the Five Gods series, Paladin of Souls (2003), p. 295
Charles Darwin (1809–1882) British naturalist, author of "On the origin of species, by means of natural selection"
volume I, chapter VIII: "Religion", page 307 http://darwin-online.org.uk/content/frameset?pageseq=325&itemID=F1452.1&viewtype=image; letter http://www.darwinproject.ac.uk/entry-11981 from Emma Darwin (wife) to N.A. Mengden (8 April 1879) <br class="br">The Life and Letters of Charles Darwin (1887)
Van Morrison (1945) Northern Irish singer-songwriter and musician
Give Me My Rapture.
Source: Song lyrics, Poetic Champions Compose (1987)
Noam Chomsky (1928) american linguist, philosopher and activist
First published in Truthout http://www.truth-out.org/opinion/item/38360-trump-in-the-white-house-an-interview-with-noam-chomsky on 14 November 2016. Then published in the book Optimism over Despair in 2017, pages 121-122 (ISBN 9780241981979). <br class="br">Quotes 2010s, 2016
Milton Friedman (1912–2006) American economist, statistician, and writer
"Milton Friedman" in William Breit and Roger W. Spencer (ed.) Lives of the laureates
Roy Bedichek (1878–1959) American writer and naturalist
Adventures with a Texas Naturalist (Austin: University of Texas Press, 2010. Orig. pub. 1947), pp. 101 https://books.google.it/books?id=4WuzlD0hkSgC&pg=PA101-102.
Leo Tolstoy (1828–1910) Russian writer
Настоящее произведение искусства делает то, что в сознании воспринимающего уничтожается разделение между ним и художником...
What is Art? (1897)
James Finlay Weir Johnston (1796–1855) Scottish agricultural chemist
Report of the First Meeting of the British Association for the Advancement of Science held at York in September 1831. By James F. W. Johnston, A. M. &c. &c. As found in David Brewster's The Edinburgh Journal Of Science. Vol. 8 https://archive.org/stream/edinburghjourna09brewgoog#page/n29/mode/2up, p. 29.
Lyndon B. Johnson (1908–1973) American politician, 36th president of the United States (in office from 1963 to 1969)
Message to Congress on Conservation and Restoration of Natural Beauty written to Congress (8 Feb 1965), in Lyndon B. Johnson: Containing the Public Messages, Speeches, and Statements of the President (1965), Vol.1, 156. United States. President (1963-1969 : Johnson), Lyndon Baines Johnson, United States. Office of the Federal Register — 1970
1960s
“It all started when my dog received free rollover minutes.”
Jay London (1966) American comedian
One-liners
Thomas Brown (1662–1704) English translator and writer of satire
Laconics, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919). Compare: "Who never mentions hell to ears polite", Alexander Pope, Moral Essays, epistle iv, line 149. <br class="br">Source: Brown, Thomas, 1663-1704. Laconics, Or, New Maxims of State And Conversation: Relating to the Affairs And Manners of the Present Times : In Three Parts. London: Printed for Thomas Hodgson ..., 1701. https://hdl.handle.net/2027/mdp.39015013771368?urlappend=%3Bseq=114
“It is the nature of men to be bound by the benefits they confer as much as by those they receive.”
Niccolo Machiavelli book The Prince
Source: The Prince (1513), Ch. 10; translated by W. K. Marriot
Lloyd Kenyon, 1st Baron Kenyon (1732–1802) British Baron
The King v. Inhabitants of St. Paul's, Bedford (1797), 6 T. R. 454.
C. V. Raman (1888–1970) Indian physicist
On the occasion of the Noble Prize award presented to him in 1930 by King Gustova in Stokholm Raman observed Chandrasekhara Venkata Raman:A Legend of Modern Indian Science, 22 November 2013, Official Government of India's website Vigyan Prasar http://www.vigyanprasar.gov.in/scientists/cvraman/raman1.htm,