Quotes about expectation
page 5

Neale Donald Walsch photo
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni photo

“Expectations are like hidden rocks in your path—all they do is trip you up.”

Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni (1956) novelist, short story writer, poet, and essayist

Source: The Palace of Illusions

Nicholas Sparks photo
Elizabeth Gilbert photo
Richelle Mead photo
Jodi Picoult photo
Susan Sontag photo
Ben Carson photo

“God has given to every one of us more than fourteen billion cells and connections in our brain. Now why would God give us such a complex organ system unless He expects us to use it?”

Ben Carson (1951) 17th and current United States Secretary of Housing and Urban Development; American neurosurgeon

Source: Think Big (1996), p. 154

William Saroyan photo

“I don't expect you to understand anything I'm telling you. But I know you will remember this — that nothing good ever ends. If it did, there would be no people in the world — no life at all, anywhere. And the world is full of people and full of wonderful life.”

Source: The Human Comedy (1943)
Context: Death is not an easy thing for anyone to understand, least of all a child, but every life shall one day end. But as long as we are alive, as long as we are together, as long as two of us are left, and remember him, nothing in the world can take him from us. His body can be taken, but not him. You shall know your father better as you grow and know yourself better. He is not dead, because you are alive. Time and accident, illness and weariness took his body, but already you have given it back to him, younger and more eager than ever. I don't expect you to understand anything I'm telling you. But I know you will remember this — that nothing good ever ends. If it did, there would be no people in the world — no life at all, anywhere. And the world is full of people and full of wonderful life.

Brandon Sanderson photo
Jane Austen photo

“to hope was to expect”

Variant: To wish was to hope, and to hope was to expect
Source: Sense and Sensibility

Amy Tan photo
Sarah Dessen photo
John Flanagan photo

“Sometimes," Halt continued, "we tend to expect a little too much of Ranger horses. After all, they are only human.”

John Flanagan (1873–1938) Irish-American hammer thrower

Source: The Icebound Land

James Patterson photo
George Bernard Shaw photo
Jane Austen photo
Brandon Sanderson photo
Miriam Toews photo
Nicholas Sparks photo
Ayn Rand photo
Kelley Armstrong photo

“Maybe my expectations for honesty are too high.”

Kelley Armstrong (1968) Canadian writer

Source: The Calling

George Meredith photo

“I expect that Woman will be the last thing civilized by Man.”

Source: The Ordeal of Richard Feverel http://www.gutenberg.org/files/4412/4412.txt (1859), Ch. 1.

Jodi Picoult photo

“There are two ways to be happy: improve your reality, or lower your expectations.”

Variant: There were two ways to be happy: improve your reality, or lower your expectations
Source: Nineteen Minutes

Cormac McCarthy photo
Cassandra Clare photo
Dorothy L. Sayers photo

“The one thing which seems to me quite impossible is to take into consideration the kind of book one is expected to write; surely one can only write the book that is there to be written.

(, 8 September 1935)”

Dorothy L. Sayers (1893–1957) English crime writer, playwright, essayist and Christian writer

Source: The Letters of Dorothy L. Sayers. Vol. 1, 1899-1936: The Making of a Detective Novelist

Maya Angelou photo
Stephanie Pearl-McPhee photo

“SABLE- A common knitting acronym that stands for Stash Acquisition Beyond Life Expectancy.”

Stephanie Pearl-McPhee (1968) Canadian writer

Source: At Knit's End: Meditations for Women Who Knit Too Much

Frederick Douglass photo

“Slaves are generally expected to sing as well as to work.”

Frederick Douglass (1818–1895) American social reformer, orator, writer and statesman
Susanna Clarke photo
Douglas Coupland photo

“Live one day at a time. Keep your attention in present time. Have no expectations. Make no judgements. And give up the need to know why things happen as they do. Give it up!”

Caroline Myss (1952) author from the United States

Source: Why People Don't Heal and How They Can: A Practical Programme for Healing Body, Mind and Spirit

“… when you let go of your expectations, when you accept life as it is, you're free. To hold on is to be serious and uptight. To let go is to lighten up.”

Richard Carlson (1961–2006) Author, psychotherapist and motivational speaker

Source: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff ... and it's all small stuff: Simple Ways to Keep the Little Things from Taking Over Your Life

Frederick Buechner photo

“If you have never known the power of God's love, then maybe it is because you have never asked to know it - I mean really asked, expecting an answer.”

Frederick Buechner (1926) Poet, novelist, short story writer, theologian

Source: The Magnificent Defeat (1966)

Richelle Mead photo
Libba Bray photo
Brandon Sanderson photo

“For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”

Linda Goodman (1925–1995) American astrologer

Source: Linda Goodman's Star Signs

Neil deGrasse Tyson photo
Charlaine Harris photo
Chuck Palahniuk photo

“What makes earth feel like Hell is our expectation that it should feel like Heaven.”

Variant: No, it's not fair, but what makes earth feel like Hell is our expectation that it should feel like Heaven.
Source: Damned (2011)

Brandon Sanderson photo
Alice Walker photo
Alyson Nöel photo
Orison Swett Marden photo
P.G. Wodehouse photo
Edmund Wilson photo
Thomas Jefferson photo

“Those who expect to be both ignorant and free, expect what never was and never will be.”

Thomas Jefferson (1743–1826) 3rd President of the United States of America

Variant: If a nation expects to be ignorant and free, in a state of civilization, it expects what never was and never will be.

Elizabeth Gilbert photo

“Plant an expectation; reap a disappointment.”

Variant: Plant an expectation; reap a disappointment." (Quoting an old adage)
Source: Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

Samuel P. Huntington photo
Sylvia Plath photo

“If only I can find him… the man who will be intelligent, yet physically magnetic and personable. If I can offer that combination, why shouldn't I expect it in a man?”

Sylvia Plath (1932–1963) American poet, novelist and short story writer

Source: The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

Donna Tartt photo
Jim Butcher photo
Confucius photo

“Act with kindness but do not expect gratitude.”

Confucius (-551–-479 BC) Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher
Umberto Eco photo
André Gide photo
Nicholas Sparks photo
Jodi Picoult photo
Stephen King photo
Billy Joel photo
Kate DiCamillo photo
Margaret Mitchell photo
Czeslaw Milosz photo
George Bernard Shaw photo
Joel Osteen photo
Stephen King photo

“It's best to have your tools with you. If you don't, you're apt to find something you didn't expect and get discouraged.”

Stephen King (1947) American author

Source: On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft

Sarah Dessen photo
Chuck Palahniuk photo
Jane Austen photo
Junot Díaz photo
Brian Jacques photo
Jodi Picoult photo
Sarah Dessen photo
Thomas Jefferson photo

“We are not to expect to be translated from despotism to liberty in a featherbed.”

Thomas Jefferson (1743–1826) 3rd President of the United States of America

Letter to Gilbert du Motier, marquis de Lafayette (2 April 1790)
1790s

Cormac McCarthy photo
Ann Brashares photo

“Love didn't necessarily look the way you expected it to.”

Source: 3 Willows: The Sisterhood Grows

Khaled Hosseini photo
Brandon Sanderson photo
Rafael Sabatini photo
Huey P. Newton photo
Jane Austen photo