Quotes about first
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“The best sex takes place in the mind first”
Source: How to Make Love Like a Porn Star: A Cautionary Tale
Source: Touch the Dark
“She must be assured that it is not a criminal offense to love at first sight.”
Source: Howards End
“The first duty of love is to listen.”
Source: Belgarath the Sorcerer
Source: Wicked Deeds on a Winter's Night
“Childhood, after all, is the first precious coin that poverty steals from a child.”
Source: The House of Silk
“I was always sweet, at first. Oh, it's so easy to be sweet to people before you love them.”
Source: Collected Stories
“But to be quite oneself one must first waste a little time.”
“First with the head, then with the heart, you'll be ahead from the start.”
Variant: First with the head, then with the heart.
Source: The Power of One
“Well, the first thing is that I love monsters, I identify with monsters.”
Source: The Monsters Of Hellboy II
“There is this quality, in things, of the right way seeming wrong at first.”
Source: Rabbit, Run
“The person we know at first, she thinks, is not the one we know at last.”
Source: Let the Great World Spin
“But first, are you experienced?
Uh-have you ever been experienced? Well, I have”
Are You Experienced?
Song lyrics, Are You Experienced? (1967)
Context: We’ll hold hands and then we’ll watch the sunrise
From the bottom of the sea
But first, are you experienced?
Uh-have you ever been experienced? Well, I have
“To be sure of hitting the target, shoot first, and call whatever you hit the target”
“To learn something, to master something, anything, is as sweet as first love.”
Source: Pendragon Before The War: Book Two Of The Travelers (Pendragon
1960s, Why I Am Opposed to the War in Vietnam (1967)
Context: As I have walked among the desperate, rejected, and angry young men, I have told them that Molotov cocktails and rifles would not solve their problems. I have tried to offer them my deepest compassion while maintaining my conviction that social change comes most meaningfully through non-violent action; for they ask and write me, "So what about Vietnam?" They ask if our nation wasn't using massive doses of violence to solve its problems to bring about the changes it wanted. Their questions hit home, and I knew that I could never again raise my voice against the violence of the oppressed in the ghettos without first having spoken clearly to the greatest purveyor of violence in the world today: my own government. For the sake of those boys, for the sake of this government, for the sake of the hundreds of thousands trembling under our violence I cannot be silent.
“We were screwed and he didn't even kiss us first.”
Source: Magic Burns
“She knew now that marriage did not make love. Janie’s first dream was dead, so she became a woman.”
Source: Their Eyes Were Watching God
A comment to T. H. Morgan, as recalled by Henry Borsook. Einstein was visiting Cal Tech where Morgan and Borsook worked, and Morgan explained to Einstein that he was trying to bring physics and chemistry to bear on the problems of biology, to which Einstein gave this response. Borsook's recollection was published in Symposium on Structure of Enzymes and Proteins (1956), p. 284 http://books.google.com/books?id=H4QjXb4gnEIC&q=%22so+important+a+biological%22#search_anchor, as part of a piece titled "Informal remarks 'by way of a summary'". Context for this story is also given in The Molecular Vision of Life by Lily E. Kay (1993), p. 95 http://books.google.com/books?id=vEHeNI2a8OEC&lpg=PP1&pg=PA95#v=onepage&q&f=false
Attributed in posthumous publications
Source: NOS4A2
“I learned: the first lesson of my life: nobody can face the world with his eyes open all the time.”
Source: Midnight's Children
Stand-up performance at RIT (2005)
“Roza. You forgot my first lesson: Don’t hesitate.”- Dimitri Belikov (Blood Promise)”
Variant: You forgot my first lesson: don't hesitate.
Source: Blood Promise
Source: Seriously... I'm Kidding
“Animals hear about death for the first time when they die.”
“When we put God first, all other things fall into their proper place or drop out of our lives.”
Source: All Fall Down
“Having, First, gained all you can, and, Secondly saved all you can, Then give all you can.”
Sermon 50 "The Use of Money" in The Works of the Reverend John Wesley, A.M. (1840) edited by John Emory, Vol. I, p. 446
Popularly paraphrased as:
Make all you can,
Save all you can,
Give all you can.
General sources
Source: Mystery and Manners: Occasional Prose
Source: Does My Head Look Big In This?
“First time it's a stranger. Second time its just a coincidence. Third time it's a tail”
Source: Cross My Heart and Hope to Spy
“…there is no nakedness that compares to being naked in front of someone for the first time.”
Source: A Widow for One Year
Variant: Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. Your really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.
“Almost all good writing begins with terrible first efforts. You need to start somewhere.”
Source: Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life