Quotes about hate
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“Jace hated it when other people were worried on his behalf. It made him feel like maybe there really was something to worry about.”

Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes

Source: City of Ashes

People, Feeling

“This is love, she thought, isn't it? When you notice someone's absence and hate that absence more than anything? More, even, than you love his presence?”

Jonathan Safran Foer book Everything Is Illuminated

Source: Everything Is Illuminated

Love

“You have deep-seated survival anxieties. And you don't like bigots, bullies, snobs or hypocrites. Subconsciously there are many people you hate."

"Consciously, sir, consciously," Yossarian corrected in an effort to help. "I hate them consciously.”

Joseph Heller book Catch-22

Source: Catch-22

People, Effort, Help

“this song is for the guy who keeps yelling from the balcony, and it's called 'we hate you, please die.”

Bryan Lee O'Malley (1979) Artist

Source: Scott Pilgrim, Volume 1: Scott Pilgrim's Precious Little Life

Guy

“Oh, you hate your job? Why didn't you say so?
There's a support group for that. It's called EVERYBODY, and they meet at the bar.”

Drew Carey (1958) American actor, comedian, game show host, libertarian and photographer

Support

“There is perhaps no phenomenon which contains so much destructive feeling as 'moral indignation,' which permits envy or hate to be acted out under the guise of virtue.”

Erich Fromm (1900–1980) German social psychologist and psychoanalyst

Source: Man for Himself: An Inquiry into the Psychology of Ethics

Feeling, Envy

“You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.”

Maya Angelou And Still I Rise

"Still I Rise"
Source: And Still I Rise (1978)

“[I]f you believe in God omnipresent, then you must believe everything that comes into your life, person or event, must have something of God in it to be experienced and loved; not hated.”

Elizabeth Goudge book Green Dolphin Street

Source: Green Dolphin Street

Love, Life, God, Personality

“I hate change more than almost anything.”

Jenny Han book To All the Boys I've Loved Before

Source: To All the Boys I've Loved Before

Change

“Mortals have always exaggerated the difference between hate and love. Both come from the heart. You can never hate strongly unless you have loved strongly.”

Christopher Pike (1954) American author Kevin Christopher McFadden

Source: Black Blood

Love, Heart

“If you're going to lick the icing off somebody else's cake you won't be nourished and it won't do you any good, or you might find the cake had caraway seeds and you hate them.”

Emily Carr (1871–1945) Canadian painter and writer

“The opposite of love is not hate. It is indifference.”

Christopher Pike (1954) American author Kevin Christopher McFadden

Source: Black Blood

Love, Indifference, Deep, Inspirational

“Sometimes you meet a girl and it's like matter and antimatter. You just hate each other for no damn reason.”

Lilith Saintcrow (1976) American writer

Source: Jealousy

Girl

“I hate writing, I love having written.”

Dorothy Parker (1893–1967) American poet, short story writer, critic and satirist

Love

“A pessimist is a man who thinks everybody is as nasty as himself, and hates them for it.”

George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950) Irish playwright

Thinking, Funny

“Too unconcerned to love and too passionless to hate, too detached to be selfish and too lifeless to be unselfish, too indifferent to experience joy and too cold to express sorrow, they are neither dead nor alive; they merely exist.”

Martin Luther King, Jr. book Strength to Love

Source: Strength to Love

Love, Joy, Selfishness, Dead

“I was not so sure, but Jem told me I was being a girl, that girls always imagined things, that’s why other people hated them so, and if I started behaving like one I could just go off and find some to play with.”

Harper Lee book To Kill a Mockingbird

Source: To Kill a Mockingbird

People, Imagination, Girl

“But love has to be stronger than hate, or there is no future for us.”

Kristin Hannah book The Nightingale

Source: The Nightingale

Love, Future

“Percy looked at his friends. "I'm getting tired of this guy's shirt."
"Combat time?" Piper grabbed her horn of plenty.
"I hate wonder bread," Jason said.
Together, they charged.”

Rick Riordan (1964) American writer

Guy, Time

“I hated school. I don't trust anybody who looks back on the years from 14 to 18 with any enjoyment. If you liked being a teenager, there's something really wrong with you.”

Stephen King (1947) American author

Variant: I hated high school. I don’t trust anybody who looks back on the years from 14 to 18 with any enjoyment. If you liked being a teenager, there’s something wrong with you.

School

“Isn't it easier to forgive than to hate?
-Eriond”

David Eddings (1931–2009) American novelist

Source: Sorceress of Darshiva

Forgiveness

“I write because I hate. A lot. Hard.”

William H. Gass (1924–2017) Fiction writer, critic, philosophy professor

“You'll use it [Perrin's axe], boy, and as long as you hate using it, you would use it more wisely than most men would. Wait. If ever you don't hate it any longer, then will be the time to throw it as far as you can and run the other way.”

Robert Jordan book The Eye of the World

Elyas Machera
(15 January 1990)
Source: The Eye of the World

Men, Way, Boy, Time

“I want you and I hate wanting things and I especially hate admitting I want them.”

Holly Black book The Coldest Girl in Coldtown

Source: The Coldest Girl in Coldtown

“Speak to me."
"I hate you."
"Okay." Mad Rogan let go of me. "You're fine.”

Ilona Andrews American husband-and-wife novelist duo

Source: Burn for Me

Madness

“Sebastos Eudorus Parthenopaeus. He is really going to hate us when he has to learn to spell all that.” – Acheron”

Sherrilyn Kenyon (1965) Novelist

Source: Retribution

Learning

“Who's that little brunette?" Suzanne asked. "I hate little petite types. Gregory doesn't look right with someone petite. Little face, little hands, little dainty feet."
"Big boobs," Beth said, glancing up.”

Elizabeth Chandler (1954) writer

Source: Kissed by an Angel/The Power of Love/Soulmates

“Because photos are testimony that someone did live. A reminder of past we may have loved or hated. A piece of our lives.”

Melina Marchetta book Looking for Alibrandi

Source: Looking for Alibrandi

Love, Photo, Past

“But love is different for every person. For some it's hate, for some it's joy, for some it's fear, for some it's jealousy, for some it's torture, for some it's peace. For some it's everything.”

James Frey book The Final Testament of the Holy Bible

Source: The Final Testament of the Holy Bible

Love, Fear, Jealousy, Peace

“Your enemy is never a villain in his own eyes. Keep this in mind; it may offer a way to make him your friend. If not, you can kill him without hate — and quickly.”

Robert A. Heinlein (1907–1988) American science fiction author

Way

“I have always hated crowds. I like deserts, prisons, and monasteries. I have discovered, too, that there are fewer idiots at 3000 meters above sea level than down below.”

Jean Giono (1895–1970) French writer

Source: An Italian Journey

Sea

“I hate feelings. Why does sobriety have to come with feelings?”

Augusten Burroughs (1965) American writer

Feeling

“Fear can make you do more wrong than hate or jealousy… fear makes you always, always hold something back.”

Philip K. Dick book VALIS

Source: Flow My Tears, The Policeman Said (1974), Chapter 21 (p. 171)
Source: VALIS
Context: "Fear,” Jason said, “can make you do more wrong than hate or jealousy. If you're afraid you don’t commit yourself to life completely; fear makes you always, always hold something back.”'

Fear, Jealousy

“I hate cameras. They are so much more sure than I am about everything.”

John Steinbeck (1902–1968) American writer

“I'm going to shoot somebody," Maddie said.
"Sawyer hates when people do that. It's a whole bunch of paperwork.”

Jill Shalvis (1963) American writer

Source: Simply Irresistible

People

“I hate mornings. They start so early.”

Janet Evanovich book Plum Spooky

Source: Plum Spooky

“And how do I know that the hate of death is not like a man who has lost his home when young and does not know where his home is to return to?”

Zhuangzi (-369–-286 BC) classic Chinese philosopher

Death, Home

“If America leads a blessed life, then why did God put all of our oil under people who hate us?”

Jon Stewart (1962) American political satirist, writer, television host, actor, media critic and stand-up comedian

Life, God, People

“If this is what you do to the winner, I'd hate to see how you treat the runner up.”

Anthony Horowitz (1955) English novelist and screenwriter

“He was her enemy, and she hated him because she could not hate him enough.”

Catherine Fisher (1957) Welsh children's writer

“I don't care about the little guy. I just hate the big guy. I hate big smug people who think they can get away with things.”

Lee Child book Persuader

Source: Persuader

People, Guy, Thinking

“I call upon you to draw from the depths of your being — to prove that we are a human race, to prove that our love outweighs our need to hate, that our compassion is more compelling than our need to blame”

Elizabeth Taylor (1932–2011) British-American actress

Love, Drawing

“Love. It's so close to hate, it's almost indistinguishable. But this is how it was for the two of them. Love and hate. Life and death. Joy and anguish.”

Melissa de la Cruz book Revelations

Source: Revelations

Love, Life, Death, Joy

“I can no longer condemn or hate a brother for whom I pray, no matter how much trouble he causes me.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer (1906–1945) German Lutheran pastor, theologian, dissident anti-Nazi

Source: Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community

“There is a taint of death, a flavour of mortality in lies - which is exactly what I hate and detest in the world - what I want to forget.”

Joseph Conrad book Heart of Darkness

Source: Heart of Darkness

Death, World, Forgetting

“They said I was a valued customer, now they send me hate mail.”

Sophie Kinsella book The Secret Dreamworld of a Shopaholic

Source: Confessions of a Shopaholic

“You don’t like people who have money, do you? (Astrid)
I’m not prejudiced against anyone, princess. I hate everyone equally. (Zarek)”

Sherrilyn Kenyon book Dance with the Devil

Source: Dance with the Devil

Money, People, Princess

“I hate men who are afraid of women's strength.”

Anaïs Nin (1903–1977) writer of novels, short stories, and erotica

Source: Henry and June: From "A Journal of Love"--The Unexpurgated Diary of Anaïs Nin

Women, Men

“Water liked to be free. Given time, water could overcome any barrier, and it hated to be trapped, just like Percy.”

Rick Riordan The Mark of Athena

Source: The Mark of Athena

Water, Time

“I hate handing over money to people for doing what I could just as easily do myself, it makes me nervous.”

Sylvia Plath book The Bell Jar

Source: The Bell Jar

Money, People

“Up in my business Always burning Oracles Romans gonna hate”

Rick Riordan book The Hidden Oracle

Source: The Hidden Oracle

Business

“Thus, the ultimate choice for a man, inasmuch as he is driven to transcend himself, is to create or to destroy, to love or to hate.”

Erich Fromm (1900–1980) German social psychologist and psychoanalyst

Love

“I told her the world was full of nice people. I'd have hated to try to prove it to her, but I said it, anyway.”

Jim Thompson book A Hell of a Woman

Source: A Hell of a Woman

People, World

“I knew then that Jocelyn would never come back to me, because of you. You are the only thing in the world she ever loved more than she loved me. And because of that she hates me. And because of that, I hate the sight of you”

Cassandra Clare book City of Glass

Source: City of Glass

Love, World

“About Daniel: Two, he hates Clay
*
Five, he really hates Clay.
*
Nine, he really, really, hates Clay.”

Kelley Armstrong book Bitten

Source: Bitten

“I hate when people say that they have something to tell you and they don't just say it.”

Jenny Han book To All the Boys I've Loved Before

Source: To All the Boys I've Loved Before

People

“it's bEtter tO hAte me 4 whO i Am, thAn tO lUv 4 wAt i'm pretNdng tO bE……”

Sidney Sheldon (1917–2007) American writer

“I hated him more than anything. I loved him more than anything. Because, he was everything. And I hated that, too.”

Jenny Han (1980) American writer

Source: It's Not Summer Without You

Love

“Nick cleared his throat. “Do not … and I mean do … not … take this the wrong way, okay?” He wrapped his arms around Ash and hugged him. “I will always be your brother,” he whispered in Ash’s ear. “And I won’t ever hate you.”

Sherrilyn Kenyon (1965) Novelist

Source: Inferno

Way

“Still, I hate them. But, of course, I hate almost everybody now. Myself more than anyone.”

Suzanne Collins book Mockingjay

Source: Mockingjay

“Fear can’t be reasoned with. Neither can hate. They’re like love. They’re almost identical emotions. That’s why Ares and Aphrodite like each other. Their twin sons – Fear and Panic – were spawned from both war and love.”

Rick Riordan book The Blood of Olympus

Source: The Blood of Olympus

Love, War, Fear

“Life is easier when you can write off others as monsters, demon, as horrible threats that must be hated and feared the thing is you can't do that without becoming them, just a little.”

Jim Butcher book White Night

Source: White Night

Life, Fear

“I love you only because it's you the one I love;
I hate you deeply, and hating you
Bend to you, and the measure of my changing love for you
Is that I do not see you but love you blindly.”

Pablo Neruda (1904–1973) Chilean poet

Love, Change

“sometime hate is just confused love!”

Omar Tyree (1969) American writer

Love

“anger based on calculated reason is more dangerous than anger based on blind hate”

Richelle Mead book Last Sacrifice

Source: Last Sacrifice

Anger

“Obscenity only comes in when the mind despises and fears the body, and the body hates and resists the mind.”

D.H. Lawrence book Lady Chatterley's Lover

Source: Lady Chatterley's Lover

Fear

“His eyes widened just a bit, his lips flexed. I realized he was trying not to laugh. I hate it when people find my threats amusing.”

Laurell K. Hamilton book The Laughing Corpse

Source: The Laughing Corpse

People

“I'm Kakashi Hatake. Things I like and things I hate… I don't feel like telling you that. My dreams for the future… never really thought about it. As for my hobbies… I have lots of hobbies.”

Masashi Kishimoto book Naruto

Dreams, Feeling, Future

“For as much as I hate the cemetery, I’ve been grateful it’s here, too. I miss my wife. It’s easier to miss her at a cemetery, where she’s never been anything but dead, than to miss her in all the places where she was alive.”

John Scalzi book Old Man's War

Source: Old Man's War

Dead

“The truth is that I hate to think about other people reading my books," Miranda said. "It's like watching someone go through the box of private stuff that I keep under my bed.”

Madeleine L'Engle book A Wrinkle in Time

Source: A Wrinkle in Time

People, Truth, Books, Thinking

“I told my psychiatrist that everyone hates me. He said I was being ridiculous, everyone hasn't met me yet.”

Rodney Dangerfield (1921–2004) American actor and comedian

Quoted in Bob Fenster, Laugh Off: The Comedy Showdown Between Real Life and the Pros (2005), p. 37
Variant: I told my psychiatrist everyone hates me. He said I was being ridiculous; everyone hasn't met me yet.

“Never hate your enemies. It affects your judgment.”

Mario Puzo The Godfather

Source: The Godfather

“Hate is the father of all evil.”

David Gemmell (1948–2006) British author of heroic fantasy

Source: Fall of Kings

Evil

“I hate that stuff. It tastes like feet."
At that he smiled. "How would you know what feet taste like?"
"I just know.”

Cassandra Clare book City of Glass

Source: City of Glass

Smile

“I forgave you because I love you and I hate being without you. I hate it, my cat hates it. And because Catarina convinced me I was being stupid.”

Cassandra Clare book City of Heavenly Fire

Source: City of Heavenly Fire

Love, Stupidity, Cats

“sometimes I hate you,"
she said.”

Charles Bukowski book Love Is a Dog from Hell

Source: Love Is a Dog from Hell

“Isn't hate merely the result of wounded love?”

Amy Tan The Joy Luck Club

Source: The Joy Luck Club

Love

“Are you becoming what you've always hated?”

Charles Bukowski book Hollywood

Source: Hollywood

“There are not a hundred people in America who hate the Catholic Church. There are millions of people who hate what they wrongly believe to be the Catholic Church — which is, of course, quite a different thing.”

Fulton J. Sheen (1895–1979) Catholic bishop and television presenter

Foreword to Radio Replies Vol. 1, (1938) page ix
Variant: There are not over a hundred people in the United States who hate the Catholic Church. There are millions, however, who hate what they wrongly believe to be the Catholic Church.

People

“You can never hate strongly unless you have loved strongly.”

Christopher Pike (1954) American author Kevin Christopher McFadden

Source: Black Blood

Love

“I brought you some coffee.” he held out the cup but she waved it away.
“I hate that stuff. It tastes like feet.”
At that he smiled. “How would you know what feet taste like?”
“I just know.”
-Luke and Clary, pg.209-”

Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes

Source: City of Ashes

Smile, Coffee

“Real power comes not from hate, but from truth.”

Seth Grahame-Smith (1976) US fiction author

Source: Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter

Truth

“I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.”

Wayne W. Dyer (1940–2015) American writer

Love

“As Lacy waited for her turn to speak on Peter's behalf, she thought back to the first time she realized she could hate her own child.”

Jodi Picoult book Nineteen Minutes

Source: Nineteen Minutes

Time, Waiting

“A woman must be nursed into subsistence by love, where a man can become stronger by being hated." - from 'Cows in Art Class”

Charles Bukowski (1920–1994) American writer

Love, Art

“I always hated when my scars started to fade, because as long as I could still see them, I knew why I was hurting.”

Jodi Picoult book Handle With Care

Source: Handle with Care

Hurt

“Before you hate something you should try to understand it.”

Martha Grimes (1931) American crime writer and literature professor

Source: Dakota

Understanding

“My flesh looked like it wasn't trying. It looked like it hated being part of me.”

Charles Bukowski book Pulp

Source: Pulp

Parting

“You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.”

Maya Angelou And Still I Rise

"Still I Rise"
And Still I Rise (1978)
Context: You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.

“If you can wait and not be tired of waiting, or being lied about, don't deal in lies. Or being hated, don't give way to hating, and yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise.”

Rudyard Kipling book The Second Jungle Book

Stanza 1.
The Second Jungle Book (1895), If— (1896)
Source: If: A Father's Advice to His Son
Context: If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise.

Way, Waiting

“Can you imagine, finally showing your true self to your spouse, your soul mate, and having him not like you? So that's how the hating first began. I've thought about this a lot, and that's where it started, I think.”

Gillian Flynn book Gone Girl

Source: Gone Girl

Soul, Imagination, Thinking

“I really believe there are some people who hate to contemplate the happiness of others.”

Eleanor Hibbert (1906–1993) English novelist

Source: Victoria Victorious: The Story of Queen Victoria

Happiness, People

“Almost every sinful action ever committed can be traced back to a selfish motive. It is a trait we hate in other people but justify in ourselves.”

Stephen Kendrick book The Love Dare

Source: The Love Dare

People, Motivation, Selfishness

“It's not the side-effects of the cocaine - I'm thinking that it must be love.

It's too late to be grateful,
It's too late to be hateful,
It's too late to be late again,
The European cannon is here.”

David Bowie (1947–2016) British musician, actor, record producer and arranger

Love, Thinking

“I love trying things and discovering how I hate them.”

D.H. Lawrence (1885–1930) English novelist, poet, playwright, essayist, literary critic and painter

Love

“If you make people think they're thinking, they'll love you; But if you really make them think, they'll hate you.”

Don Marquis (1878–1937) American writer

As quoted in The Volta Review (1934), p. 574 http://books.google.de/books?id=qWE4AQAAIAAJ&q=hate, Clifton Fadiman: The American Treasury 1455-1955 (New York 1955) p. 997 http://books.google.de/books?id=PEQ4AAAAIAAJ&q=really+make+them and Hugh Rawson, Margaret Miner: The Oxford Dictionary of American Quotations (2006) p. 431 #5 http://books.google.de/books?id=whg05Z4Nwo0C&pg=PA431&dq=mehitabel from archy and mehitabel (1927) <br class="br">Variant: If you make people think they're thinking, they'll love you; but if you really make them think, they'll hate you.

Love, People, Thinking