Heartbreaking quotes

A collection of quotes on the topic of sad quotes, heartbreaking, heart, love.

Best heartbreaking quotes

Hermann Hesse photo

“If I know what love is, it is because of you.”

Narcissus and Goldmund (1930)

Eleanor Roosevelt photo

“You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States

Source: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 29–30
Context: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." … You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

Frederick Douglass photo

“It's easier to build strong children then repair broken men.”

Frederick Douglass (1818–1895) American social reformer, orator, writer and statesman

Variant: It is easier to build strong men, than to repair broken ones.
Source: Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass

Henry David Thoreau photo

“There is no remedy for love but to love more.”

Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862) 1817-1862 American poet, essayist, naturalist, and abolitionist

Variant: The only remedy for love is to love more.

James M. Cain photo

“If you have to do it, you can do it.”

Mildred Pierce

Jerome photo

“The friendship that can cease has never been real.”
Amicitia quae desinere potest vera numquam fuit.

Jerome (345–420) Catholic saint and Doctor of the Church

Letter 3
Letters

Jean De La Fontaine photo

“Sadness flies away on the wings of time.”

Jean De La Fontaine (1621–1695) French poet, fabulist and writer.
William Shakespeare photo

“The course of true love never did run smooth.”

Lysander, Act I, scene i.
Source: A Midsummer Night's Dream (1595)

George Gordon Byron photo

“The heart will break, but broken live on.”

George Gordon Byron (1788–1824) English poet and a leading figure in the Romantic movement

Variant: And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on.

Franz Kafka photo

Heartbreaking quotes

Marilyn Monroe photo
Marilyn Monroe photo
Bob Marley photo

“The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.”

Bob Marley (1945–1981) Jamaican singer, songwriter, musician

Variant: The good times of today are the sad thoughts of tomorrow.

Martin Luther King, Jr. photo

“In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies but the silence of our friends.”

Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929–1968) American clergyman, activist, and leader in the American Civil Rights Movement

1960s, The Trumpet of Conscience (1967)
Variant: In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.

Hermann Hesse photo
Henry Rollins photo

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”

Henry Rollins (1961) American singer-songwriter

Variant: It is sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.

Agatha Christie photo
Khalil Gibran photo
Miguel de Unamuno photo

“It is sad not to be loved, but it is much sadder not to be able to love.”

Miguel de Unamuno (1864–1936) 19th-20th century Spanish writer and philosopher

To a Young Writer

Neil Gaiman photo

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable.”

Neil Gaiman (1960) English fantasy writer

The character "Rose Walker" in The Sandman #65
Context: Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up a whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' or 'how very perceptive' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love. I hate love.

Stephen King photo
Marilyn Monroe photo

“Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”

Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer

Variant: Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together.

Thomas Aquinas photo

“To love is to will the good of the other.”

II-II, q. 26, art. 6
Summa Theologica (1265–1274)

Eleanor Roosevelt photo

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.”

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States

Source: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 29–30
Context: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." … You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

Paulo Coelho photo

“It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), Love has always passed me by

Jonathan Safran Foer photo
Benjamin Disraeli photo

“The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can ever end.”

Benjamin Disraeli (1804–1881) British Conservative politician, writer, aristocrat and Prime Minister

Book 4, chapter 1. Often misquoted as "The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end".
Books, Coningsby (1844), Henrietta Temple (1837)

Emily Brontë photo
Alfred, Lord Tennyson photo
Marya Hornbacher photo

“There is, in the end, the letting go.”

Source: Wasted: A Memoir of Anorexia and Bulimia

David Levithan photo
Elizabeth Gilbert photo
Oscar Wilde photo
Sarah Waters photo
Fannie Flagg photo

“You know, a heart can be broken, but it keeps on beating, just the same.”

Variant: You know, a heart can be broken, but it still keeps a-beating just the same.
Source: Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

Robert B. Cialdini photo

“The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.”

Robert B. Cialdini (1945) American social psychologist

Source: Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

Edna St. Vincent Millay photo
Siri Hustvedt photo

“Pain is always emotional. Fear and depression keep constant company with chronic hurting.”

Siri Hustvedt (1955) novelist, essayist, poet

Source: The Shaking Woman, or A History of My Nerves

George Eliot photo
Eleanor Roosevelt photo

“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.”

Eleanor Roosevelt (1884–1962) American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady of the United States
William Shakespeare photo
John Archibald Wheeler photo

“The question is—what is the question?”

John Archibald Wheeler (1911–2008) American physicist

Leonard Susskind, The Black Hole War (2008), chapter 13

Richard Wilbur photo

“What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you.”

Richard Wilbur (1921–2017) American poet

"Opposites" (1973)
Source: Opposites, More Opposites, and a Few Differences

William Shakespeare photo
Washington Irving photo

“Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.”

Washington Irving (1783–1859) writer, historian and diplomat from the United States

Attributed to Irving as early as 1883. [Hit and miss : a story of real life, Angie Stewart, Manly, Chicago, J.L. Regan, 1883, i, http://hdl.handle.net/2027/osu.32435018229575?urlappend=%3Bseq=7] However, it does not seem to appear in Irving's known works. Other citations from the same year leave the quotation unattributed. [Henry S. (ed.), Clubb, The Peacemaker and Court of Arbitration, Volume 1, Universal Peace Union, 1883, 125, Philadelphia, https://books.google.com/books?id=Uu84AQAAMAAJ&pg=PA125] [The Australian Women's Magazine and Domestic Journal, Vol. 2 No. 2 (May 1883), 1883, Melbourne, 435, https://books.google.com/books?id=mq0sAQAAMAAJ&pg=PA435]. A similar passage is found in a pseudonymous novel published two years earlier in 1881: "Julia knew that sacrifices to patience are not in vain. Although they often do not produce the happiness for which they are made, they will, always, flow back and soften and purify the heart of the one who makes them". [Illma, Or, Which was Wife?, Miss, M.L.A., Cornwell & Johnson, 1881, 239, New York, http://hdl.handle.net/2027/osu.32435017658592?urlappend=%3Bseq=245]
Disputed

Paulo Coelho photo
Cassandra Clare photo
Haruki Murakami photo

“Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

Source: What I Talk About When I Talk About Running

Katherine Paterson photo
Pearl S.  Buck photo
Malcolm X photo
Bertrand Russell photo

“To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.”

Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist

1920s, Marriage and Morals (1929)

David Lynch photo

“I like the saying "The world is as you are."”

The Circle, p. 21
Catching the Big Fish (2006)
Context: I like the saying "The world is as you are." And I think films are as you are. That's why, although the frames of a film are always the same — the same number, in the same sequence, with the same sounds — every screening is different. The difference is sometimes subtle but it's there. It depends on the audience. There is a circle that goes from the audience to the film and back. Each person is looking and thinking and feeling and coming up with his or her own sense of things. And it's probably different from what I fell in love with.
So you don’t know how it's going to hit people. But if you thought about how it's going to hit people, or if it's going to hurt someone, or if it's going to do this or do that, then you would have to stop making films. You just do these things that you fall in love with, and you never know what's going to happen.

H.L. Mencken photo
Junot Díaz photo
Clive Barker photo
Margaret George photo

“The cure for a broken heart is simple, my lady. A hot bath and a good night's sleep.”

Margaret George (1943) American writer

Source: Mary Queen of Scotland and The Isles

F. Scott Fitzgerald photo
Ann Brashares photo
Jodi Picoult photo
D.H. Lawrence photo

“The lessons of life amount not to wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.”

Variant: Most things break, including hearts. The lessons of life amount not to
wisdom, but to scar tissue and callus.
Source: The Spectator Bird

Jodi Picoult photo
Cassandra Clare photo
Jack Kerouac photo

“We tiptoed around each other like heartbreaking new friends.”

Source: On the Road

Langston Hughes photo

“Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.”

Langston Hughes (1902–1967) American writer and social activist

"Dreams," from the anthology Golden Slippers: An Anthology of Negro Poetry for Young Readers, ed. Arna Bontemps (1941)

Janet Fitch photo
Leo Tolstoy photo
Nicholas Sparks photo

“There's beauty, heartbreaking beauty, everywhere.”

Edward Abbey (1927–1989) American author and essayist

"The Ancient Dust", page 153
Beyond the Wall: Essays from the Outside (1984)

Marilyn Monroe photo
Markus Zusak photo
Marilyn Monroe photo

“Always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie”

Marilyn Monroe (1926–1962) American actress, model, and singer

Variant: Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will?

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow photo

“Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.”

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807–1882) American poet

Hyperion http://www.gutenberg.org/etext/5436, Bk. III, Ch. IV (1839).
Variant: Believe me, every heart has its secret sorrows, which the world knows not, and oftentimes we call a man cold, when he is only sad.
Context: "Ah! this beautiful world!" said Flemming, with a smile. "Indeed, I know not what to think of it. Sometimes it is all gladness and sunshine, and Heaven itself lies not far off. And then it changes suddenly; and is dark and sorrowful, and clouds shut out the sky. In the lives of the saddest of us, there are bright days like this, when we feel as if we could take the great world in our arms and kiss it. Then come the gloomy hours, when the fire will neither burn on our hearths nor in our hearts; and all without and within is dismal, cold, and dark. Believe me, every heart has its secret sorrows, which the world knows not, and oftentimes we call a man cold, when he is only sad."

Gabriel García Márquez photo
Ashleigh Brilliant photo
Jonathan Safran Foer photo

“There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me.”

Variant: There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him, so I buried them, and let them hurt me. (p. 181)
Source: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (2005), p. 181

Elizabeth Gilbert photo
Euripidés photo
Marilyn Monroe photo
L. Frank Baum photo
Junot Díaz photo
Melissa de la Cruz photo
Napoleon Hill photo

“You may be hurt if you love too much, but you will live in misery if you love too little.”

Napoleon Hill (1883–1970) American author

Source: Napoleon Hill's Positive Action Plan: 365 Meditations For Making Each Day a Success

William Faulkner photo
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