Quotes about happiness
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“Success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get.”

“To be happy is to be able to become aware of oneself without fright.”

As quoted in Think, Vol. 27 (1961), p. 32
Disputed


Source: The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

“Melancholy is the happiness of being sad.”

Source: Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential

Source: NOS4A2

“Happiness does not depend on outward things, but on the way we see them.”

Source: Where There is Light: Insight and Inspiration for Meeting Life's Challenges

“The secret of happiness is to face the fact that the world is horrible, horrible, horrible.”
Said in conversation with Mrs. Alan Wood; quoted in Alan Wood's Bertrand Russell, the Passionate Sceptic (Allen and Unwin, 1957), pp. 236-7
1950s

“The greatest happiness you can have is knowing that you do not necessarily require happiness.”
Source: My Heart's in the Highlands (1939)

Source: Sceptical Essays



“Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.”
Variant: Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.

“After all, a woman who doesn't love cats is never going to be make a man happy.”
Source: The Museum of Innocence

“Woman is not made to be the admiration of all, but the happiness of one.”

“To be of use to the world is the only way to be happy.”

“Pardon me, my friends, I have ventured to paint my happiness on the wall.”
Sec. 56
The Gay Science (1882)
Source: Masterpiece

“Every moment spent in unhappiness is a moment of happiness lost.”
Source: The Fall of Freddie the Leaf: A Story Of Life For All Ages

Attributed to Karl Marx, a composer with the same name.
Misattributed

“It's like Tolstoy said. Happiness is an allegory, unhappiness a story.”
Source: Kafka on the Shore (2002)

“There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do.”
The Journey's Echo (1963), p. 161 https://books.google.com/books?id=xlFbAAAAMAAJ&focus=searchwithinvolume&q=%22There+can+be+no+happiness+if+the+things+we+believe+in+are+different+from+the+things+we+do.%22.
Source: Stupid and Contagious

“I've found what makes children happy doesn't always prepare them to be courageous, engaged adults.”
Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

“Happy endings are all I can do. I wouldn't know how to write anything else.”
Source: Romancing Mister Bridgerton

“Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.”
Title of poem (1942)
1940s

“Lesson no. 5: Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story”
Variant: Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story.
Source: Hector and the Search for Happiness

When asked "Does philosophy contribute to happiness?" (SHM 76), as quoted in The quotable Bertrand Russell (1993), p. 149
Attributed from posthumous publications

“Dogmatism is the greatest of mental obstacles to human happiness.”
Source: The Conquest of Happiness

“Children aren't happy with nothing to ignore,
And that's what parents were created for.”
"The Parent"; paraphrased variants:
Children aren't happy without something to ignore, and that's what parents were created for.
Parents were invented to make children happy by giving them something to ignore.
Happy Days (1933)

“Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.”
Source: 1930s, The Conquest of Happiness (1930)

7 May 1944
(1942 - 1944)
Source: The Diary of a Young Girl

“Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.”
Often misquoted as: "I have found that most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." or "People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be."
This quote is not found in the various Lincoln sources which can be searched online (e.g. Gutenberg). Niether does Lincoln appear more generally to use the phrase "making up {one's} mind". The saying was first quoted, ascribed to Lincoln but with no source given, in 1914 by Frank Crane and several times subsequently by him in altered versions. It was later quoted in How to Get What You Want (1917) by Orison Swett Marden (Thomas Y. Crowell Company, 1917), 74, again without source. Alternative versions quoted are: "I have found that most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be" and "People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be."
Source: https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/10/20/happy-minds/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CPeople%20are%20about%20as%20happy,up%20their%20minds%20to%20be.%E2%80%9D&text=Remember%20Lincoln's%20saying%20that%20%E2%80%9Cfolks,up%20their%20minds%20to%20be.%E2%80%9D
Curiously in later books Crane, e.g. Four Minute Essays, 1919, Adventures in Common Sense, 1920, "21", 1930, Crane mentions other routes to happiness and does not again use this quote.
Marden used a great many quotes in his writings, without giving sources. Whilst sources for many of the quotes can be found, this is not true for all. For instance he mentions another story in which Lincoln says "Madam, you have not a peg to hang your case on"; this also does not seem to found in Lincoln sources.

“You have everything you need for complete peace and total happiness right now.”

“It’s not the good that die young, it’s the lucky.”

“Don't give up on your own happy-evers.”
Source: Genuine Lies

Source: J'accuse! (1898)
Context: In making these accusations I am aware that I am making myself liable to articles 30 and 31 of the law of 29/7/1881 regarding the press, which make libel a punishable offence. I expose myself to that risk voluntarily.
As for the people I am accusing, I do not know them, I have never seen them, and I bear them neither ill will nor hatred. To me they are mere entities, agents of harm to society. The action I am taking is no more than a radical measure to hasten the explosion of truth and justice.
I have but one passion: to enlighten those who have been kept in the dark, in the name of humanity which has suffered so much and is entitled to happiness. My fiery protest is simply the cry of my very soul. Let them dare, then, to bring me before a court of law and let the enquiry take place in broad daylight! I am waiting.

Source: The Diary of a Young Girl

“Every man's happiness is his own responsibility.”


“Happy are those who hear their detractions and can put them to mending.”

“Money doesn't buy happiness, Gytha."
"I only wanted to rent it for a few weeks!”

Source: Orlando: A Biography (1928), Ch. 3
Context: No passion is stronger in the breast of man than the desire to make others believe as he believes. Nothing so cuts at the root of his happiness and fills him with rage as the sense that another rates low what he prizes high. Whigs and Tories, Liberal party and Labour party — for what do they battle except their own prestige?
“Optimism is the one quality more associated with success and happiness than
any other.”

“The world of the happy is quite different from the world of the unhappy.”
6.43
Die Welt des Glücklichen ist eine andere als die des Unglücklichen
1920s, Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus (1922)
“The journey is what brings us happiness not the destination.”
Source: Way of the Peaceful Warrior: A Book That Changes Lives

“Create all the happiness you are able to create: remove all the misery you are able to remove.”
Advise to a young girl (22 June 1830)
Context: Create all the happiness you are able to create: remove all the misery you are able to remove. Every day will allow you to add something to the pleasure of others, or to diminish something of their pains. And for every grain of enjoyment you sow in the bosom of another, you shall find a harvest in your own bosom; while every sorrow which you pluck out from the thoughts and feelings of a fellow creature shall be replaced by beautiful peace and joy in the sanctuary of your soul.

“Happiness is just how you feel when you don't feel miserable.”
Source: The Beatles Anthology (2000), p. 171

“A sensible woman can never be happy with a fool.”

“Silence is the perfectest herault of joy. I were but little happy if I could say how much.”
Source: Much Ado About Nothing

“Happiness is the feeling that power increases - that resistance is being overcome.”
Source: The Anti-Christ