Quotes about someone
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“‎Someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality.”

Les Brown (1945) American politician

Variant: Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality.

“When I see someone who just follows their dream and succeeds, and just does basically what they want to do and doesn't have to answer to anyone, obviously not harming anyone, that's great.”

Johnny Depp (1963) American actor, film producer, and musician

Dreams

“When you love someone, you say their name different. Like it's safe inside your mouth.”

Jodi Picoult book Handle With Care

Variant: When you love someone you let them take care of you.
Source: Handle with Care

Love

“It is more fun to talk with someone who doesn't use long, difficult words but rather short, easy words like "What about lunch?”

A.A. Milne book Winnie-the-Pooh

Source: Winnie-the-Pooh

For Friend

“Our riches, being in our brains, die with us… Unless of course someone chops off our head, in which case, we won't need them anyway.”

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart (1756–1791) Austrian Romantic composer

“Very often in everyday life one sees that by losing one's temper with someone who has already lost his, one does not gain anything but only sets out upon the path of stupidity. He who has enough self-control to stand firm at the moment when the other person is in a temper, wins in the end. It is not he who has spoken a hundred words aloud who has won; it is he who has perhaps spoken only one word.”

Hazrat Inayat Khan (1882–1927) Indian Sufi

Source: Mastery through Accomplishment

Life, Stupidity, Personality

“Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”

Immanuel Kant (1724–1804) German philosopher

Love, Hope, Happiness

“Do you know what it’s like to like someone so much you can’t stand it and know that they’ll never feel the same way?”

Jenny Han book To All the Boys I've Loved Before

Source: To All the Boys I've Loved Before

Way, Feeling

“People don't read any more. It's a sad state of affairs. Reading's the only thing that allows you to use your imagination. When you watch films it's someone else's vision, isn't it?"

[Interview in, 15 October 2005]”

Lemmy Kilmister (1945–2015) British singer-songwriter

People, Sadness, Imagination, Reading

“A gentleman is someone who knows how to play the banjo and doesn't.”

Mark Twain (1835–1910) American author and humorist

“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.”

Robert Fulghum (1937) American writer

Variant: You want my opinion? We're all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness — and call it love — true love.
Source: True Love (1998)

love, Wise, Relationship, Cute

“Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.”

Oscar Wilde book De Profundis

De Profundis (1897)

People, Passion

“Mary is the great mother. She is the mother. That's what Mary is. Whether she existed or not, is not the point. She exists at least as a hyper-reality. She exists as the mother. What's the sacrifice of the mother? That's easy: if you're a mother who's worth her salt, you offer your son to be destroyed by the world. That's what you do. And that's what's going to happen. He's going to be born, he's going to suffer, he's going to have his trouble in life, he's going to have his illnesses, he's going to face his failures and catastrophes, and he's going to die. That's what's going to happen, and if you're awake you know that, and then you say, 'well, perhaps he will live in a way that will justify that.' And then you try to have that happen. And that's what makes you worthy of a statue like [The Pieta]. 'Is it right to bring a baby into this terrible world?' Well, every woman asks herself that question. Some say no, and they have their reasons. Mary answers 'yes' voluntarily. Mary is the archetype of the woman who answers yes to life voluntarily. Not because she is blind. She knows what's going to happen. So, she's the archetypal representation of the woman who says yes to life knowing full well what life is. She's not naive. She's not someone who got pregnant in the backseat of a 1957 Chevy during one night of half-drunk idiocy. Not that. She does so consciously. Consciously, knowing what's to come. And then she allows it to happen, which is a testament to mothers.”

Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology

Bible Series V: Cain and Abel: The Hostile Brothers
Concepts

Life, World, Way, Failure

“To be in company is not to be with someone, but to be in someone.”

Antonio Porchia (1885–1968) Italian Argentinian poet

Estar en compañía no es estar con alguien, sino estar en alguien.
Voces (1943)

Relationship, Business, For Him

“Sometimes I am tempted to believe that I am better than anybody because I know Him. And then I remember that, I don't know him because I was smart enough to figure out some riddle. And I don't know him because I was good enough to ascend into heaven on my own and shake hands with him and meet him. Of all the things that make God awesome, the most awesome thing in the world that I can imagine from a god is that one who would be holy, and one that would be just,… and one that would be innocent and beautiful, and would have no need of me… that someone like that could love me is amazing. And uh, that does not make me a good person; but it makes Him a great God!”

Rich Mullins (1955–1997) American christian musician

Louisville, Kentucky http://www.kidbrothers.net/words/concert-transcripts/louisville-kentucky-jun2594.html (June 25, 1994) In Concert

Love, God, World, Beauty

“A piece of art is not a loaf of bread. When someone steals a loaf of bread from the store, that's it. The loaf of bread is gone. When someone downloads a piece of music, it's just data until the listener puts that music back together with their own ears, their mind, their subjective experience. How they perceive your work changes your work.”

Jeff Tweedy (1967) musician

Interviewed in 2004 http://www.wired.com/news/culture/0,1284,65688,00.html

Art, Music, Change

““Someone out there is waiting for you for a lifetime. You cannot afford to fail them; failing them is failing God. Remember, God is speaking to you through them, saying: 'They are fatherless, so that you can be their father.' 'They are lonely, so that you can be their companion.' 'They are in want, so that you can be their benefactor.'”

T. B. Joshua (1963) Nigerian Christian leader

” On the importance of charity - "SCATTERED! Eleven Children, One Wife, No Home" http://www.thenigerianvoice.com/news/1273/scattered-eleven-children-one-wife-no-home.html Nigerian Voice (October 9 2009)

God, Waiting

“If you knew someone who was terminally ill and in grave pain, would you participate in an assisted suicide? I would.”

Chris Cornell (1964–2017) American singer-songwriter, musician

Chris Cornell official Twitter, April 18, 2009, http://archive.is/kqUNK, no https://twitter.com/chriscornell/status/1552596343, Chris Cornell official Twitter, April 18, 2009, http://archive.is/3yjSP, no https://twitter.com/chriscornell/status/1553316027, On depression and suicide

Pain, Suicide

“When walking in open territory, bother no one. If someone bothers you, ask him to stop. If he does not stop, destroy him.”

Anton LaVey (1930–1997) Founder of the Church of Satan, author of the Satanic Bible

" Eleven Satanic Rules of the Earth http://www.churchofsatan.com/Pages/Eleven.html"

“As we walked into the room
There were faces staring, glaring, tearing through me,
Someone said, 'Welcome to your doom,'
Then they smiled with eyes that looked as if they knew me,
This is scaring me.”

Michael Jackson (1958–2009) American singer, songwriter and dancer

This Place Hotel
Triumph (1980)

Smile, Tear

“Here's how you can tell someone is your friend: A) You can tell them bad news, and they'll listen. B) You can tell them good news, and they'll help you celebrate.”

Jordan Peterson (1962) Canadian clinical psychologist, cultural critic, and professor of psychology

Excerpt from 2017 Personality Lecture 21. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9U5IHQWSZc Personality Lectures

Help

“I believe that my dream has always been to become someone. To succeed in life, in the show, I did not know exactly what, but it was or singing or acting, or do cinema or theater… it was the show.”

Dalida (1933–1987) French singer, actress, model and beauty pageant titleholder

Source: http://dalidaideal.blogspot.com/2018/10/dalida-quotes.html

Singing, Life, Dreams

“Justice is a machine that, when someone has once given it the starting push, rolls on of itself.”

John Galsworthy Justice

Justice, Act II (1910)

Justice

“When you’re an introvert like me and you’ve been lonely for a while, and then you find someone who understands you, you become really attached to them. It’s a real release.”

Lana Del Rey (1985) American singer-songwriter

— Lana Del Rey, “Interview by Ernest Baker,” Complex

Understanding

“Some friends are more significant and important than other friends. A special friend can often change your life for the better. You will know when this special person enters your life because of the respect you have for them. They will never lie or set you aside for someone or something else. You will have undying trust in this person that any words spoken will never find another ear. They always returned calls at the earliest possible time. They will check in often to see what is going on in your life and just talk. Your accomplishments will be applauded with praise and losses will never be repeated. This friend has you melted within their heart as you do theirs. When you find such a person be sure to return the love and understand they have gifted you and your life.”

Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola)

1983

Loss, Time, Understanding, Personality

“You burn with the flames of desire for someone that doesn’t notice or pay attention. Your love affair has not even begun and the flames are now burning into your soul. You can douse the flames; you must first walk away. Only then can you be transformed.”

Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola)

1977 (from the poem, Douse the Flames)

Soul, Love, Making love

“When you’re playing someone, I feel the character taking over me, but I am also influencing the character. Becoming embodied in the character on set is, what I think, makes a really powerful actor. If the character is good enough in a script, it really affects you. This is why I try and become the character for one or two weeks.”

Solomon B Taiwo (1990) English actor and author

Impact interview (2020)

Thinking, Making love, Feeling

“When you meet someone better than yourself, turn your thoughts to becoming his equal. When you meet someone not as good as you are, look within and examine your own self.”

Confucius (-551–-479 BC) Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher

“There is no freedom without sacrifice. Same as there is no peace without someone taking the lead.”

Mwanandeke Kindembo (1996) Congolese author

Peace, Freedom

“You can only quarrel with someone whom you share almost everything in common or a similar person.”

Mwanandeke Kindembo (1996) Congolese author

Personality

“The salary simply means becoming dependent on someone's pocket. Like a good dog who waits for his master to throw the bone at him, after having eaten all the meat.”

Mwanandeke Kindembo (1996) Congolese author

Dependency, Waiting, Dogs

“To help and guide someone, you have to rise above their feelings or emotions. Otherwise, you can't help if you want to stay at the same level as them.”

Mwanandeke Kindembo (1996) Congolese author

Help, Feeling

“You cannot live your whole life nor base it on the assumption that someone else is going to carry your responsibilities at the finish line.”

Mwanandeke Kindembo (1996) Congolese author

Life

“If someone does not love dogs… don't trust them.”

Stephie Pahlavi Zan

Love, Dogs

“Nothing someone says before the world 'but' really counts. - Benjen Stark”

George Raymond Richard Martin (1948) American writer, screenwriter and television producer

World

“Voodoo girl

But she knows she has a curse on her,
a curse she cannot win.
For if someone gets too close to her,
the pins stick farther in.”

Tim Burton (1958) American filmmaker

Variant: But she knows she has a curse on her,
a curse she cannot win.
For if someone gets too close to her,

the pins stick further in.
Source: The Melancholy Death of Oyster Boy and Other Stories

Girl

“The west need someone to tell the man who walks around with the biggest stick in the world, that that stick can`t bring down God`s house.”

Saddam Hussein (1937–2006) Iraqi politician and President

God, World, Housing

“Forgive me if I stare, I knew you were young, but even then I was expecting someone a little more, well, more.”

Christopher Paolini book Eragon

Source: Eragon

Forgiveness

“When you're cold, don't expect sympathy from someone who's warm.”

Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn book One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich

Source: One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich

“Be peaceful, be courteous, obey the law, respect everyone; but if someone puts his hand on you, send him to the cemetery.”

Malcolm X (1925–1965) American human rights activist

Source: Malcolm X Speaks (1965), p. 12

Peace, Law

“It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.”

John Ruskin (1819–1900) English writer and art critic

Love

“And maybe that was love. Being so vulnerable and allowing someone else in so far they could hurt you, but they also give you everything.”

Christine Feehan American writer

Source: Water Bound

Heartbreaking, Love, Hurt

“Tiberius Nero Blackthorn. I think his parents may have gone a little overboard. It's like naming someone Magnificent Bastard.”

Cassandra Clare book Lady Midnight

Source: Lady Midnight

Thinking, Parent

“But I’m not guilty,” said K. “there’s been a mistake. How is it even possible for someone to be guilty? We’re all human beings here, one like the other.” “That is true” said the priest “but that is how the guilty speak”

Franz Kafka book The Trial

Source: The Trial

“It's better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you're not. It's a sign of your worth sometimes, if you're hated by the right people.”

Bette Davis (1908–1989) film and television actress from the United States

Love, Hate, People

“George looked at her for a long moment. Finally he replied, "And why do you find it so hard to think someone might like you and want to do things for you?”

Tamora Pierce book Alanna: The First Adventure

Source: Alanna: The First Adventure

Thinking

“The most common one-liner in the Bible is, "Do not be afraid." Someone counted, and it occurs 365 times.”

Richard Rohr (1943) American spiritual writer, speaker, teacher, Catholic Franciscan priest

Source: Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life

Time

“I find television very educational. Every time someone switches it on I go into another room and read a good book.”

Groucho Marx (1890–1977) American comedian

As quoted in Halliwell’s Filmgoer’s Companion (1984) by Leslie Halliwell
Variant: I find TV very educational. Every time someone switches it on I go into another room and read a good book.

Books, Education, Time, Reading

“I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag.”

Molly Ivins (1944–2007) American journalist

Funny

“Only someone who is well prepared has the opportunity to improvise.”

Ingmar Bergman (1918–2007) Swedish filmmaker

“Someone has said that it requires less mental effort to condemn than to think.”

Emma Goldman (1868–1940) anarchist known for her political activism, writing, and speeches

Anarchism: What It Really Stands For (1910) http://dwardmac.pitzer.edu/Anarchist_archives/goldman/aando/anarchism.html Context: Someone has said that it requires less mental effort to condemn than to think. The widespread mental indolence, so prevalent in society, proves this to be only too true. Rather than to go to the bottom of any given idea, to examine into it's origing and meaning, most people will either condem it alltogether, or rely on some superficial or perjudicial definition of non-essentials

Thinking, Effort

“To escape responsibility for violence we imagine it is enough to pledge never to be the first to do violence. But no one ever sees himself as casting the first stone. Even the most violent persons believe that they are always reacting to a violence committed in the first instance by someone else.”

René Girard (1923–2015) French historian, literary critic, and philosopher of social science

Source: The One by Whom Scandal Comes

Imagination, Personality

“The biggest problem is the moment you say "spirituality," somebody starts talking about God, someone else about mukti, someone else about nirvana and someone else about the Ultimate. They are all already up there. You cannot do anything with people who are already up there. If somebody is down here, you can do something with them. You can only take a step if your feet are on the ground, isn't it? The moment you talk about God, you are not here anymore; you know it all. You can only start a journey from where you are. You cannot start a journey from where you are not. If you are willing to come down to where you are, then we can see what the next step is. If you are already on the third step to heaven, what can I do with you?”

Sadhguru (1957) Yogi, mystic, visionary and humanitarian

Source: Of Mystics & Mistakes

God, People, Problem

“Sad thing is, you can still love someone and be wrong for them.”

Elvis Presley (1935–1977) American singer and actor

Love, Sadness

“If a man, having lashed two hulls together, is crossing a river, and an empty boat happens along and bumps into him, no matter how hot-tempered the man may be, he will not get angry. But if there should be someone in the other boat, then he will shout out to haul this way or veer that. If his first shout is unheeded, he will shout again, and if that is not heard, he will shout a third time, this time with a torrent of curses following. In the first instance, he wasn't angry; now in the second he is. Earlier he faced emptiness, now he faces occupancy. If a man could succeed in making himself empty, and in that way wander through the world, then who could do him harm?”

Zhuangzi (-369–-286 BC) classic Chinese philosopher

World, Way, Time

“A friend had commented once that Neal had a gift for making someone want to punch him just for saying hello.”

Tamora Pierce book Page

Source: Page

“I mean, if you've ever spoken to someone with two heads, you know they know something you don't.”

Diane Arbus (1923–1971) American photographer and author

“I'm a teacher. A teacher is someone who leads. There is no magic here. I do not walk on water. I do not part the sea. I just love children.”

Marva Collins (1936–2015) American schoolteacher

Love, Children, Teachers, Water

“I need someone physically stronger than me…. I am always on top. It's really unfortunate. I am begging for the man that can put me on the bottom. Or the woman. Anybody that can take me down.”

Angelina Jolie (1975) American actress, film director, and screenwriter

“Have this faith that someone is there to take away your weaknesses. Ok, you slipped once, twice, thrice. It does not matter. Keep moving ahead. People take vows never to commit mistakes again. Breaking the vows makes it worse. Surrendering is better”

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar (1956) spiritual leader

People, Faith

“If someone betrays you once, it’s their fault; if they betray you twice, it’s your fault.”

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States

“To love someone is nothing, to be loved by someone is something, but to be loved by the one you love is everything”

Bill Russell (1934) American professional basketball player and coach

Love

“There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.”

Desmond Tutu (1931) South African churchman, politician, archbishop, Nobel Prize winner

“If I'm going to sing like someone else, then I don't need to sing at all.”

Billie Holiday (1915–1959) American jazz singer and songwriter

Singing

“There are times when I am so unlike myself that I might be taken for someone else of an entirely opposite character.”

Jean Jacques Rousseau book Confessions

Source: Confessions

Time

“When someone shows you their true colors, believe them.”

Dolly Parton (1946) American singer-songwriter and actress

Source: Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business

Color

“I don't feel that it is necessary to know exactly what I am. The main interest in life and work is to become someone else that you were not in the beginning. If you knew when you began a book what you would say at the end, do you think that you would have the courage to write it? What is true for writing and for a love relationship is true also for life. The game is worthwhile insofar as we don't know what will be the end. My field is the history of thought. Man is a thinking being.”

Michel Foucault (1926–1984) French philosopher

Truth, Power, Self : An Interview with Michel Foucault (25 October 1982)

Love, Life, Books, Feeling

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone - and finding that that's ok with them.”

Alain de Botton (1969) Swiss writer

Relationship

“Someone that you have deprived of everything is no longer in your power. He is once again entirely free.”

Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn (1918–2008) Russian writer

“A gentleman is someone who does not what he wants to do, but what he should do.”

Haruki Murakami book Norwegian Wood

Source: Norwegian Wood

“You cannot continue to victimize someone else just because you yourself were a victim once—there has to be a limit”

Edward Said (1935–2003) Professor of English and literature

“Sex isn't all that important, but it is when you love someone very much.”

Ava Gardner (1922–1990) American actress

Source: Ava: My Story

Love, Sex

“Living with someone you love can be lonelier than living entirely alone, if the one that you love doesn't love you.”

Tennessee Williams (1911–1983) American playwright

Source: Cat on a Hot Tin Roof and Other Plays

Love, Loneliness

“When you wish someone joy, you wish them peace, love, prosperity, happiness… all the good things.”

Maya Angelou (1928–2014) American author and poet

Love, Peace, Joy, Happiness

“I wonder how you say goodbye to someone forever?”

Ann M. Martin (1955) American writer of children's literature

“I wondered what happened when you offered yourself to someone, and they opened you, only to discover you were not the gift they expected and they had to smile and nod and say thank you all the same.”

Jodi Picoult My Sister's Keeper

Source: My Sister's Keeper

Smile

“The hemulen woke up slowly and recognised himself and wished he had been someone he didn't know.”

Tove Jansson book Moominvalley in November

Source: Moominvalley in November

“If you want to make a difference, the next time you see someone being cruel to another human being, take it personally. Take it personally because it is personal!”

Brené Brown (1965) US writer and professor

Source: I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of Shame

Time, Personality

“For someone like myself in whom the ability to trust others is so cracked and broken that I am wretchedly timid and am forever trying to read the expression on people's faces.”

Osamu Dazai book No Longer Human

Source: No Longer Human

People, Reading

“Whatever you have been given is what someone needs…..”

Mike Murdock (1946) American televangelist

“Show me a person who has never made a mistake and I'll show you someone who has never achieved much.”

Joan Collins (1933) English actress, author and columnist

Deep, Personality

“There is only one way to see things,
until someone shows us how to look at them
with different eyes”

Pablo Picasso (1881–1973) Spanish painter, sculptor, printmaker, ceramicist, and stage designer

Way

“If the path before you is clear, you're probably on someone else's.”

Joseph Campbell (1904–1987) American mythologist, writer and lecturer

“Why couldn't she be part of that family? rent a room in someone else's life.”

Kiran Desai (1971) Indian author

Source: Inheritance of Loss

Life, Family, Parting

“A bore is someone who deprives you of solitude without providing you with company.”

Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish writer and poet

Solitude

“When you adopt the standards and the values of someone else … you surrender your own integrity. You become, to the extent of your surrender, less of a human being.”

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States

“There is no truth except the truth that exists within you. Everything else is what someone is telling you.”

Neale Donald Walsch (1943) American writer

Source: Home with God: In a Life That Never Ends

Truth

“If you can love someone with your whole heart, even one person, then there's salvation in life. Even if you can't get together with that person.”

Haruki Murakami book 1Q84

Source: 1Q84 (2009-2010)

Hope, Love, Life, Heart

“We never love someone. We just love the idea we have of someone. It's a concept of ours - summing up, ourselves - that we love.”

Fernando Pessoa book The Book of Disquiet

Ibid., p. 125
Original: Nunca amamos niguém. Amamos, tão-somente, a ideia que fazemos de alguém. É a um conceito nosso — em suma, é a nós mesmos — que amamos.
Source: The Book of Disquiet

Love, Idea