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John Ruskin (1819–1900) English writer and art critic
you ask. "Well, I'll get more," he says. Just as at cricket, you get more runs. There's no use in the runs, but to get more of them than other people is the game. So all that great foul city of London there, — rattling, growling, smoking, stinking, — a ghastly heap of fermenting brickwork, pouring out poison at every pore, — you fancy it is a city of work? Not a street of it! It is a great city of play; very nasty play and very hard play, but still play.
The Crown of Wild Olive, lecture I: Work, sections 23-24 (1866)
“When truth cannot make itself known in words, it will make itself known in deeds.”
Roger Scruton (1944–2020) English philosopher
"Should he have spoken?", The New Criterion (September 2006), p. 22; also in The Roger Scruton Reader (2009) edited by Mark Dooley
James Bridie (1888–1951) Scottish playwright, screenwriter and surgeon
One Way of Living, alluding to his play Marriage is no Joke 1939
Jason Graves (1973) American composer
Interview: The Man Behind the Music - Jason Graves http://www.pushsquare.com/news/2015/05/interview_the_man_behind_the_music_-_jason_graves (May 16, 2015)
Robert LeFevre (1911–1986) American libertarian businessman
Source: A Way to Be Free: The Autobiography of Robert LeFevre, Volume II, (1999), p. 487
Thomas Merton book The Seven Storey Mountain
That is to say, all men who live only according to their five senses, and seek nothing beyond the gratification of their natural appetites for pleasure and reputation and power, cut themselves off from that charity which is the principle of all spiritual vitality and happiness because it alone saves us from the barren wilderness of our own abominable selfishness.
p. 147
The Seven Storey Mountain (1948)
Gillian Flynn (1971) American author and critic
My cousins and I were kind of raised in a pack together—all girls. They always wanted to be princesses. I always wanted to be a witch. Or a killer. My head just went in that direction. Maybe because my father was a film professor, I developed a taste for Alfred Hitchcock. Films like Psycho scared me just the right amount. They didn’t haunt my dreams in a terrible way. I like that sensation of being scared. I’ve always been one of those people who wants to know what’s underneath the rock, what’s down the corner, what’s down the blind alley.<br><br>On processing fear as a child in “GILLIAN FLYNN BRINGS HER MID-WESTERN NOIR TO A BOIL” https://www.interviewmagazine.com/culture/gillian-flynn-brings-her-mid-western-noir-to-a-boil-in-widows in Interview (2018 Nov 12)
“…I also wanted to make sure no one tried to make her “save the cat.””
Gillian Flynn (1971) American author and critic
To me, Camille is an inherently kind person despite everything that’s happened to her. And you see that when you walk through the day with Camille. You see how she treats people. But she’s not running around saving babies and kittens just so the audience can be sure she’s a good person.<br><br>On how she hoped the television version of Sharp Objects would stay true to the character of Camille in “Gillian Flynn Isn’t Going to Write the Kind of Women You Want” https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2018/06/gillian-flynn-isnt-going-to-write-the-kind-of-women-you-want in Vanity Fair (2018 Jun 28)
Gillian Flynn (1971) American author and critic
On how the matriarchy is portrayed in Sharp Objects in “Gillian Flynn Isn’t Going to Write the Kind of Women You Want” https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2018/06/gillian-flynn-isnt-going-to-write-the-kind-of-women-you-want in Vanity Fair (2018 Jun 28)
Tatiana de la tierra (1961–2012) Latina writer and activist
On her time working for the lesbian magazine esto no tiene nombre (as quoted in “Celebrating Tatiana De La Tierra And The Latina Lesbian Zine Culture Of The '90s” https://bust.com/books/194419-tatiana-de-la-tierra-zine-culture.html in Bust Magazine)
Ana Castillo (1953) novelist, poet, essayist, short story writer
In the book I explain that it's a song that my mother actually sang as I left home as a young woman. My mother was very traditional, and in her mind, the way a girl leaves home is through marriage—me going out with my little satchel was not how they imagined it. They imagined the worst, that I was going to end up in a cabaret as one of those that dances for a few fellas.<br><br>On how she chose the title of her 2016 memoir in “'Write What's Tearing at Your Heart': Feminist Ana Castillo on Writing Her Rape” https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/d7anqq/write-whats-tearing-at-your-heart-feminist-ana-castillo-on-writing-her-rape in Vice (2016 May 10)
Rita Moreno (1931) Puerto Rican singer, dancer and actress
On strength and perseverance in “Rita Moreno Is Unbreakable” https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a26432578/rita-moreno-one-day-at-a-time-interview/ in Elle Magazine (2019 Feb 22)
“What love doesn't teach you, you should not know.”
Waldemar Bonsels (1880–1952) German writer
Original: (de) Was dich die Liebe nicht lehrt, das sollst du nicht wissen.
Eros und die evangelien: aus den notizen eines Vagabunden (1921), p. 61
Tomi Adeyemi (1993) American author
On aiming to write multifaceted characters in “Meet Tomi Adeyemi: the politically-charged author you need to know about in 2019” https://www.harpersbazaar.com/uk/culture/culture-news/a26933188/tomi-adeyemi-interview/ in Harper’s Bazaar (2019 Mar 26)
Louis Pasteur (1822–1895) French chemist and microbiologist
Original: (fr) La génération spontanée, je la cherche sans la découvrir depuis vingt ans. Non, je ne la juge pas impossible. Mais quoi donc vous autorise à vouloir qu'elle ait été l'origine de la vie? Vous placez la matière avant la vie et vous faites la matière existante de toute éternité. Qui vous dit que, le progrès incessant de la science n'obligera pas les savants, qui vivront dans un siècle, dans mille ans, dans dix mille ans... à affirmer que la vie a été de toute éternité et non la matière.? Vous passez de la matière à la vie parce que votre intelligence actuelle, si bornée par rapport à ce que sera l'intelligence des naturalistes futurs, vous dit qu'elle ne peut comprendre autrement les choses. Qui m'assure que dans dix mille ans on ne considérera pas que c'est de la vie qu'on croira impossible de ne pas passer à la matière? Si vous voulez être au nombre des esprits scientifiques, s, qui seuls comptent, il faut vous débarrasser des idées et des raisonnements a priori et vous en tenir aux déductions nécessaires des faits établis et ne pas accorder plus de confiance qu'il ne faut aux déductions de pures hypothèses."
As quoted in Pasteur et la philosophie (2004), by Patrice Pinet, p. 63
Partially quoted in Louis Pasteur : Free Lance of Science (1950) by René Dubos, p 396
Ian Urbina (1972) American journalist
On trying to distinguish predator from prey in The Outlaw Ocean in “Wage Theft, Slavery, and Climate Change on the Outlaw Ocean” https://civileats.com/2019/09/27/wage-theft-slavery-and-climate-change-on-the-outlaw-ocean/ (Civil Eats; 2019 Sep 27)
Ram Dass book Be Here Now
The coming down matter is what led me to the next chapter of this drama. Because after six years, I realized that no matter how ingenious my experimental designs were, and how high I got, I came down.
At one point I took five people and we locked ourselves in a building for three weeks and we took 400 micrograms of LSD every four hours. That is 2400 micrograms of LSD a day, which sounds fancy, but after your fist dose, you build a tolerance; there's a refractory period. We finally were just drinking out of the bottle, because it didn't seem to matter anymore. We'd just stay at a plateau. We were very high. What happened in those three weeks in that house, no one would ever believe, including us. And at the end of the three weeks, we walked out of the house and within a few days, we came down!
And it was a terribly frustrating experience, as if you came into the kingdom of heaven and you saw how it all was and you felt these new states of awareness, and then you got cast out again.
Be Here Now (1971)
Antonio Fresco (1983) American DJ, music producer, and radio personality
Written by Antonio Fresco, Wes Joseph, and Devin O'Bannon <br class="br">Song lyrics, Lose Myself https://genius.com/Antonio-fresco-lose-myself-lyrics (2017)
Arkady Martine (1985) Science fiction author
On how fanfiction has affected her life in “AN INTERVIEW WITH ARKADY MARTINE” http://strangehorizons.com/non-fiction/articles/an-interview-with-arkady-martine/ in Stage Horizons (2019 Feb 25)
Petina Gappah (1971) Zimbabwean writer, journalist and business lawyer
On her motivations as a writer in “Petina Gappah: ‘I want to write about what makes us into an unkind society’” https://www.theguardian.com/books/2016/nov/13/petina-gappah-zimbabwe-writer-interview in The Guardian (2016 Nov 13)
“In practice, the enemy has been making much more propaganda for us than we have ourselves.”
Ho Chi Minh (1890–1969) Vietnamese communist leader and first president of Vietnam
Instructions Given at the Conference (Fall 1950)
1950's
On why young adult literature is so important in “Safer Is Not Always Better: An Interview With Stacey Lee” https://parnassusmusing.net/2019/08/13/interview-stacey-lee-downstairs-girl/ in Musing (2019 Aug 13)
Harry Hay (1912–2002) American gay rights activist
Statement of Purpose: Gay Liberation Front (Dec. 1969)
“Love is always a risk; but hate is a deadly peril.”
Robert Sheckley (1928–2005) American writer
I See a Man Sitting on a Chair, and the Chair Is Biting His Leg (p. 150)
Short fiction, The Robot Who Looked Like Me (1978)
Sultan Bahu (1630–1691) Punjabi poet
Raj Kumar: Encyclopaedia of Untouchables Ancient, Medieval and Modern, p. 187 https://books.google.com.pk/books?id=e8o5HyC0-FUC&pg=PA187&lpg=PA187&redir_esc=y#v=onepage&q&f=false <br class="br">Kashf ul Asrār, Stanza
Debbie Reynolds (1932–2016) American actress, singer, and dancer
On staying optimistic (as quoted in “FLASHBACK: Debbie Reynolds Recalls Poor Upbringing and How Gene Kelly Helped Her Career in Early ET Interviews” https://www.etonline.com/news/206086_debbie_reynolds_recalls_poor_upbringing_and_how_gene_kelly_helped_her_career_early_et_interviews (ET Online; 2016 Dec 29)
“I was trapped in love
And this trap is enough for me.”
Jami book Haft Awrang
Haft Awrang, p. 101
Poetry, Poetry from Haft Awrang
Susanne K. Langer (1895–1985) American philosopher
Vol. 3, p. 125
Mind: An Essay on Human Feeling (1967, 1972, 1982)
Susanne K. Langer (1895–1985) American philosopher
Source: Philosophical Sketches (1962), Ch. 9, p. 160
Anwar Shaikh (1928–2006) British Pakistani writer
Quoted from Elst, Koenraad. The Problem with Secularism (2007)
Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English philosopher, statesman, scientist, jurist, and author
The Essays Or Counsels, Civil And Moral, Of Francis Ld. Verulam Viscount St. Albans (1857), Revenge
Susan Sontag (1933–2004) American writer and filmmaker, professor, and activist
Source: Death Kit (1967), p.149
William Faulkner (1897–1962) American writer
Charlotte Rittenmeyer to Harry Wilbourne, in (Ch. 7) "Wild Palms"; p. 218
The Wild Palms [If I Forget Thee, Jerusalem] (1939)
William Faulkner (1897–1962) American writer
Harry Wilbourne to Charlotte Rittenmeyer, in (Ch. 3) "Wild Palms"; p. 48
The Wild Palms [If I Forget Thee, Jerusalem] (1939)
Benjamin Zephaniah (1958) English poet and author
On the realization that he was a poet in “Interview with Benjamin Zephaniah” https://www.writersandartists.co.uk/writers/advice/37/a-writers-toolkit/interviews-with-authors/interview-with-benjamin-zephaniah in Writers & Artists
William Blake (1757–1827) English Romantic poet and artist
The Clod and the Pebble, st. 1
1790s, Songs of Experience (1794)
Harold Macmillan (1894–1986) British politician
America's lost ally https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/americas-lost-ally/2011/08/16/gIQAYxy8LJ_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.763aa617ae9b, During the Second World War <br class="br">Backbench MP
Maria Weston Chapman (1806–1885) American abolitionist
From [Boston Female Anti-slavery Society, Annual Report of the Boston Female Anti-Slavery Society, https://books.google.com/books?id=W5I5AQAAMAAJ, 1836, The Society, 30], as quoted in [Dell, Diana, Memorable Quotations: American Women Writers of the Past, https://books.google.com/books?id=eM3IWooc_zIC, December 2000, iUniverse, 978-0-595-16230-7, 73]
Maria Weston Chapman (1806–1885) American abolitionist
In Liberator, August 13, 1836, as quoted in [Thomsett, Michael C., Thomsett, Linda Rose, A Speaker's Treasury of Quotations: Maxims, Witticisms and Quips for Speeches and Presentations, https://books.google.com/books?id=igYyBgAAQBAJ, 17 March 2009, McFarland, 978-0-7864-2945-5, 75]
L. K. Samuels (1951) American writer
Source: Killing History: The False Left-Right Political Spectrum and the Battle between the ‘Free Left’ and the ‘Statist Left', (2019), p. 96
Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English philosopher, statesman, scientist, jurist, and author
The Essays Or Counsels, Civil And Moral, Of Francis Ld. Verulam Viscount St. Albans (1625), Of Fame
Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English philosopher, statesman, scientist, jurist, and author
The Essays Or Counsels, Civil And Moral, Of Francis Ld. Verulam Viscount St. Albans (1625), Of Nature in Men
“Children sweeten labors; but they make misfortunes more bitter.”
Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English philosopher, statesman, scientist, jurist, and author
The Essays Or Counsels, Civil And Moral, Of Francis Ld. Verulam Viscount St. Albans (1625), Of Parents and Children
Francis Bacon (1561–1626) English philosopher, statesman, scientist, jurist, and author
The Essays Or Counsels, Civil And Moral, Of Francis Ld. Verulam Viscount St. Albans (1625), Of Revenge
Louisa May Alcott (1832–1888) American novelist
From an interview with poet and critic Louise Chandler Moulton, 1883.
Source: [Alberghene, Janice, Clark, Beverly, Little Women and the Feminist Imagination: Criticism, Controversy, Personal Essays, 2013, 1999, 9781138798977, Routledge]
Alexander Pope (1688–1744) eighteenth century English poet
Preface
The Works of Mr. Alexander Pope (1717)
Al-Biruni (973–1048) Persian scholar and polymath
From Alberuni's India
Source: in Elliot and Dowson, quoted in Misra, R. G. (2005). Indian resistance to early Muslim invaders up to 1206 A.D. p.111
“If mainstream opinion makes me no longer able to continue the job as chief executive, I’ll resign.”
Carrie Lam (1957) Chief Executive of Hong Kong
Carrie Lam (2017), responding to a question from the audience on her popularity once in the job. cited in " '‘I’d resign if mainstream opinion against me,’ Carrie Lam says as leadership rivals trade blows in debate https://www.scmp.com/news/hong-kong/politics/article/2078891/hong-kong-leadership-race-rivals-point-fingers-over-records" on South China Morning Post, 15 March 2017. Retrieved 18 May 2020. <br class="br">On resignation
“That idea only makes sense if you don’t think too hard about it.”
Lois McMaster Bujold Vorkosigan Saga
Chapter 18 (p. 308) Vorkosigan Saga, The Warrior's Apprentice (1986)
Max Lucado (1955) American clergyman and writer
Source: Travelling Light: Releasing the Burdens You Were Never Intended to Bear (2001)
Justin Trudeau (1971) 23rd Prime Minister of Canada; eldest son of Pierre Trudeau
Statement https://www.usnews.com/news/world/articles/2020-05-07/canada-provinces-agree-to-boost-wages-of-essential-workers-trudeau-says announcing a pay hike agreement for essential workers across the provinces during the Covid-19 pandemic crisis, May 7, 2020
Nahum Rabinovitch (1928–2020) Israeli rabbi
Source: August 2015, per Times of Israel https://www.timesofisrael.com/will-new-conversion-court-rend-or-repair-the-fabric-of-israeli-society/
“One of my only regrets is that I was never able to fall in love.”
Dylann Roof (1994) American mass murderer
Journal found in his car
“It’s bad business meddling with the devil; it makes you superstitious.”
Marion L. Starkey (1901–1991) American historian & writer
Source: The Devil in Massachusetts: A Modern Enquiry into the Salem Witch Trials (1949), Preface (p. 18)
Robert O'Hara American playwright and theatre director
Source: On feeling like an outsider both at his school and in his home life in “Artist Interview with Robert O'Hara” https://www.playwrightshorizons.org/shows/trailers/artist-interview-robert-ohara/ in Playwrights Horizon
Jack Kirby (1917–1994) American comic book artist, writer and editor
that was my objective. I knew the [reader] was never happy all the time. You take the Thing, he’d knock out 50 guys at a time and win — then maybe he’d sit down and kind of reflect on it: “Maybe I hurt somebody or maybe we could have done it some other way” like a human being would think, not like a monster. In other books the guy would knock out the gangs and that would be the end of it. You would see the guys in jail, and that’s it. Or it would say, “Wait until next week.”
Source: 1990, Gary Groth interview
Keira Knightley (1985) British actress
Variant: I hate my body. I like so many other people's bodies. I like legs — a good pair of legs on someone else always makes me jealous. <br class="br">Source: "Is Kate turning into Keira?" by Clemmie Moodie The Standard (1 December 2005) https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/is-kate-turning-into-keira-7250578.html <br class="br">Source: Celebrity W.T.F’s Volume 107(16 December 2005) https://lindagallacher.blogspot.com/2005/12/celebrity-wtfs-volume-107.html
Douglas Engelbart (1925–2013) American engineer and inventor
Source: https://www.dougengelbart.org/content/view/348/000/#annotations:AVM5A_shH9ZO4OKSlBtx
Ibn Hazm (994–1064) Arab theologian
ibn Hazm's style of ending a work, in Salim al-Hassani, Ibn Hazm’s Philosophy and Thoughts on Science https://muslimheritage.com/ibn-hazm-philosophy-and-science/#_ftnref23
Rand Paul (1963) American politician, ophthalmologist, and United States Senator from Kentucky
4 February 2019 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-hCP5Tp4Nw, excerpt from 5 February 2019 article on Reason https://reason.com/blog/2019/02/05/rand-paul-criticizes-bipartisan-support, there is a full transcript https://votesmart.org/public-statement/1319881/strengthening-americas-security-in-the-middle-east-act-of#.XKGWiJhKjIU from VoteSmart's list of his public statements https://votesmart.org/candidate/public-statements/117285/rand-paul <br class="br">2019
David Fleming (1940–2010) British activist
Lean Logic, (2016), p. 413, entry on Scale https://leanlogic.online/scale/
Frederick Douglass book My Bondage and My Freedom
Source: 1850s, My Bondage and My Freedom (1855), Chapter 3: Parentage.
Liv Tyler (1977) American actress, producer and former model
Liv Tyler is the October cover https://www.tatler.com/article/liv-tyler-october-2019-cover-star (August 30, 2019)
Liv Tyler (1977) American actress, producer and former model
Liv Tyler reveals what she finds sexy and romantic about husband David Gardner https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/liv-tyler-reveals-what-finds-13970530 (February 10, 2019)
“The greatest contribution of a leader is to make other leaders.”
Simon Sinek (1973) British/American author and motivational speaker
Source: Find Your Why: A Practical Guide for Discovering Purpose for You and Your Team
Paul Rey (1992) Swedish singer
Source: Song Tear Me Down, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwIHlq_zSaw
Kenneth Arrow (1921–2017) American economist
quoted in Conor Clarke, An Interview with Kenneth Arrow, Part Two https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2009/07/an-interview-with-kenneth-arrow-part-two/22279/ (2009) <br class="br">New millennium
Kenneth Arrow (1921–2017) American economist
quoted in Conor Clarke, An Interview with Kenneth Arrow, Part One https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2009/07/an-interview-with-kenneth-arrow-part-one/22213/ (2009) <br class="br">New millennium