“Recklessness is almost a man's revenge on his woman. He feels he is not valued so he will risk destroying himself to deprive her altogether.”

—  D.H. Lawrence, book Sons and Lovers

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English novelist, poet, playwright, essayist, literary crit… 1885–1930

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