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“It's not what happens to us that molds us. It's what we do with what happens to us.”
Anita Stansfield (1961) American writer
Source: Where the Heart Leads
“When I am dead, I charge you to mingle our ashes and bury us together.”
Madeline Miller book The Song of Achilles
Source: The Song of Achilles
“The conventional view serves to protect us from the painful job of thinking.”
John Kenneth Galbraith (1908–2006) American economist and diplomat
“The problem with getting older is you still remember how things used to be.”
Paul Newman (1925–2008) American actor and film director
Michael Palin (1943) British comedian, actor, writer and television presenter
"Letter from London" (18 September 2003) http://palinstravels.co.uk/static-51?topic=1752&forum=12 <br class="br">Context: Contrary to what the politicians and religious leaders would like us to believe, the world won’t be made safer by creating barriers between people. Cries of “They’re evil, let’s get ‘em” or “The infidels must die” sound frightening, but they’re desperately empty of argument and understanding. They’re the rallying cries of prejudice, the call to arms of those who find it easier to hate than admit they might be not be right about everything.<br>Armageddon is not around the corner. This is only what the people of violence want us to believe. The complexity and diversity of the world is the hope for the future.
Martin Luther King, Jr. (1929–1968) American clergyman, activist, and leader in the American Civil Rights Movement
1960s, Beyond Vietnam: A Time to Break Silence (1967)
Context: We are now faced with the fact that tomorrow is today. We are confronted with the fierce urgency of now. In this unfolding conundrum of life and history there is such a thing as being too late. Procrastination is still the thief of time. Life often leaves us standing bare, naked, and dejected with a lost opportunity. The tide in the affairs of men does not remain at flood — it ebbs. We may cry out desperately for time to pause in her passage, but time is adamant to every plea and rushes on. Over the bleached bones and jumbled residues of numerous civilizations are written the pathetic words, "Too late."
“Sometimes choice is a luxury that fate does not afford us.”
Jasper Fforde book The Last Dragonslayer
Source: The Last Dragonslayer
“The willingness to show up changes us, It makes us a little braver each time.”
Brené Brown (1965) US writer and professor
Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
“Unless you are good at guessing, it is not much use being a detective.”
Agatha Christie (1890–1976) English mystery and detective writer
Carl Sagan (1934–1996) American astrophysicist, cosmologist, author and science educator
"Why We Need To Understand Science" in The Skeptical Inquirer Vol. 14, Issue 3 (Spring 1990)
Context: Science is much more than a body of knowledge. It is a way of thinking. This is central to its success. Science invites us to let the facts in, even when they don’t conform to our preconceptions. It counsels us to carry alternative hypotheses in our heads and see which ones best match the facts. It urges on us a fine balance between no-holds-barred openness to new ideas, however heretical, and the most rigorous skeptical scrutiny of everything — new ideas and established wisdom. We need wide appreciation of this kind of thinking. It works. It’s an essential tool for a democracy in an age of change. Our task is not just to train more scientists but also to deepen public understanding of science.
“If God wanted us to act on instinct, we wouldn't have the power of reason.”
Jodi Picoult (1966) Author
Source: Mercy
Charlotte Perkins Gilman (1860–1935) American feminist, writer, commercial artist, lecturer and social reformer
“Whatever goes wrong can be used to your advantage, providing it goes wrong enough.”
Tom Robbins Even Cowgirls Get the Blues
Source: Even Cowgirls Get the Blues
Jacques Lacan (1901–1981) French psychoanalyst and psychiatrist
Source: The Seminar of Jacques Lacan: The Four Fundamental Concepts of Psychoanalysis
Richard Rohr (1943) American spiritual writer, speaker, teacher, Catholic Franciscan priest
Source: Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life
Adrienne Rich (1929–2012) American poet, essayist and feminist
Source: The Fact of a Doorframe: Poems Selected and New, 1950-1984
Werner Heisenberg book The Part and The Whole
Die Quantentheorie ist so ein wunderbares Beispiel dafür, daß man einen Sachverhalt in völliger Klarheit verstanden haben kann und gleichzeitig doch weiß, daß man nur in Bildern und Gleichnissen von ihm reden kann. <br class="br">Der Teil und das Ganze. Gespräche im Umkreis der Atomphysik (1969); also in "Kein Chaos, aus dem nicht wieder Ordnung würde", Die Zeit No. 34 (22 August 1969) http://www.zeit.de/1969/34/kein-chaos-aus-dem-nicht-wieder-ordnung-wuerde/komplettansicht; as translated in Physics and Beyond : Encounters and Conversation (1971)
N.T. Wright (1948) Anglican bishop
Source: Surprised by Hope: Rethinking Heaven, the Resurrection, and the Mission of the Church
“Life does not ask what we want. It presents us with options”
Thomas Sowell (1930) American economist, social theorist, political philosopher and author
Chuck Palahniuk book Haunted
Source: Haunted (2005), Chapter 19, Hot Potting, A story by Baroness Frostbite
“Our challenges don't define us, our actions do.”
Michael J. Fox (1961) Canadian-American actor
Variant: Our challenges don't define us, our actions do
“The gods' most savage curses come upon us as answers to our own prayers, you know.”
Lois McMaster Bujold The Curse of Chalion
Source: World of the Five Gods series, The Curse of Chalion (2000), p. 94
“Our chief want in life, is somebody who shall make us do what we can.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882) American philosopher, essayist, and poet
Considerations by the Way
1860s, The Conduct of Life (1860)
“Letting go gives us freedom and freedom is the only condition for happiness”
Thich Nhat Hanh (1926) Religious leader and peace activist
William Faulkner (1897–1962) American writer
On himself and his contemporaries.
Paris Review interview (1958)
Desmond Tutu (1931) South African churchman, politician, archbishop, Nobel Prize winner
Source: God Has a Dream: A Vision of Hope for Our Time
“Each of us has his own rhythm of suffering.”
Roland Barthes (1915–1980) French philosopher, critic and literary theorist
“This one’s easy to use. The pointy end goes into their body. (Liza)”
Sherrilyn Kenyon (1965) Novelist
Source: Dream Chaser
John Updike (1932–2009) American novelist, poet, short story writer, art critic, and literary critic
“Don't surrender all your joy for an idea you used to have about yourself that isn't true anymore.”
Cheryl Strayed book Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
Source: Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882) American philosopher, essayist, and poet
Variant: To accomplish excellence or anything outstanding, you must listen to that whisper which is heard by you alone.
“words have the power o change us”
Cassandra Clare (1973) American author
Source: Clockwork Angel; Clockwork Prince; Clockwork Princess
John Adams (1735–1826) 2nd President of the United States
1760s, A Dissertation on the Canon and Feudal Law (1765)
Marian Keyes (1963) Irish writer
Source: Watermelon