Quotes about the trip
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“Life is brief and to have to spend every day of it doing what somebody else wants you to do is not the way to live it.”

Cormac McCarthy (1933) American novelist, playwright, and screenwriter

Life

“They could see she was a real Princess and no question about it, now that she had felt one pea all the way through twenty mattresses and twenty more feather beds. Nobody but a Princess could be so delicate.”

Hans Christian Andersen book The Princess and the Pea

The Princess and the Pea
Fairy Tales (1835)
Source: The Princess and the Pea: The Graphic Novel

Question, Princess

“Writing a story or a novel is one way of discovering sequence in experience, of stumbling upon cause and effect in the happenings of a writer's own life.”

Eudora Welty (1909–2001) American author

Life

“Neither sugar nor salt tastes particularly good by itself. Each is at its best when used to season other things.

Love is the same way.

Use it to "season" people.”

Vera Nazarian (1966) American writer

Source: The Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration

Love, People, Season

“It had come about exactly in the way things happened in books.”

Agatha Christie And Then There Were None

Source: And Then There Were None

Books

“Something about the way she moves through the world does not lend itself to the care of fragile objects.”

Chelsea Cain (1972) American journalist and writer

Source: Heartsick

World

“Such is the cost of immortality. No person is whole. No person is free. Over time, some have determined that the only way to live is to die. In death, a man or a woman is free of the weight of the past [and the future].”

Alan Lightman book Einstein's Dreams

Source: Einstein's Dreams

Death, Time, Past, Future

“The way to get good ideas is to get lots of ideas, and throw the bad ones away.”

Linus Pauling (1901–1994) American scientist

Variant: The best way to have a good idea is to have lots of ideas.

Idea

“Each thing in its way, when true to its own character, is equally beautiful.”

Edward Abbey book Desert Solitaire

"Cliffrose and Bayonets", p. 37
Source: Desert Solitaire (1968)

Beauty

“When a demigod like me comes around, bad things happen. Really bad.-Leo

Maybe it's the other way around, Jason suggested. Maybe people with special gifts show up when bad things are happening because that's when they're needed most.”

Rick Riordan book The Lost Hero

Source: The Lost Hero

People

“There is only one way to achieve happiness on this terrestrial ball, and that is to have either a clear conscience or none at all.”

Ogden Nash (1902–1971) American poet

Happiness

“There are two ways of exerting one's strength: one is pushing down, the other is pulling up.”

Booker T. Washington (1856–1915) African-American educator, author, orator, and advisor

As quoted in The Great Quotations (1971) edited by George Seldes, p. 366

“Life was messy. Always had been and always would be and that was just the way it was, so why bother complaining? You either did something about it or you didn’t, and then you lived with the choice you made.”

Nicholas Sparks book The Best of Me

Source: The Best of Me

Life

“They're a dark people with a gift for suffering way past their deserving. It's said that without whiskey to soak and soften the world, they'd kill themselves. (Irish)”

John Steinbeck book East of Eden

Source: East of Eden

People, World, Suffering, Past

“They say that there are moments that open up your life like a walnut cracked, that change your point of view so that you never look at things the same way again.”

Jodi Picoult book Keeping Faith

Source: Keeping Faith

Life, Change

“The obvious," Noah goes on, a little out of breath, "being that he is probably some super secret assassin or something. And I'm not as tough as I look."
"That's OK," I tell him. "I'm way tougher than you look.”

Ally Carter book All Fall Down

Source: All Fall Down

Secret

“My chest feels full of glitter and helium, the way it used to when I was little and riding my father's shoulders at twilight, when I knew that if I held up my hands and spread my fingers like a net, I could catch the coming stars.”

Jodi Picoult My Sister's Keeper

Source: My Sister's Keeper

Feeling, Star

“Respect is not a one way street”

Henry Rollins (1961) American singer-songwriter

“The only thing I do know for sure is that if we both want to, we’ll find a way to make it work.”

Nicholas Sparks book The Longest Ride

Source: The Longest Ride

“The reality of what we really are is often times found in the small snips, way down at the bottom of things.”

Jean Shepherd (1921–1999) American writer and radio host

Reality, Time

“Reading is not just an escape. It is access to a better way of life.”

Karin Slaughter (1971) US-american crime writer

Life, Reading

“Love, however, cannot be forbidden. The more that flame is covered up, the hotter it burns. Also love can always find a way. It was impossible that these two whose hearts were on fire should be kept apart. (Pyramus and Thisbe)”

Edith Hamilton book Mythology

Source: Mythology: Timeless Tales of Gods and Heroes

Love, Heart

“If you’re going to try, go all the
way.
otherwise, don’t even start.”

Charles Bukowski book Hot Water Music

Source: Hot Water Music

“Love potions? For Will Herondale? T’aint my way to turn down payment, but any man who looks like you has got no need of love potions, and that’s a fact.”

Cassandra Clare book Clockwork Prince

Source: Clockwork Prince

Love

“He bumped into a pay phone and said, 'Excuse me, miss,' on our way in," said Julian.

"It's polite to apologize," said Mark with the same small voice.

"Not to inanimate objects.”

Cassandra Clare book Lady Midnight

Source: Lady Midnight

“So, in a way, my name being drawn in the reaping was a real piece of luck," says Peeta.”

Suzanne Collins The Hunger Games

Source: The Hunger Games

“Saying my story makes me want to change it, make it sound pretty the way I do with the stories I tell the workers. I'd like it to have a beginning as grand as a ball and an ending in a whisper, like a mother tucking in a child for sleep.”

Shannon Hale The Goose Girl

Source: The Goose Girl

Sleep, Change

“One man's ways may be as good as another's, but we all like our own best.”

Jane Austen book Persuasion

Source: Persuasion

“The dance goes from realizing that you're separate (which is the awakening) to then trying to find your way back into the totality of which you are not only a part, but which you are.”

Ram Dass (1931–2019) American contemporary spiritual teacher and the author of the 1971 book Be Here Now

Dance, Parting

“As Harry puts it, men and women can never be friends because 'the sex part always gets in the way.”

Nora Ephron (1941–2012) Film director, author screenwriter

Source: When Harry Met Sally

Women, Men, Sex, Parting

“arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way.”

Dale Carnegie How to Win Friends and Influence People

Source: How to Win Friends and Influence People

World, Personality

“I have noticed that people are dealing too much with the negative, with what is wrong…. Why not try the other way, to look into the patient and see positive things, to just touch those things and make them bloom?”

Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist

People

“That just the way it is. Some things will never change. That's just the way it is. But don't you believe them.”

Malorie Blackman Noughts & Crosses

Source: Noughts & Crosses

Change

“If I should die,” Dalinar said, “then I would do so having lived my life right. It is not the destination that matters, but how one arrives there.”
“The Codes?”
“No. The Way of Kings.”
“That storming book.”

Brandon Sanderson book The Way of Kings

Source: The Way of Kings

Life, Books

“I have prayed for years for one good humiliation a day, and then, I must watch my reaction to it. I have no other way of spotting both my denied shadow self and my idealized persona.”

Richard Rohr (1943) American spiritual writer, speaker, teacher, Catholic Franciscan priest

Source: Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life

“As soon as a manhas his guard up. he will not fall in love or get attached the only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first.”

Sherry Argov (1977) American writer

Source: Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart

Love

“Jesus does not give recipes that show the way to God as other teachers of religion do. He is Himself the way”

Karl Barth (1886–1968) Swiss Protestant theologian

God, Religion, Teachers

“Authority doesn't come from a rank.," Kaladin said, fingering the spheres in his pocket.
"Where does it come from?"
"From the men who give it to you. That's the only way to get it.”

Brandon Sanderson book The Way of Kings

Source: The Way of Kings

Men

“The best way to die is when your living”

Alice Hoffman (1952) Novelist, young-adult writer, children's writer

“How did you become blind, uh, Jeff is it?"
Yeah, Jeff. Well, I looked directly at the sun, you know, the way they always tell you not to. If only I had listened.”

James Patterson (1947) American author

Source: School's Out—Forever

Sun

“Because philosophy arises from awe, a philosopher is bound in his way to be a lover of myths and poetic fables. Poets and philosophers are alike in being big with wonder.”

Thomas Aquinas (1225–1274) Italian Dominican scholastic philosopher of the Roman Catholic Church

Lovers

“You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it's better to listen to what it has to say. That way, you'll never have to fear an unanticipated blow.”

Paulo Coelho (1947) Brazilian lyricist and novelist

Fear, Heart

“You never do things the easy way, do you?" she said.
"There's an easy way?" I asked.”

Patrick Rothfuss book The Wise Man's Fear

Source: The Wise Man's Fear

“You can't argue with the fools in the world. It's better to let them have their way, then trick them when they're not paying attention.”

Terry Goodkind (1948) American novelist

World, Fools

“Get out of my way; for I won't stop for you.”

George Bernard Shaw Pygmalion

Source: Pygmalion

“The wisdom of God devised a way for the love of God to deliver sinners from the wrath of God while not compromising the righteousness of God.”

John Piper (1946) American writer

Source: Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist

Love, Wisdom, God

“To look at her, you might not guess that inside she is laughing and crying, at her own stupidities and luckiness, and at the strange enigmatic ways of the world which she will spend lifetime trying to learn and understand.”

Sylvia Plath (1932–1963) American poet, novelist and short story writer

Stupidity, World, Understanding, Learning

“So scared of getting older
I'm only good at being young
So I play the numbers game to find a way to say that life has just begun.”

John Mayer (1977) guitarist and singer/songwriter

Source: Continuum: Music by John Mayer

Life, Game

“Rules should always be bent, if not broken. It's the only way to have any fun.”

Alyson Nöel book Evermore

Source: Evermore

“All I can hope for is a reconstruction: the way love feels is always only approximate.”

Margaret Atwood book The Handmaid's Tale

Source: The Handmaid's Tale

Love, Hope, Feeling

“I would do anything for you. Anything."

With that, he pushed his way out… and as the door eased shut, she realized that I love you could indeed be said without actually uttering the phrase.

Actions did mean more than words.”

Jessica Bird (1969) U.S. novelist

Source: Lover Unleashed

Love

“There’s no remaking reality… Just take it as it comes. Hold your ground and take it as it comes. There’s no other way.”

Philip Roth book Everyman

Source: Everyman

Reality

“As Emmanuel, Cardinal Suhard says, "To be a witness does not consist in engaging in propaganda, nor even in stirring people up, but in being a living mystery. It means to live in such a way that one's life would not make sense if God did not exist.”

Madeleine L'Engle (1918–2007) American writer

Source: Walking on Water: Reflections on Faith and Art

Life, God, People, Sense

“Did you ever wonder if the person in the picture is the same one you see when you look in the mirror?" - "That's the eternal question, isn't it? Are we born who we are, or do we make ourselves that way?”

Jodi Picoult Change of Heart

Source: Change of Heart

Question, Personality

“Look at it this way," Ms. Terwilliger said, after several moments of thought. "The callistana thinks of you two as its parents.”

Richelle Mead book The Indigo Spell

Source: The Indigo Spell

Thinking, Parent

“There are lots of ways of being miserable, but there’s only one way of being comfortable, and that is to stop running round after happiness. If you make up your mind not to be happy there’s no reason why you shouldn’t have a fairly good time.”

Edith Wharton (1862–1937) American novelist, short story writer, designer

Source: Ethan Frome and Other Short Fiction

Time, Happiness

“And the best way to know who we are is often to find out how others see us.”

Paulo Coelho (1947) Brazilian lyricist and novelist

Source: The Witch Of Portobello

“Genius is a curse. That's how I look at it. Some think that the brilliant comprehend the universe in a way the rest of us can't. They see the world how it truly is—and that reality is so horrible the lose their minds. Clarity leads to insanity.”

Harlan Coben book Caught

Source: Caught

World, Thinking, Reality, Universe

“Oh, seek, my love, your newer way;
I'll not be left in sorrow.
So long as I have yesterday,
Go take your damned tomorrow!”

Dorothy Parker (1893–1967) American poet, short story writer, critic and satirist

Love

“Cupid said, smashing another skeleton to pieces."Nico," Jason managed to say, "it's okay. I get it."

Nico glanced over, pain and misery washing across his face.

"No you don't," he said. "There's no way you can understand."Cupid chided.”

Rick Riordan book The House of Hades

Source: The House of Hades

Pain, Understanding

“I know it can't be the same between us, but that doesn't change the way I felt about you then.”

Nicholas Sparks book The Notebook

Source: The Notebook

Change

“I will look after you and I will look after anybody you say needs to be looked after, any way you say. I am here. I brought my whole self to you. I am your mother.”

Maya Angelou book Mom & Me & Mom

Source: Mom & Me & Mom

Mother's Day, For Mother

“There are many different ways to be poor in the world but increasingly there seems to be one single way to be rich.”

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie book Americanah

Source: https://sheleadsafrica.org/20-powerful-chimamanda-adichie-quotes-for-todays-boss-women/

World

“My problem is I can think whatever I think—girl power, solidarity, Gloria Steinem rah rah rah — but I still feel the way I feel.
Which is jealous. And pissy about little things.”

E. Lockhart (1967) American writer of novels as E. Lockhart (mainly for teenage girls) and of picture books under real name Emily J…

Source: The Boyfriend List: 15 Guys, 11 Shrink Appointments, 4 Ceramic Frogs and Me, Ruby Oliver

Feeling, Girl, Problem, Thinking

“Look, I never wanted to be a half-blood. most of the time it gets you killed in nasty, dangerous ways.”

Rick Riordan book The Lightning Thief

Source: The Lightning Thief

Time

“A bore or an uggo might manage not to get up anyone's nose, but if a girl's got brains and looks and personality, she's going to piss someone off, somewhere along the way.”

Tana French book Faithful Place

Source: Faithful Place

Girl, Personality

“one thing about having a baby is that each step of the way you simply cannot imagine loving him any more than you already do, because you are bursting with love, loving as much as you are humanly capable of- and then you do, you love him even more.”

Anne Lamott (1954) Novelist, essayist, memoirist, activist

Source: Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year

Love, Imagination, Baby

“Belief gets in the way of learning.”

Robert A. Heinlein (1907–1988) American science fiction author

Learning

“Tonight we're going to show you eight silent ways to kill a man.”

Joe Haldeman book The Forever War

Source: The Forever War

“There is only one way to learn … It's through action.”

Paulo Coelho book The Alchemist

Source: The Alchemist (1988), p. 131.

Learning

“The way to secure liberty is to place it in the people's hands, that is, to give them the power at all times to defend it in the legislature and in the courts of justice.”

John Adams (1735–1826) 2nd President of the United States

People, Justice, Time

“All around the dining hall, you can feel the rejuvenating effect that a good meal can bring on. The way it can make people kinder, funnier, more optimistic, and remind them it's not a mistake to go on living. It's better than any medicine.”

Suzanne Collins book Mockingjay

Source: Mockingjay

People, Feeling

“Grown people know that they do not always know the way of things, and even if they think they know, they do not know where and how they got the proof.”

Zora Neale Hurston book Dust Tracks on a Road

Source: Dust Tracks on a Road

People, Thinking

“We could go back to your house. I can stay with you always. We can know each others bodies in every way, night after night. I could love you. I could work, you would not be poor. I would help you.”

Charlaine Harris book Dead to the World

Source: Dead to the World

Love, Help, Housing, Night

“I clung to nothing, in a way I was calm. But it was a horrible calm—because of my body; my body, I saw with its eyes, I heard with its ears, but it was no longer me; it sweated and trembled by itself and I didn’t recognize it any more.”

Jean Paul Sartre book The Wall

Source: The Wall

“If I cannot do great things, I can do small things in a great way.”

Jodi Picoult book Small Great Things

Source: Small Great Things

Inspirational, Motivational, Wise, Deep

“Nothing in this world is difficult, but thinking makes it seem so. Where there is true will, there is always a way.”

Wú Chéng'ēn (1500–1582) Chinese writer

Source: Monkey: A Journey to the West

World, Thinking

“What better way to get to know someone than through her choice and treatment of books?”

Diane Setterfield book The Thirteenth Tale

Source: The Thirteenth Tale

Books

“It was the same way with silence. This was more than silence. A deaf person can feel vibrations. Here there was nothing to feel.”

Madeleine L'Engle book A Wrinkle in Time

Source: A Wrinkle in Time

Feeling, Silence, Personality

“The single simplest reason why human space flight is necessary is this, stated as plainly as possible: keeping all your breeding pairs in one place is a retarded way to run a species.”

Warren Ellis (1968) English comics and fiction writer

“By the end of that first day, what I'd made was a big mess. But if chaos is a necessary step in the organization of one's universe, that I was well on my way.”

Wendelin Van Draanen Flipped

Source: Flipped

Universe

“The problem, of course, was that [he] saw the world in black and white. And he got to decide what was black and what was white. You can't love a person who lives that way without fearing him too. Maybe even hating him a little.”

Khaled Hosseini book The Kite Runner

Source: The Kite Runner (2003)
Context: With me as the glaring exception, my father molded the world around him to his liking. The problem, of course, was that Baba saw the world in black and white. And he got to decide what was black and what was white. You can't love a person who lives that way without fearing him too. Maybe even hating him a little.

Love, Hate, World, Fear