“Men can have friends, statesmen cannot.”
Charles de Gaulle (1890–1970) eighteenth President of the French Republic
Les hommes peuvent avoir des amis, pas les hommes d'Etat.
Interview, December 9 1967.
Fifth Republic and other post-WW2
“Men can have friends, statesmen cannot.”
Charles de Gaulle (1890–1970) eighteenth President of the French Republic
Les hommes peuvent avoir des amis, pas les hommes d'Etat.
Interview, December 9 1967.
Fifth Republic and other post-WW2
Malcolm X (1925–1965) American human rights activist
Telegram sent to George Lincoln Rockwell, leader of the American Nazi Party, during Rockwell's "Hate Bus" tour of the Southern US States, 1965. Quoted in an interview on January 24, 1965 and printed in Malcolm X and George Breitman, Malcolm X Speaks: selected speeches and statements, (New York: Grove Press, 1990) 201.
Attributed
“Religious wars are basically people killing each other over who has the better imaginary friend.”
Napoleon I of France (1769–1821) French general, First Consul and later Emperor of the French
There is no known basis to attribute this saying to Napoleon. It is found (unattributed) in a Usenet post from July 1999 https://groups.google.com/forum/message/raw?msg=soc.penpals/QIUrpkacWyE/FbCj7pij5WwJ. <br class="br">Misattributed
Galileo Galilei (1564–1642) Italian mathematician, physicist, philosopher and astronomer
Letter to Giovanni Battista Baliani (1639)
Pablo Picasso (1881–1973) Spanish painter, sculptor, printmaker, ceramicist, and stage designer
Boisgeloup, winter 1934
Quote of Picasso in Futurism, ed. Didier Ottinger; Centre Pompidou / 5 Continents Editions, Milan, 2008
Quotes, 1930's, "Conversations avec Picasso," 1934–35
Muhammad bin Qasim (695–715) Umayyad general
From a letter by Hajjaj to Muhammad bin Qasim. MacLean, Religion and Society in Arab Sind, 39. As quoted in Spencer, Robert (2018). The history of jihad: From Muhammad to ISIS.
Murasaki Shikibu book The Tale of Genji
Source: Tale of Genji, The Tale of Genji, trans. Arthur Waley, Ch. 29: The Royal Visit
H.P. Lovecraft (1890–1937) American author
Letter to E. Hoffmann Price (29 July 1936), published in Selected Letters Vol. V, p. 290
Non-Fiction, Letters, to E. Hoffmann Price
“All your friends think you're satisfied, but they can't see your soul, no, no, no…”
Robbie Williams (1974) British singer and entertainer
Something Beautiful
Escapology (2002)
Adolf Hitler (1889–1945) Führer and Reich Chancellor of Germany, Leader of the Nazi Party
As quoted in Hitler and I, Otto Strasser, Boston, MA, Houghton Mifflin Company (1940) p. 106
Other remarks
Henry Van Dyke (1852–1933) American diplomat
The White Blot <br class="br"> The Ruling Passion http://www.gutenberg.org/dirs/etext97/rlpsn10.txt (1901)
"The Paradox of Our Age"; these statements were used in World Wide Web hoaxes which attributed them to various authors including George Carlin, a teen who had witnessed the Columbine High School massacre, the Dalai Lama and Anonymous; they are quoted in "The Paradox of Our Time" at Snopes.com http://www.snopes.com/politics/soapbox/paradox.asp <br class="br">Words Aptly Spoken (1995)
Ted Bundy (1946–1989) American serial killer
Last spoken words as he is strapped to the electric chair. Quoted in Michaud, Stephen; Aynesworth, Hugh (1999) The Only Living Witness: The True Story of Serial Sex Killer Ted Bundy (Paperback; revised ed.). Irving, Texas: Authorlink Press. pg. 344
J.M.W. Turner (1775–1851) British Romantic landscape painter, water-colourist, and printmaker
Quote c. 1810; as quoted in 'A brief history of weather in European landscape art', John E. Thornes, in Weather Volume 55, Issue 10 Oct. 2000, p. 368
The sky effects in the 'Hannibal' painting of Turner (Tate Gallery, No. 490) he finished in 1812, were supposedly seen by Turner in Yorkshire whilst visiting his friends the Fawkeses, (Tate Gallery 1975)
1795 - 1820
“Ants never head for an empty granary:
no friends gather round when your wealth is gone.”
Horrea formicae tendunt ad inania numquam:
nullus ad amissas ibit amicus opes.
I, ix, 9-10; translation by A.S. Kline
Tristia (Sorrows)
Abraham Lincoln (1809–1865) 16th President of the United States
But since the Lecompton bill no Democrat, within my experience, has ever pretended that he could see the end. That cry has been dropped. They themselves do not pretend, now, that the agitation of this subject has come to an end yet.
1860s, Allow the humblest man an equal chance (1860)
Francois Villon (1431–1463) Mediæval French poet
Robert Louis Stevenson Familiar Studies of Men and Books (London: Chatto & Windus, 1882), ch. 6.
Criticism
John Green book Will Grayson, Will Grayson
Will Grayson, p. 1 (opening words)
Will Grayson, Will Grayson (2010)
Theodore Roosevelt (1858–1919) American politician, 26th president of the United States
1910s, The New Nationalism (1910)
Variant: The true friend of property, the true conservative, is he who insists that property shall be the servant and not the master of the commonwealth; who insists that the creature of man’s making shall be the servant and not the master of the man who made it. The citizens of the United States must effectively control the mighty commercial forces which they have called into being.
“He that is a friend to himself, is a friend to all mankind.”
Marcus Annaeus Seneca (-54–39 BC) Roman scholar
Derived from Epistulae Morales ad Lucilium; Epistle VI of Seneca the Younger:
"I shall tell you what pleased me today in the writings of Hecato; it is these words: 'What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.' That was indeed a great benefit; such a person can never be alone. You may be sure that such a man is a friend to all mankind." ["Interim quoniam diurnam tibi mercedulam debeo, quid me hodie apud Hecatonem delectaverit dicam. 'Quaeris' inquit 'quid profecerim? amicus esse mihi coepi.' Multum profecit: numquam erit solus. Scito esse hunc amicum omnibus."]
Misattributed
Mark Twain (1835–1910) American author and humorist
"A New Crime", first published as "The New Crime" in the Buffalo Express, 16 April 1870. Anthologized in Mark Twain's Sketches, New and Old http://books.google.com/books?id=5LcIAAAAQAAJ (1875).
Brian Eno (1948) English musician, composer, record producer and visual artist
a message that I often relay in the studio when overdubbing starts).
December 15, 1995, p. 178
A Year With Swollen Appendices (1996)
Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology
Other
William Wilberforce (1759–1833) English politician
Reported in Josiah Hotchkiss Gilbert, Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), p. 368.
Jennifer Beals (1963) American actress and a former teen model
Interview in Viva Magazine (Dec 2009, p. 76) http://jennifer-beals.com/media/press/viva.html.
Aleksandr Pushkin (1799–1837) Russian poet
Pushkin, 19 October 1827.
as quoted in Pushkin, Alexander (2009). Selected Lyric Poetry. Northwestern University Press, p. 121.
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
Obama says Clinton has foreign policy like Bush's http://www.reuters.com/article/2007/07/26/us-usa-politics-democrats-idUSN2619692620070726 26 July 2007 <br class="br">2007
“It’s just hassle of having friends and family an’ that.”
Karl Pilkington (1972) English television personality, social commentator, actor, author and former radio producer
Xfm 29 November 2003
On Life
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
2011, UN speech to General Assembly (September 2011)
Henry Temple, 3rd Viscount Palmerston (1784–1865) British politician
During the general election of July 1865 where the Chartist Rowcliffe voted for a Conservative and another Liberal in order to oust Palmerston from the two-member constituency; quoted in F. J. Snell, Palmerston's Borough (Tiverton, 1894), pp. 107-112.
1860s
Charles Spurgeon (1834–1892) British preacher, author, pastor and evangelist
Source: Dictionary of Burning Words of Brilliant Writers (1895), P. 148.
Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology
Concepts
Lawrence M. Krauss (1954) American physicist
"A Universe From Nothing" by Lawrence Krauss, AAI 2009 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ImvlS8PLIo#t=1h03m20s Closing words (01:03:20 - 01:04:30)
Arthur Miller (1915–2005) playwright from the United States
After being refused a passport for his supposed disloyalty. The New York Herald Tribune (31 March 1954)
André-Marie Ampère (1775–1836) French physicist and mathematician
Écoute les savants, mais ne les écoute que d'une oreille!... Que l'autre soit toujours prête à recevoir les doux accents de la voix de ton ami céleste!
Ampère's Meditation, September 1805
“Nothing is as dangerous as an ignorant friend; a wise enemy is to be preferred.”
Jean De La Fontaine (1621–1695) French poet, fabulist and writer.
Rien n'est si dangereux qu'un ignorant ami;
Mieux vaudrait un sage ennemi.
Book VIII (1678-1679), fable 10.
Fables (1668–1679)
Variant: Nothing is more dangerous than a friend without discretion; even a prudent enemy is preferable.
Theodore Roosevelt (1858–1919) American politician, 26th president of the United States
1910s, Address at Milwaukee, Wisconsin (1912)
Voltaire (1694–1778) French writer, historian, and philosopher
Further account of his conversations with Andrew Pit
The History of the Quakers (1762)
“Hate your enemies
Save your friends
Find your place
Speak the truth.”
Kurt Cobain (1967–1994) American musician and artist
Radio Friendly Unit Shifter.
Song lyrics, In Utero (1993)
Charles Sprague (1791–1875) Boston businessman and poet
To my Cigar, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).
Shahrukh Khan (1965) Indian actor, producer and television personality
From interview with Pratim D. Gupta
Shahrukh Khan (1965) Indian actor, producer and television personality
http://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=m-ch-vid&v=l0dLyjo2lNA
Quotes On Films
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
2004, Democratic National Convention speech (July 2004)
W.B. Yeats (1865–1939) Irish poet and playwright
The Collected Works in Verse and Prose of William Butler Yeats, II, preliminary poem (1908)
W.B. Yeats (1865–1939) Irish poet and playwright
To A Young Beauty http://poetry.poetryx.com/poems/1728/, st. 3 <br class="br">The Wild Swans at Coole (1919)
Hu Jintao (1942) former General Secretary of the Communist Party of China
2000s, White House speech (2006)
Jean Vanier (1928–2019) Canadian humanitarian
The Gift of Living With the Not Gifted http://www.wsj.com/articles/the-gift-of-living-with-the-not-gifted-1428103079 Wall Street Journal, April 3, 2015 <br class="br">From interviews and talks
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
In Orlando after the Orlando nightclub shooting ([President Obama: Orlando Families' Grief Is 'Beyond Description', Time, Maya, Rhodan, June 16, 2016, September 2, 2018, http://time.com/4372190/orlando-shooting-barack-obama-joe-biden-grief/]; [‘Our hearts are broken, too’: Obama visits survivors of Orlando rampage, Katie, Zezima, Ellen, Nakashima, Mark, Berman, June 16, 2016, September 2, 2018, The Washington Post, https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-nation/wp/2016/06/16/obama-looks-toward-grieving-orlando-in-visit-as-political-showdowns-expand-after-massacre/]; [After meeting with Orlando victims, Obama renews call for gun control, Gregory, Korte, USA Today, June 16, 2016, September 6, 2018, https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2016/06/16/obama-biden-visit-orlando-emotional-visit-after-shooting/85973066/]).
2016, After the Orlando nightclub shooting (June 2016)
Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America
2016, Remarks to the People of Cuba (March 2016)
Dattopant Thengadi (1920–2004) Indian politician
L.K. Advani, The Organiser, 31 October 2004 issue. p. 13, Article Named- Dedicated Rashtrasevak https://web.archive.org/web/20120331123458/http://organiser.org/archives/historic/dynamic/modulesa3a9.html?name=Content&pa=showpage&pid=48&page=13
Aldo Leopold book A Sand County Almanac
“August: The Green Pasture”, p. 51.
A Sand County Almanac, 1949, "August: The Green Pasture," "September: The Choral Copse," "October: Smoky Gold," and "October: Red Lanterns"
Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist
Source: 1910s, Why Men Fight https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Why_Men_Fight (1917), pp. 48-50
Jean Jacques Rousseau (1712–1778) Genevan philosopher
Second Dialogue; translated by Judith R. Bush, Christopher Kelly, Roger D. Masters
Dialogues: Rousseau Judge of Jean-Jacques (published 1782)
Archytas (-428–-347 BC) ancient Greek philosopher
Attributed to Archytus by Christiaan Huygens, The Celestial Worlds Discover'd (1722) Book 1, pt.4 and quoted by Arthur Beer, Vistas in Astronomy (1955) Vol.1 https://ia600304.us.archive.org/35/items/VistasInAstronomy-Volume1/Beer-VistasInAstronomyVolume1.pdf
Auguste Comte (1798–1857) French philosopher
Book VI: Social Physics, Ch. II: Principle Philosophical Attempts to Constitute a Social System
The Positive Philosophy of Auguste Comte (1853)
Abraham Lincoln (1809–1865) 16th President of the United States
Source: Reply to Missouri Committee of Seventy (30 September 1864)
Mohammed Alkobaisi (1970) Iraqi Islamic scholar
Understanding Islam, "Morals and Ethics" http://vod.dmi.ae/media/96716/Ep_03_Morals_and_Ethics Dubai Media
Erich Maria Remarque book All Quiet on the Western Front
Paul after visiting Russian prisoners, Ch. 8
All Quiet on the Western Front (1929)
Georgi Pulevski (1817–1893) Macedonian writer
Rečnik od tri jezika: s. makedonski, arbanski i turski [Dictionary of Three languages: Macedonian, Albanian, Turkish], U držacnoj štampariji, 1875, p. 48f.
“Anyway, just because you're sworn enemies doesn't mean you can't be friends, does it?”
Terry Pratchett book The Carpet People
The Carpet People (1971; 1992)
Galileo Galilei (1564–1642) Italian mathematician, physicist, philosopher and astronomer
Source: Letter to Fr. Vincenzo Renieri (c. 1633), p. 251-253
Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge (1982) Wife of Prince William, Duke of Cambridge
First post-engagement interview (2010)
Kurt Vonnegut book God Bless You, Mr. Rosewater
Concerning Eliot Rosewater.
God Bless You, Mr. Rosewater (1965)
Ted Bundy (1946–1989) American serial killer
Discussing his high school years. Quoted in Michaud, Stephen; Aynesworth, Hugh (1999) The Only Living Witness: The True Story of Serial Sex Killer Ted Bundy (Paperback; revised ed.). Irving, Texas: Authorlink Press. pg. 66
“We'll play jacks and Uno cards
I'll be your best friend
And you'll be mine”
Fergie (1975) singer from the United States
"Big Girls Don't Cry" (2006), from The Dutchess.
Cassandra Clare The Mortal Instruments
Clary to Jace, pg. 253
The Mortal Instruments, City of Bones (2007)
Cyril Connolly book Enemies of Promise
Source: Enemies of Promise (1938), Part 2: The Charlock’s Shade, Ch. 16: Outlook Unsettled (p. 137)