“Rejoicing in our joy, not suffering over our suffering, makes someone a friend.”
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
“Rejoicing in our joy, not suffering over our suffering, makes someone a friend.”
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900) German philosopher, poet, composer, cultural critic, and classical philologist
Frithjof Schuon (1907–1998) Swiss philosopher
[2005, Stations of Wisdom, World Wisdom, 102, 978-0-94153218-1]
God, Reverential fear and love
Al-Mutanabbi (915–965) Arabic poet from the Abbasid era
Source: From the poem Li-Hawā An-Nufūsi http://www.almotanabbi.com/poemPage.do?poemId=248, Line 8
Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ifi5KkXig3s "Biblical Series IV: Adam and Eve: Self-Consciousness, Evil, and Death"
1995
Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist
Source: The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy, and Liberation
Katie MacAlister (1964) Author
Source: The Last of the Red-Hot Vampires
Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist
Source: Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames
Paulo Coelho book By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
Source: By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
“Life is full of misery, loneliness, and suffering - and it's all over much too soon.”
Woody Allen (1935) American screenwriter, director, actor, comedian, author, playwright, and musician
“You must let suffering speak, if you want to hear the truth”
Cornel West (1953) African-American philosopher and political/civil rights activist
Anne Lamott (1954) Novelist, essayist, memoirist, activist
Source: Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers
Haruki Murakami book What I Talk About When I Talk About Running
Source: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running
Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist
Source: Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life
“Perhaps watching someone you love suffer can teach you even more than suffering yourself can.”
Dodie Smith book I Capture the Castle
Source: I Capture the Castle
Sam Harris Letter to a Christian Nation
Sam Harris in * 2006
September
The Temple Of Reason
Bethany
Saltman
The Sun
0744-9666
http://thesunmagazine.org/issues/369/the_temple_of_reason?page=3
2014-05-04
2000s
Source: Letter to a Christian Nation
“The only person who suffers, when you squirrel alway all that hate, is you.”
Jodi Picoult book The Storyteller
Source: The Storyteller
“The world cries for men who are strong; strong in conviction, strong to lead, to stand, to suffer.”
Elisabeth Elliot (1926–2015) American missionary
Source: The Mark of a Man
“The good suffer, the evil flourish, and all that is mortal passes away.”
Cassandra Clare (1973) American author
“People who hadn't suffered a loss yet struck me as not quite grown up.”
Anne Tyler The Beginner's Goodbye
Source: The Beginner's Goodbye
Laura Hillenbrand book Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption
Source: Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption
“I’ve suffered betrayal with all five senses. For over a year.”
Gillian Flynn book Gone Girl
Source: Gone Girl
Neil deGrasse Tyson (1958) American astrophysicist and science communicator
2010s
Context: The problem, often not discovered until late in life, is that when you look for things like love, meaning, motivation, it implies they are sitting behind a tree or under a rock. The most successful people recognize, that in life they create their own love, they manufacture their own meaning, they generate their own motivation. For me, I am driven by two main philosophies, know more today about the world than I knew yesterday. And along the way, lessen the suffering of others. You'd be surprised how far that gets you.
Arnold Bennett (1867–1931) English novelist
Act I
The Title (1918)
Source: The Title: A Comedy in Three Acts
Anthony Horowitz book Skeleton Key
Source: Skeleton Key
“The resistance to the unpleasant situation is the root of suffering.”
Ram Dass (1931–2019) American contemporary spiritual teacher and the author of the 1971 book Be Here Now
“Suffering provides the gym equipment on which my faith can be exercised.”
Joni Eareckson Tada (1949) American artist
Source: Suffering: Making Sense of Suffering 5pk
Sam Harris (1967) American author, philosopher and neuroscientist
Source: The End of Faith: Religion, Terror, and the Future of Reason
Paulo Coelho book By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
By The River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept (1994)
Variant: Waiting Hurts. Forgetting Hurts. But not knowing which decision to take is the worst of suffering.
Source: By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist
Source: No Mud, No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering
“the pain we suffer is a way to make us appreciate what comes next.”
Mitch Albom (1958) American author
Source: The First Phone Call from Heaven
Alison Croggon (1962) contemporary Australian poet, playwright and fantasy novelist
Source: The Naming
Jessica Bird (1969) U.S. novelist
Source: Lover Mine
Stephen Jay Gould (1941–2002) American evolutionary biologist
“we all suffer in our different ways from being prisoners of birth.”
Jeffrey Archer book A Prisoner of Birth
Source: A Prisoner of Birth
“There is no dignity for either the sufferer or the torturer”
James Clavell book Shōgun
Source: Shogun
Samuel P. Huntington (1927–2008) American political scientist
Ch. 12 : The West, Civilizations, and Civilization, § 2 : The West In The World, p. 310
Source: The Clash of Civilizations and the Remaking of World Order (1996), Ch. 12 : The West, Civilizations, and Civilization, § 2 : The West In The World, p. 308
Context: Normatively the Western universalist belief posits that people throughout the world should embrace Western values, institutions, and culture because they embody the highest, most enlightened, most liberal, most rational, most modern, and most civilized thinking of humankind.
In the emerging world of ethnic conflict and civilizational clash, Western belief in the universality of Western culture suffers three problems: it is false; it is immoral; and it is dangerous.
Context: Cultural and civilizational diversity challenges the Western and particularly American belief in the universal relevance of Western culture. This belief is expressed both descriptively and normatively. Descriptively it holds that peoples in all societies want to adopt Western values, institutions, and practices. If they seem not to have that desire and to be committed to their own traditional cultures, they are victims of a “false consciousness” comparable to that which Marxists found among proletarians who supported capitalism. Normatively the Western universalist belief posits that people throughout the world should embrace Western values, institutions, and culture because they embody the highest, most enlightened, most liberal, most rational, most modern, and most civilized thinking of humankind.
In the emerging world of ethnic conflict and civilizational clash, Western belief in the universality of Western culture suffers three problems: it is false; it is immoral; and it is dangerous. … The belief that non-Western peoples should adopt Western values, institutions, and culture is immoral because of what would be necessary to bring it about. The almost-universal reach of European power in the late nineteenth century and the global dominance of the United States in the late twentieth century spread much of Western civilization across the world. European globalism, however, is no more. American hegemony is receding if only because it is no longer needed to protect the United States against a Cold War-style Soviet military threat. Culture, as we have argued, follows power. If non-Western societies are once again to be shaped by Western culture, it will happen only as a result of the expansion, deployment, and impact of Western power. Imperialism is the necessary logical consequence of universalism. In addition, as a maturing civilization, the West no longer has the economic or demographic dynamism required to impose its will on other societies and any effort to do so is also contrary to the Western values of self-determination and democracy. As Asian and Muslim civilizations begin more and more to assert the universal relevance of their cultures, Westerners will come to appreciate more and more the connection between universalism and imperialism.
Context: A world in which cultural identities — ethnic, national, religious, civilizational — are central, and cultural affinities and differences shape the alliances, antagonisms, and policies of states has three broad implications for the West generally and for the United States in particular.
First, statesmen can constructively alter reality only if they recognize and understand it. The emerging politics of culture, the rising power of non-Western civilizations, and the increasing cultural assertiveness of these societies have been widely recognized in the non-Western world. European leaders have pointed to the cultural forces drawing people together and driving them apart. American elites, in contrast, have been slow to accept and to come to grips with these emerging realities.
“A person who has no conscience, no goodness, does not suffer.”
Khaled Hosseini book The Kite Runner
Variant: A man who has no conscience, no goodness, does not suffer.
Source: The Kite Runner
Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist
Source: Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames
“what you hear in my voice is fury, not suffering. Anger, not moral authority”
Audre Lorde (1934–1992) writer and activist
“Without suffering, there'd be no compassion.”
Nicholas Sparks book A Walk to Remember
Source: A Walk to Remember
“Each of us has his own rhythm of suffering.”
Roland Barthes (1915–1980) French philosopher, critic and literary theorist
“Don't look forward to the day you stop suffering, because when it comes you'll know you're dead.”
Tennessee Williams (1911–1983) American playwright
Arthur Schopenhauer book Parerga and Paralipomena
...in der ganzen Natur, mit dem Grad der Intelligenz die Fähigkeit zum Schmerze sich steigert, also ebenfalls erst hier ihre höchste Stufe erreicht.
The Wisdom of Life. Chapter II. Personality, or What a Man Is: Footnote 19
Parerga and Paralipomena (1851), Not yet placed by volume, chapter or section
Rita Mae Brown (1944) Novelist, poet, screenwriter, activist
Many sources attribute this quote to Brown without giving a specific reference to her writings. The earliest located is the following variation from p. 47 of Musgrave Landing: Musings on the Writing Life by Susan Musgrave (1994), which Musgrave quotes as "Rita Mae Brown's warning": "If you become the kind of writer who calls forth heated emotional states, be careful. There are a lot of unbalanced people out there. The statistics on insanity are that one out of every four people is suffering from some form of mental illness. Think of your three best friends. If they're okay, then it's got to be you."
Disputed
“To age truly was to suffer the ultimate treason, that of one’s body against oneself.”
Brandon Sanderson book Words of Radiance
Source: Words of Radiance
“If you were the poor, suffering was your currency.”
Khaled Hosseini book And the Mountains Echoed
Source: And the Mountains Echoed