Quotes about the trip
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Mitch Albom photo
Sherrilyn Kenyon photo
Diana Gabaldon photo
Stephen Chbosky photo
Rick Riordan photo
Scott Lynch photo
Philip Pullman photo
Jane Austen photo
Richard Bach photo

“The best way to avoid responsibility is to say, "I've got responsibilities."”

Richard Bach (1936) American spiritual writer

Illusions : The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah (1977)
Source: Illusions: The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah

Charles Bukowski photo

“so it's always a process of letting go, one way or another”

Charles Bukowski (1920–1994) American writer

Source: The Roominghouse Madrigals: Early Selected Poems, 1946-1966

Napoleon Hill photo

“Those who succeed in an outstanding way seldom do so before the age of 40. More often, they do not strike their real pace until they are well beyond the age of 50.”

Napoleon Hill (1883–1970) American author

Source: Think and Grow Rich: The Landmark Bestseller - Now Revised and Updated for the 21st Century

“I want to tell them, "Chip, Kim, there is no way to suicide-proof a person.”

Julie Anne Peters (1952) American writer

Source: By the Time You Read This, I'll Be Dead

Nicholas Sparks photo
Paulo Coelho photo
Meg Cabot photo
Libba Bray photo
Cassandra Clare photo
Katharine Graham photo
Sarah Dessen photo
Charles Baudelaire photo
Edwin Markham photo

“There is a destiny which makes us brothers; none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own.”

Edwin Markham (1852–1940) American poet

"A Creed To Mr. David Lubin", stanza 1, LINCOLN & Other Poems (1901), page 25.
Context: There is a destiny that makes us brothers:
None goes his way alone:
All that we send into the lives of others
Comes back onto our own.

I care not what his temples or his creeds,
One thing holds firm and fast
That into his fateful heap of days and deeds
The soul of man is cast.

Langston Hughes photo

“I stay cool, and dig all jive,
That's the way I stay alive.
My motto,
as I live and learn,
is
Dig and be dug
In return.”

Langston Hughes (1902–1967) American writer and social activist

"Motto"
Montage of a Dream Deferred (1951)
Variant: My motto,
As I live and learn,
is:
Dig And Be Dug
In Return.

Sophie Kinsella photo

“A real relationship is two-way.”

Source: Can You Keep a Secret?

“Do not think about guys who have broken your heart six ways. It is mentally deranged to chase after heartbreak.”

E. Lockhart (1967) American writer of novels as E. Lockhart (mainly for teenage girls) and of picture books under real name Emily J…

Source: The Treasure Map of Boys: Noel, Jackson, Finn, Hutch, Gideon—and me, Ruby Oliver

Paulo Coelho photo
Chuck Palahniuk photo
Wendell Berry photo
Ann Brashares photo
Dorothy Parker photo
Jodi Picoult photo
Jenny Holzer photo
Robert Anton Wilson photo
Bob Dylan photo
Margaret Thatcher photo

“On my way here I passed a local cinema and it turns out you were expecting me after all, for the billboards read: The Mummy Returns.”

Margaret Thatcher (1925–2013) British stateswoman and politician

Speech to Conservative Election Rally in Plymouth (22 May, 2001) http://www.margaretthatcher.org/speeches/displaydocument.asp?docid=108389
Post-Prime Ministerial

Laurie Halse Anderson photo
Fannie Flagg photo

“By the way, is there anything sadder than toys on a grave?”

Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

Sophie Kinsella photo
Douglas Adams photo
Cassandra Clare photo

“I don't suppose it would help if I told you that is the way life is. The good suffer, the evil flourish, and all that is mortal passes away.”

Variant: Pointless, needless suffering and pain? I don’t suppose it would help if I told you that was the way life is. The good suffer, the evil flourish, and all that is mortal passes away.
Source: Clockwork Princess

Walker Percy photo

“Transition is always a relief. Destination means death to me. If I could figure out a way to remain forever in transition, in the disconnected and unfamiliar, I could remain in a state of perpetual freedom.”

David Wojnarowicz (1954–1992) American painter, photographer, writer, filmmaker, performance artist, and AIDS activist

Source: Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration

Jennifer Weiner photo
Suzanne Collins photo
Marya Hornbacher photo
Alyson Nöel photo
Rick Riordan photo
Will Durant photo

“To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves”

Will Durant (1885–1981) American historian, philosopher and writer

Durant, Will. Commencement Speech. We Have a Right To Be Happy Today https://web.archive.org/web/20130106111821/http://www.willdurant.com/youth.htm. Webb School of Claremont, CA. 7 Jun 1958.
Context: To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves; let us be above such transparent egotism. If you can't say good and encouraging things, say nothing. Nothing is often a good thing to do, and always a clever thing to say.

“Best way to find the weakness of the enemy is to understand their ways.”

Melina Marchetta (1965) Australian teen writer

Source: Froi of the Exiles

Spencer W. Kimball photo
Tom Robbins photo
Chuck Palahniuk photo

“It's all mirror, mirror on the wall because beauty is power, the same way money is power, the same way a gun is power.”

Variant: It's all mirror, mirror on the wall because beauty is power the same way money is power the same way a gun is power.
Source: Invisible Monsters

Leo Buscaglia photo
Susanna Tamaro photo
Max Lucado photo

“May you live in such a way that your death is just the beginning of your life.”

Max Lucado (1955) American clergyman and writer

Source: Outlive Your Life: You Were Made to Make A Difference

Arthur Schopenhauer photo

“Change isn't easy. Changing the way you live means changing the way you think, means changing what you believe about life. That's hard.”

Geneva Davis; chapter 1, p. 8
Source: One Door Away from Heaven (2001)
Context: Change isn't easy, Micky. Changing the way you live means changing the way you think. Changing the way you think means changing what you believe about life. That's hard, sweetie. When we make our own misery, we sometimes cling to it even when we want so bad to change, because the misery is something we know. The misery is comfortable.

Margaret Cho photo
Rudyard Kipling photo
Jon Krakauer photo
Sherrilyn Kenyon photo
Terry Goodkind photo

“If the road is easy, you're likely going the wrong way.”

Terry Goodkind (1948) American novelist

Variant: Zedd used to tell me that if the road is easy, you're likely going the wrong way." - Richard

David Levithan photo
Malcolm Gladwell photo
Jim Butcher photo
Jenny Han photo
Bell Hooks photo
Brian Andreas photo
Joseph Conrad photo
Clive Barker photo
Laurell K. Hamilton photo
George Bernard Shaw photo
Sherrilyn Kenyon photo
Joss Whedon photo
Robert Frost photo

“Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with.”

Robert Frost (1874–1963) American poet

As quoted in Vogue (14 March 1963)
1960s
Variant: Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with.

Laurell K. Hamilton photo
Michael Pollan photo

“Eating's not a bad way to get to know a place.”

Source: The Omnivore's Dilemma: A Natural History of Four Meals

Gustave Flaubert photo
Suzanne Collins photo
Sarah Dessen photo
Bram Stoker photo
Nicholas Sparks photo
Terry Brooks photo