Quotes about the trip
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“The best way to avoid responsibility is to say, "I've got responsibilities."”
Illusions : The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah (1977)
Source: Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah

“so it's always a process of letting go, one way or another”
Source: The Roominghouse Madrigals: Early Selected Poems, 1946-1966

Source: Think and Grow Rich: The Landmark Bestseller - Now Revised and Updated for the 21st Century
Source: The Richest Man in Babylon
“I want to tell them, "Chip, Kim, there is no way to suicide-proof a person.”
Source: By the Time You Read This, I'll Be Dead

"A Creed To Mr. David Lubin", stanza 1, LINCOLN & Other Poems (1901), page 25.
Context: There is a destiny that makes us brothers:
None goes his way alone:
All that we send into the lives of others
Comes back onto our own.
I care not what his temples or his creeds,
One thing holds firm and fast
That into his fateful heap of days and deeds
The soul of man is cast.

"Motto"
Montage of a Dream Deferred (1951)
Variant: My motto,
As I live and learn,
is:
Dig And Be Dug
In Return.
Source: Education of a Wandering Man (1989), Ch. 10
Source: The Treasure Map of Boys: Noel, Jackson, Finn, Hutch, Gideon—and me, Ruby Oliver
“Writing is one of the ways I participate in transformation.”
Source: Second Helpings
Source: I Capture the Castle

Speech to Conservative Election Rally in Plymouth (22 May, 2001) http://www.margaretthatcher.org/speeches/displaydocument.asp?docid=108389
Post-Prime Ministerial

“By the way, is there anything sadder than toys on a grave?”
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe
Source: Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

“To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves”
Durant, Will. Commencement Speech. We Have a Right To Be Happy Today https://web.archive.org/web/20130106111821/http://www.willdurant.com/youth.htm. Webb School of Claremont, CA. 7 Jun 1958.
Context: To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves; let us be above such transparent egotism. If you can't say good and encouraging things, say nothing. Nothing is often a good thing to do, and always a clever thing to say.
“Best way to find the weakness of the enemy is to understand their ways.”
Source: Froi of the Exiles

“May you live in such a way that your death is just the beginning of your life.”
Source: Outlive Your Life: You Were Made to Make A Difference
Geneva Davis; chapter 1, p. 8
Source: One Door Away from Heaven (2001)
Context: Change isn't easy, Micky. Changing the way you live means changing the way you think. Changing the way you think means changing what you believe about life. That's hard, sweetie. When we make our own misery, we sometimes cling to it even when we want so bad to change, because the misery is something we know. The misery is comfortable.

Source: Debits And Credits
Source: Froi of the Exiles
Source: First Comes Marriage

“If the road is easy, you're likely going the wrong way.”
Variant: Zedd used to tell me that if the road is easy, you're likely going the wrong way." - Richard
Source: Immortal Beloved

“because I have learned the hard way how deadly these beauties can be.”

Source: Killing Rage: Ending Racism
Source: Looking for Alibrandi

“The best way to get your point across is to entertain.”

As quoted in Vogue (14 March 1963)
1960s
Variant: Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with.

“Eating's not a bad way to get to know a place.”
Source: The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals
Source: Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West

“The one way of tolerating existence is to lose oneself in literature as in a perpetual orgy.”

“Hurt leads to bitterness, bitterness to anger. Travel too far that road and the way is lost.”
Source: The Elfstones of Shannara