Quotes about friend
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“This is what happens. You tell your friends your most personal secrets, and they use them against you.”

Sophie Kinsella book Shopaholic Ties the Knot

Source: Shopaholic Ties the Knot

Secret, Personality

“Friends may come and go
but enemies accumulate.”

Jayne Ann Krentz (1948) American novelist

Source: In Too Deep

“Friends help each other when they are… you know… going up international hit men and stuff.”

Ally Carter book All Fall Down

Source: All Fall Down

Men, Help

“The real alchemy consists in being able to turn gold back again into something else; and that's the secret that most of your friends have lost.”

Edith Wharton book The House of Mirth

Source: The House of Mirth

Secret

“Often you don't know whether a woman is friend, enemy or lover until it is too late. Sometimes, she is all three.”

Robert Jordan Lord of Chaos

Thom Merrilin
(15 October 1994)
Source: Lord of Chaos

Lovers

“They were inlove, but they hadn't been lovers; they were friends and yet also strangers for so many years”

Nicholas Sparks book The Best of Me

Source: The Best of Me

Lovers

“Hon, when someone's a true friend, there's no need to miss 'em." She patted her chest. "'Cause they're always right here.”

Kirby Larson book Hattie Big Sky

Source: Hattie Big Sky

“Don’t you, when strangers and friends come to call, straighten the cushions, kick the books under the bed and put away the letter you were writing? How many of us want any of us to see us as we really are? Isn’t the mirror hostile enough?”

Jeanette Winterson (1959) English writer

Hostility, Books

“We must always look after our friends, even when they are foolish. Especially when they are foolish.”

Richard Kadrey (1957) San Francisco-based novelist, freelance writer, and photographer

Source: Sandman Slim

“What makes a man a man? A friend of mine once wondered. Is it his origins? The way he comes to life? I don't think so. It's the choices he makes. Not how he starts things, but how he decides to end them.”

Guillermo del Toro (1964) Mexican film director

Source: Hellboy: The Art of the Movie

Life, Way, Thinking

“You're my best friend, my first and only love, and the most beautiful girl I've ever seen”

James Patterson (1947) American author

Source: Fang

Love, Beauty, Girl

“It wasn’t Leo’s finest moment. Panic seized him, and he took off. His only comfort was that his friends did, too – and they weren’t the cowardly type.”

Rick Riordan book The Blood of Olympus

Source: The Blood of Olympus

“If you're my friend I should be able to talk to you but I can't, and if I can't talk to you, well, what is the point of you? Of us?”

David Nicholls book One Day

Source: One Day

“I make mistakes. That's what I do. I
speak without thinking, I act without
knowing. I drink so much that I can
barely walk… I'm a fantastic lover
though, and an amazing friend. God
knows I mean well.”

Candace Bushnell (1958) American author

God, Lovers, Drink, Thinking

“It turns out Dimitri had a friend, who had a friend, and despite the best security in the Moroi world, we managed to get into the Court's prison facilities.”

Richelle Mead Shadow Kiss

Source: Shadow Kiss

World

“A friend may be waiting behind a stranger's face.”

Maya Angelou book Letter to My Daughter

Source: Letter to My Daughter

Waiting, Friendship, Positive, For Friend

“It was scary how a girl couldn't live without friends.”

Candace Bushnell book The Carrie Diaries

Source: The Carrie Diaries

Girl

“Think twice before you speak to a friend in need”

Ambrose Bierce (1842–1914) American editorialist, journalist, short story writer, fabulist, and satirist

Source: The Unabridged Devil's Dictionary

Thinking

“I saw Herschel and he saw me and we stood next to each other because that is what friends do in the presence of evil or love.”

Jonathan Safran Foer book Everything Is Illuminated

Source: Everything Is Illuminated

Love, Evil

“Champagne for my real friends and real pain for my sham friends.”

Tom Waits (1949) American singer-songwriter and actor

Pain

“But enemies can become friends.”

Rick Riordan book The Son of Neptune

The Son of Neptune

“A friend may be nature's most magnificent creation.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882) American philosopher, essayist, and poet

Nature

“I have friends. I want more from you than that. I’m a selfish guy, Jane. If I can’t be your lover, if I can’t have all of you, then I don’t want anything.”

Rachel Gibson (1961) American writer

Source: See Jane Score

Guy, Lovers, Selfishness

“I don't want to be your friend, baby. I am your friend.”

Ernest Hemingway book A Farewell to Arms

Source: A Farewell to Arms

Baby

“Chaos is a friend of mine.”

Bob Dylan (1941) American singer-songwriter, musician, author, and artist

Newsweek (9 December 1985)

“The bulls are my best friends."
I translated to Brett.
"You kill your friends?" she asked.
"Always," he said in English, and laughed. "So they don't kill me.”

Ernest Hemingway book The Sun Also Rises

Source: The Sun Also Rises

“Can't we be friends?'
I hate your guts, Frankovitch'
Can't our guts be friends?”

Barbara Park (1947–2013) American juvenile author

Hate

“Friend, you're HOPELESSLY hooked!”

Oliver James (1953) British psychologist

“I couldn't help thinking about my dream, with Annabeth crumpled and lifeless in Luke's arms. Here I was rescuing baby monsters, but I couldn't save my friend.”

Rick Riordan book The Titan's Curse

Source: The Titan's Curse

Dreams, Thinking, Help, Baby

“Having a friend made everything else suck less.”

Laurie Halse Anderson (1961) American children's writer

Source: The Impossible Knife of Memory

“He looked down and did something quite out of character for him: he took hold of Shmuel's tiny hand in his and squeezed it tightly.
"You're my best friend, Shmuel," he said. "My best friend for life.”

John Boyne (1971) Irish novelist, author of children's and youth fiction

Source: The Boy in the Striped Pajamas

Life

“Have your adventures, make your mistakes, and choose your friends poorly -- all these make for great stories.”

Chuck Palahniuk (1962) American novelist, essayist

“There are two words that you should use frequently in your youth: ´sorry´ and ´thank-you´. Use the first one as often as possible, so that on your death bed all that you have to say to your friends is ´thank-you!´.”

Robin Jones Gunn (1955) American writer

Death, Youth

“I was angry with my friend:
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not, my wrath did grow.”

William Blake A Poison Tree

A Poison Tree, st. 1
1790s, Songs of Experience (1794)

“Why are you being so mean?"
"Friends tell friends the truth."
"yeah, but not to hurt, to help.”

Laurie Halse Anderson Wintergirls

Source: Wintergirls

Truth, Help, Hurt

“I had rather be shut up in a very modest cottage with my books, my family and a few old friends, dining on simple bacon, and letting the world roll on as it liked, than to occupy the most splendid post, which any human power can give.”

Thomas Jefferson (1743–1826) 3rd President of the United States of America

Letter to Alexander Donald (7 February 1788)
1780s
Source: Letters of Thomas Jefferson

Books, World, Family

“I grunted. “She’s not a delicate princess,” I said. “She’s a warrior. Warriors have enemies. Sometimes warriors get hurt.” I felt my jaws clench. “And then their friends even things up.”

Jim Butcher book Skin Game

Source: Skin Game

Hurt, Princess

“In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends.”

John Churton Collins (1848–1908) British literary critic

Friendship, For Friend, For Bestfriend

“Which is why we have spouses and children and parents and colleagues and friends, because someone has to know us better than we know ourselves. We need them to tell us. We need them to say, "I know you, Al. You are not the kind of man who.”

Richard Russo book Straight Man

Source: Straight Man

Children, Parent

“Yes'm, old friends is always best, 'less you can catch a new one that's fit to make an old one out of.”

Sarah Orne Jewett book The Country of the Pointed Firs

Source: The Country of the Pointed Firs (1896), Ch. 12

“Finally, the intercom crackles and Hatmitch's acerbic laugh fills the studio. He contains himself just long enough to say, 'And that, my friends, is how a revolution dies.”

Suzanne Collins book Mockingjay

Source: Mockingjay

“To have not shot his friend in the face would have sent a message to the quail that America is weak.”

Jon Stewart (1962) American political satirist, writer, television host, actor, media critic and stand-up comedian

“You slept with Curran and you didn’t tell me? I’m your best friend.”
“It didn’t come up.”
“How disappointing for you.”
Ha-ha. “That’s not what I meant.”

Ilona Andrews American husband-and-wife novelist duo

Source: Magic Bleeds

Disappointment

“I survive at the edge of friends circles.”

Holly Black book Red Glove

Source: Red Glove

“Luck, you see, brings bitter friends.”

John Steinbeck book The Pearl

Source: The Pearl (1947), Ch. III

“Is this one of those keep-your-friends-close-and-your-enemies-closer things?"
"I though it was keep your friends close so you have someone to drive the car when you sneak over to your enemy's house at night and throw up in his mailbox.”

Cassandra Clare book City of Fallen Angels

Source: City of Fallen Angels

Cars, Housing, Night

“Piper!” Frank yelled. “Counter those empousai! We need some chaos.”

“Thought you’d never ask.” She started catcalling at the female demons: “Your makeup is smeared! Your friend called you ugly! That one is making a face behind your back!”

Rick Riordan (1964) American writer

“One good reason to only maintain a small circle of friends is that three out of four murders are committed by people who know the victim.”

George Carlin (1937–2008) American stand-up comedian

People

“Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.”

Gloria Naylor (1950–2016) American writer

People, Art, Silence, Time

“I guess no one stays friends for more than thirty years without broken hearts along the way.”

Kristin Hannah (1960) American writer

Source: Firefly Lane

Way, Heart

“A friend in power is a friend lost.”

Henry Adams book The Education of Henry Adams

Source: The Education of Henry Adams

“Your friends will know you better in the first minute you meet than your acquaintances will know you in a thousand years.”

Richard Bach (1936) American spiritual writer

Illusions : The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah (1977)

Friendship, For Friend, For Bestfriend

“There is danger that we lose sight of what our friend is absolutely, while considering what she is to us alone.”

Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862) 1817-1862 American poet, essayist, naturalist, and abolitionist

“Your friends will notice at once that glib vacuities fail to impress, and hate you, and tell lies about you. It's worth it.”

Aleister Crowley book Magick Without Tears

Source: Magick Without Tears

Hate

“One of the principal functions of a friend is to suffer (in a milder and symbolic form) the punishments that we should like, but are unable, to inflict upon our enemies.”

Aldous Huxley book Brave New World

Source: Brave New World

Suffering

“Did you ever dream you had a friend, Alec? Someone to last your whole life and you his. I suppose such a thing can’t really happen outside sleep.”

E.M. Forster book Maurice

Source: Maurice

Life, Dreams, Sleep

“That's the problem with best friends. Sometimes they know you better than you know yourself.”

Cecily von Ziegesar (1970) American writer

Source: Nobody Does it Better

Problem

“If I were to name the three most precious resources of life, I should say books, friends, and nature….”

John Burroughs (1837–1921) American naturalist and essayist

Life, Books, Nature

“No, my friend, I am not drunk. I have just been to the dentist, and need not return for another six months! Is it not the most beautiful thought?
--Poirot”

Agatha Christie book One, Two, Buckle My Shoe

Source: One, Two, Buckle My Shoe

Beauty

“He is a Shadowhunter,” said Jocelyn. “His loyalty will be to Clave and Covenant.”
“He’s my friend,” said Magnus coldly. “His loyalty is to me.”

Cassandra Clare The City of Lost Souls

Source: City of Lost Souls

Loyalty

“For the first time, he looked at her, and she wasn’t a stranger, she was Clary—his friend. His family. The girl he’d sworn always to protect. The girl he loved as fiercely as he loved himself.”

Cassandra Clare (1973) American author

Source: The Lost Herondale

Love, Family, Girl, Time

“Every human being must find his own way to cope with severe loss, and the only job of a true friend is to facilitate whatever method he chooses.”

Caleb Carr (1955) Novelist, screenwriter, military historian

Way, Loss

“He is more worth to you, perhaps. But the stranger is someone else's friend and brother. So which life is more important?”

Madeline Miller book The Song of Achilles

Source: The Song of Achilles

Life

“… My friend, there are some things that I cannot tell you. Some I will tell you in time; some, others will tell you; some you may never know, or you may be the first to find the answers.”

Robin McKinley book The Blue Sword

Source: The Blue Sword

Time

“Fred: "Is that brick wall your boyfriend?"
Doug: "Only in my dreams."
Fred: "Oh, you too? I'm Fred."
Doug: "Doug. I should mention, in all fairness though that Christy's boyfriend is my best friend. He's the brick wall you should be worried about.”

Robin Jones Gunn (1955) American writer

Source: A Time to Cherish

Dreams

“I raged across the field, killing all before me. They ran when they saw me coming, and I chased them down, and killed them before they could take someone else's friend away from them.”

Ilona Andrews American husband-and-wife novelist duo

Source: Magic Burns

Rage

“Books are the most tolerant of friends.”

Richard Paul Evans (1962) American writer

Books

“One of Renee's friends asked her, "Does your boyfriend wear glasses?" She said, "No, he wears a Walkman.”

Rob Sheffield (1966) American music journalist

Source: Love Is a Mix Tape

“Do not despair, my friend. Today is theirs, but the future is ours”

Rodman Philbrick book The Last Book in the Universe

Source: The Last Book in the Universe

Future, Despair

“I can never think of you as a friend. You can do without a friend.”

Graham Greene book The End of the Affair

Source: The End of the Affair

Thinking, Hurtful

“There is one friend in the life of each of us who seems not a separate person, however dear and beloved, but an expansion, an interpretation, of one's self, the very meaning of one's soul.”

Edith Wharton (1862–1937) American novelist, short story writer, designer

Life, Soul, Personality, Friendship

“n the world, those who break the rules are scum, but those who abandon their friends are worse than scum.”

Masashi Kishimoto (1974) Japanese manga artist

World

“When you already believe something, how can you suddenly stop? When you are a loyal friend, how can you no longer be one?”

Amy Tan The Hundred Secret Senses

Source: The Hundred Secret Senses

“Nudge: "I look like prep school Barbie. (looks at Max) Actually, you look like prep school Barbie. I'm just Barbie's friend.”

James Patterson (1947) American author

Source: School's Out—Forever

School

“Nobody steals books but your friends.”

Roger Zelazny book The Guns of Avalon

Source: The Guns of Avalon

Books

“Friends are the support bras of life.”

Lisa Kleypas (1964) American writer

Source: Rainshadow Road

Life, Support, Cute

“Only a true best friend can protect you from your immortal enemies.”

Richelle Mead Vampire Academy

Source: Vampire Academy

Funny, Beauty, Friendship, Romantic

“We'll be Friends Forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet.
Even longer,' Pooh answered.”
Winnie-the-Pooh”

A.A. Milne book Winnie-the-Pooh

Source: Winnie-the-Pooh

For Bestfriend

“What good was owning the world when he’d have no choice except to defend himself against every person in it? Personally, he’d rather be a beggar with one true friend than a prince surrounded by two-faced assassins.’ (Aiden)”

Sherrilyn Kenyon (1965) Novelist

Source: Upon the Midnight Clear

World, Personality

“I am charging you with the protection of my mother and friends, not to mention keeping my younger self off the Internet. He is as dangerous as Opal.”

Eoin Colfer (1965) Irish author of children's books

Source: The Time Paradox

“Love is a delicate plant that needs constant tending and nurturing, and this cannot be done by snorting at the adored object like a gas explosion and calling her friends lice.”

P.G. Wodehouse book Jeeves and the Feudal Spirit

Source: Jeeves and the Feudal Spirit

Love

“I don't want our relationship to end like this. You're one of the very few friends I have, and it hurts not being able to see you. When am I going to be able to talk to you? I want you to tell me that much, at least.”

Haruki Murakami book Norwegian Wood

Source: Norwegian Wood

Hurt

“That's the difference between family and friends. Family is always there, no matter what, even when it's not right next door. Which means that you'll find a way to keep the connection alive. Especially since you realize how important it is.”

Nicholas Sparks book The Longest Ride

Source: The Longest Ride

Family, Way

“my candle burns at both ends it will not last the night but arh my friends and oh my foes it gives a lovely light”

Roald Dahl book Boy

Edna St. Vincent Millay, in "First Fig" from A Few Figs from Thistles (1920); said to be a motto Roald Dahl lived by.
Misattributed
Variant: My candle burns at both ends;
It will not last the night;
But, ah, my foes, and, oh, my friends —
It gives a lovely light.
Source: Boy: Tales of Childhood

Love, Light, Night