Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
Quotes about understanding
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“You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.”
Variant: He's a wallflower. You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.
Source: The Perks of Being a Wallflower
“We refuse to believe that which we don't understand.”
Source: Think and Grow Rich: The Landmark Bestseller - Now Revised and Updated for the 21st Century
As quoted in the essay "To Albert Einstein's Seventieth Birthday" by Arnold Sommerfeld, Albert Einstein : Philosopher-Scientist http://www.worldcat.org/title/albert-einstein-philosopher-scientist/oclc/311439 (1949) edited by Paul A. Schilpp (p. 102). The essay, originally published as "Zum Siebzigsten Geburtstag Albert Einsteins" in Deutsche Beiträge (Eine Zweimonatsschrift) http://www.worldcat.org/title/deutsche-beitrage-eine-zweimonatsschrift/oclc/183334232 Vol. III, No 2, 1949, was translated specifically for the book by Schilpp.
1940s
Variant: Since others have explained my theory, I can no longer understand it myself.
Source: The Human Comedy (1943)
Context: Death is not an easy thing for anyone to understand, least of all a child, but every life shall one day end. But as long as we are alive, as long as we are together, as long as two of us are left, and remember him, nothing in the world can take him from us. His body can be taken, but not him. You shall know your father better as you grow and know yourself better. He is not dead, because you are alive. Time and accident, illness and weariness took his body, but already you have given it back to him, younger and more eager than ever. I don't expect you to understand anything I'm telling you. But I know you will remember this — that nothing good ever ends. If it did, there would be no people in the world — no life at all, anywhere. And the world is full of people and full of wonderful life.
“Intellectual understanding does not always bring visceral belief.”
Source: Xenocide
Source: Frenemies
Source: The Five People You Meet in Heaven (2003)
Context: Parents rarely let go of their children, so children let go of them. They move on. They move away. The moments that used to define them - a mother's approval, a father's nod - are covered by moments of their own accomplishments. It is not until much later, as the skin sags and the heart weakens, that children understand; their stories, and all their accomplishments, sit atop the stories of their mothers and fathers, stones upon stones, beneath the waters of their lives.
“Conversation enriches the understanding, but solitude is the school of genius.”
“There would be no society if living together depended upon understanding each other.”
“A child of five could understand this. Send someone to fetch a child of five.”
“Talent is like electricity. We don't understand electricity. We use it.”
“What you don't understand you can make mean anything.”
Variant: What we don't understand we can make mean anything.
Source: Diary
“Know that everything is in perfect order whether you understand it or not.”
“What Jack didn't understand was that no matter where he went, the same asshole got off the plane.”
Source: The Shining (1977)
“Only one man ever understood me, and he didn't understand me.”
“Science is the process that takes us from confusion to understanding…”
“I know the Chinese. I've made a lot of money with the Chinese. I understand the Chinese mind.”
As quoted in "Donald Trump has read a lot of books on China: 'I understand the Chinese mind'" http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/washington/2011/05/donald-trump-i-understand-the-chinese-mind.html, Los Angeles Times (3 May 2011), and in Forbes http://www.forbes.com/sites/johnmauldin/2015/08/24/playing-the-chinese-trump-card/ (August 2015)
2010s, 2011
Source: The Art of the Deal
“If I could only reach out and touch the stars, I would know everything. I would understand.”
Source: The Kiss of Deception
Source: To Understand Each Other
“You have to do stuff that average people don't understand because those are the only good things.”
“The secret to not being afraid is to understand what scares you”
Source: Countdown
“No to laugh, not to lament, not to detest, but to understand.”
Source: Theological-Political Treatise
Howard Gardner (1983), "Multiple approaches to understanding," in: Charles M. Reigeluth (ed.) Instructional-design Theories and Models: A new paradigm of ..., Volume 2. p. 69-90
Source: A Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue
“I know nothing, because I know too much, and understand not nearly enough and never will.”
Source: The Vampire Armand
“We understand how dangerous a mask can be. We all become what we pretend to be.”
Variant: We all become what we pretend to be.
Source: The Name of the Wind
“You can only possess beauty through understanding it.”
“I don't understand you. You don't understand me. What else do we have in common?”
“People of little understanding are most apt to be angry when their sense is called into question.”
“See, I remember love. That's what people don't understand.”
Source: On the Jellicoe Road