“Maybe I don't want to be defined by what I do. Maybe I'd like to be defined by what I am.”
Nicholas Sparks book Safe Haven
Katie, Chapter 29, p. 236
Variant: Maybe I’d like to
be defined by what I am.
Source: 2009, Safe Haven (2010)

Safe Haven is a fantasy romantic novel by American novelist Nicholas Sparks. It was published in 2010. According to WorldCat, the book is held in 2242 libraries
“Maybe I don't want to be defined by what I do. Maybe I'd like to be defined by what I am.”
Nicholas Sparks book Safe Haven
Katie, Chapter 29, p. 236
Variant: Maybe I’d like to
be defined by what I am.
Source: 2009, Safe Haven (2010)
“That's what courage is. If she weren't scared, she wouldn't need courage in the first place.”
Nicholas Sparks book Safe Haven
Jo, Chapter 7, p. 66-67
Source: 2009, Safe Haven (2010)
“I just tell people what they already know but are afraid to admit to themselves.”
Nicholas Sparks book Safe Haven
Jo, Chapter 25, p. 203
Source: 2009, Safe Haven (2010)
“I truly believe that while love can hurt, love can also heal…”
Nicholas Sparks book Safe Haven
Source: Safe Haven