Quotes about use
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Source: The Historian (2005), Ch. 9
Context: There is survival and survival, the historian learns to his grief. The very worst impulses of humankind can survive generations, centuries, even millennia. And the best of our individual efforts can die with us at the end of a single lifetime.
Context: My dear and unfortunate successor:
I shall conclude my account as rapidly as possible, since you must draw from it vital information if we are both to — ah, to survive, at least, and to survive in a state of goodness and mercy. There is survival and survival, the historian learns to his grief. The very worst impulses of humankind can survive generations, centuries, even millennia. And the best of our individual efforts can die with us at the end of a single lifetime.
“Things do not always happen the way I would have wanted, and it's best that I get used to that.”
Source: Like the Flowing River
Variant: I want us to be... what is your word? Friends."
"Psychotic rapists don't have friends."
"I was unaware you were a psychotic rapists or I would not have offered."
(Mac & V'lane)
Source: Bloodfever
Source: The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 1: 1931-1934
“The art of life is not controlling what happens to us, but using what happens to us”
“Nothing haunts us like the things we don't say.”
Source: Have a Little Faith: a True Story
“We're all curious about what might hurt us.”
“Theyʹre shooting at us,ʺ I said incredulously. ʺTheyʹre actually shooting at us!”
Source: Last Sacrifice
"The Meaning of Life: The Big Picture", Life Magazine (December 1988)
Interviews
Context: For those who believe in God, most of the big questions are answered. But for those of us who can't readily accept the God formula, the big answers don't remain stonewritten. We adjust to new conditions and discoveries. We are pliable. Love need not be a command or faith a dictum. I am my own God. We are here to unlearn the teachings of the church, state and our educational system. We are here to drink beer. We are here to kill war. We are here to laugh at the odds and live our lives so well that Death will tremble to take us.
“The two biggest self-deceptions of all are that life has a 'meaning'and each of us is unique.”
“That's the paradox of loss: How can something that's gone weigh us down so much?”
Source: The Storyteller
“ʺWhy,ʺ he began slowly, ʺis Victor Dashkov joining us?ʺ
ʺWell, itʹs kind of a funny story…ʺ”
Source: Last Sacrifice
Source: Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street
“My goal is not to be better than anyone else, but to be better than I used to be.”
Variant: you don't need to be better than any one else you just need to be better than you used to be
“Because when everyone dreams, but only a few realize their dreams, that makes cowards of us all.”
Source: Veronika Decides to Die
volume I, chapter III: "Comparison of the Mental Powers of Man and the Lower Animals — continued", pages 100-101 http://darwin-online.org.uk/content/frameset?pageseq=113&itemID=F937.1&viewtype=image
The Descent of Man (1871)
Context: As man advances in civilisation, and small tribes are united into larger communities, the simplest reason would tell each individual that he ought to extend his social instincts and sympathies to all the members of the same nation, though personally unknown to him. This point being once reached, there is only an artificial barrier to prevent his sympathies extending to the men of all nations and races. If, indeed, such men are separated from him by great differences in appearance or habits, experience unfortunately shews us how long it is before we look at them as our fellow-creatures. Sympathy beyond the confines of man, that is humanity to the lower animals, seems to be one of the latest moral acquisitions. It is apparently unfelt by savages, except towards their pets. How little the old Romans knew of it is shewn by their abhorrent gladiatorial exhibitions. The very idea of humanity, as far as I could observe, was new to most of the Gauchos of the Pampas. This virtue, one of the noblest with which man is endowed, seems to arise incidentally from our sympathies becoming more tender and more widely diffused, until they are extended to all sentient beings. As soon as this virtue is honoured and practised by some few men, it spreads through instruction and example to the young, and eventually through public opinion.
“The Essence of Knowledge is, having it, to use it.”
“We all posses different gifts and abilities. How we use those gifts determines who we are.”
Source: Secrets of the Dragon Sanctuary
“An awareness of death encourages us to live more intensely.”
Source: The Thirteenth Tale
“That's what I'm living on now, honey, dreams, dreams of what I used to do.”
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe
“The rule is: don’t use commas like a stupid person. I mean it.”
Source: Eats, Shoots & Leaves: The Zero Tolerance Approach to Punctuation
“It's not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.”
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
“Our own choices might not be as good as those that are made for us.”
Source: Birdsong
“I've found, in my own writing, that a little hatred, keenly directed, is a useful thing.”
Source: In Search of Our Mothers' Gardens: Womanist Prose
“I shall never eat duck again. I cannot believe I used to like duck. The duck betrayed me.”
Source: Vampires, Scones, and Edmund Herondale
“Only mystery allows us to live, only mystery.”
Citizenship Papers (2003), The Failure of War
Context: Let us have the candor to acknowledge that what we call “the economy” or “the free market” is less and less distinguishable from warfare. For about half of the last century, we worried about world conquest by international communism. Now with less worry (so far) we are witnessing world conquest by international capitalism. Though its political means are milder (so far) than those of communism, this newly internationalized capitalism may prove even more destructive of human cultures and communities, of freedom, and of nature. Its tendency is just as much toward total dominance and control.
“The sun shines not on us but in us.”
“Life comes at us in waves. We can't predict or control those waves, but we can learn to surf”
“Gone had come to mean something different, in a way that is hadn’t used to. Something permanent.”
Source: It's Not Summer Without You
Source: Teaching Critical Thinking: Practical Wisdom