Quotes about harm
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“Never get involved. That's my motto. I hurt no one. And no one can hurt me.”

Adeline Yen Mah (1937) Author and physician

Variant: Don't trust anyone. Be a cold fish. I hurt no one. And no one can hurt me.
Source: Chinese Cinderella: The True Story of an Unwanted Daughter

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“He recognized and accepted this strange new feeling: that he would rather be hurt himself than hurt Alec.”

Cassandra Clare (1973) American author

Source: The Course of True Love [and First Dates]

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“He knows that you have to laugh at the things that hurt you just to keep yourself in balance, just to keep the world from running you plumb crazy.”

Variant: Because he knows you have to laugh at the things that hurt you just to keep yourself in balance, just to keep the world from running you plumb crazy.
Source: One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (1962), Ch. 25
Context: While McMurphy laughs. Rocking farther and farther backward against the cabin top, spreading his laugh out across the water — laughing at the girl, at the guys, at George, at me sucking my bleeding thumb, at the captain back at the pier... and the Big Nurse and all of it. Because he knows you have to laugh at the things that hurt you just to keep yourself in balance, just to keep the world from running you plumb crazy. He knows there's a painful side; he knows my thumb smarts and his girlfriend has a bruised breast and the doctor is losing his glasses, but he won't let the pain blot out the humor no more'n he'll let the humor blot out the pain.

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“So, I can hurt now, or hurt later.”

Source: Shopgirl

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“The more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer, because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you, in proportion to your fear of being hurt. The one who does most to avoid suffering is, in the end, the one who suffers most.”

Source: The Seven Storey Mountain (1948)
Context: Indeed, the truth that many people never understand, until it is too late, is that the more you try to avoid suffering, the more you suffer, because smaller and more insignificant things begin to torture you, in proportion to your fear of being hurt. The one who does most to avoid suffering is, in the end, the one who suffers the most: and his suffering comes to him from things so little and so trivial that one can say that it is no longer objective at all. It is his own existence, his own being, that is at once the subject and the source of his pain, and his very existence and consciousness is his greatest torture.

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“Women are more attuned to feelings than men are, and if they’re not being truthful, more often than not it’s because they think truth might hurt your feelings. But it doesn’t mean they don’t love you.”

Mayor Gherkin, Chapter 8, p. 120
Source: 2000s, At First Sight (2005)
Context: ... but what I eventually came to understand was that if a woman truly loves you, you can't always expect her to tell the truth. You see, women are more attuned to feelings than men are, and if they're not being truthful, more often than not it's because they think the truth might hurt your feelings. But it doesn't mean they don't love you.

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“I hurt with you. I bled with you - not only because we're bonded but because of the love I have for you. -- Eric Northman”

Variant: .. I suffered with you. I hurt with you. I bled with you -not only because we're bonded, but because the love I have for you." ~ Eric Northman in Dead in The Family.
Source: Dead in the Family

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“But better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie.”

Baba (58)
Source: The Kite Runner (2003)

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“I wonder if it's possible to start a new relationship without hurting someone else.”

Variant: I wonder if it's possible to have happiness without it being at someone else's expense.
Source: Boy Meets Boy

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“This is a touch game. There are times when you've got to play hurt when you've got to block out the pain.”

Sherry Argov (1977) American writer

Source: Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart

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“A good laugh heals a lot of hurts.”

Source: A Ring of Endless Light

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“In the second half of life, people have less power to infatuate you. But they also have much less power to control you or hurt you.”

Richard Rohr (1943) American spiritual writer, speaker, teacher, Catholic Franciscan priest

Source: Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life

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“1. Your heart starts hurting when you think about him.”

Bisco Hatori (1975) Japanese manga artist

Source: Ouran High School Host Club, Vol. 13

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“Soon we will be strangers. No, we can never be that. Hurting someone is an act of reluctant intimacy. We will be dangerous acquaintances with a history.”

Hanif Kureishi (1954) English playwright, screenwriter, novelist

Source: Intimacy: das Buch zum Film von Patrice Chéreau

“The humble Cumulus humilis - never hurt a soul.”

Gavin Pretor-Pinney (1950) British writer

Source: The Cloudspotter's Guide

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“I love everything about you that hurts.”

Variant: I know who you are. I love you. I love everything about you that hurts.
Source: Closer

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“Having a brain hurt so much sometimes.”

Source: Specials

“Sure it will hurt. But so what? Pain is just a state of mind. You can think your way out of anything, even pain.”

Variant: Pain is just a state of mind. You can think your way out of everything, even pain.
Source: Freak the Mighty

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“But maybe that isn't so bad. You can't love anyone that way more than once in a lifetime. It's too hard and it hurts too much when it ends. The first boy is ialways the hardest to get over, Haven. It's just the way the world works.”

Source: That Summer (1996)
Context: Maybe not, she said as we came to the car. But maybe that isn't so bad. You can't love anyone that way more than once in a lifetime. It's too hard and it hurts too much when it ends. The first boy is always the hardest to get over, Haven. It's just the way the world works.

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“How wonderful to be alive," he thought. "But why does it always hurt?”

Doctor Zhivago (1957)
Source: El doctor Zhivago

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“The dead do not hurt you; only the living do.”

Source: The Sinner

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“There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me.”

Variant: There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me. (p. 181)
Source: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (2005), p. 181

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“Hurt is a weapon. Better weapon than most because it doesn't look like one.”

Deb Caletti (1963) American writer

Source: Stay

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“The time has come, everybody lie down so you won't get hurt when the sun bursts.”

Neal Cassady (1926–1968) American cultural figure of 1950s and 1960s

Source: First Third & Other Writings - Revised & Expanded Edition Together With A New Prologue

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“But hurting ourselves to inflict pain on others is just another cry to be loved.”

Mitch Albom (1958) American author

Source: The Time Keeper

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“How can I love you if I don't know what hurts you?”

Julius Lester (1939–2018) American author

Source: The Autobiography of God