Quotes about other
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“Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners”
Source: Brideshead Revisited: The Sacred and Profane Memories of Captain Charles Ryder
“To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves”
Durant, Will. Commencement Speech. We Have a Right To Be Happy Today https://web.archive.org/web/20130106111821/http://www.willdurant.com/youth.htm. Webb School of Claremont, CA. 7 Jun 1958.
Context: To speak ill of others is a dishonest way of praising ourselves; let us be above such transparent egotism. If you can't say good and encouraging things, say nothing. Nothing is often a good thing to do, and always a clever thing to say.
“Although other animals may be different from us, this does not make them LESS than us”
Source: Animals Matter: A Biologist Explains Why We Should Treat Animals with Compassion and Respect
Source: The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake
“Matthew, exactly how psychic are you?
So psychic that other psychics should be called Mattics.”
Source: Poison Princess
Variant: Real Reason:
There are things you do because they feel right & they may make no sense & they may make no money & it may be the real reason we are here: to love each other & to eat each other's cooking & say it was good.
Hagakure (c. 1716)
Source: Hagakure: The Book of the Samurai
Context: There is surely nothing other than the single purpose of the present moment. A man's whole life is a succession of moment after moment. If one fully understands the present moment, there will be nothing else to do, and nothing else to pursue. Live being true to the single purpose of the moment.
Everyone lets the present moment slip by, then looks for it as though he thought it were somewhere else.
“Work is what you do for others, liebchen. Art is what you do for yourself.”
Source: Sunday in the Park With George
Source: Dictionary of the Khazars: A Lexicon Novel in 100,000 Words
“Some days are meant to be counted, others are meant to be weighed.”
Source: Eat, pray, love: one woman's search for everything
“Women do not become exhausted, they only exhaust others.”
Ogier saying
(15 October 1994)
Source: Lord of Chaos
“It's human to make mistakes and some of us are more human than others.”
“what if you had to chouse one an not the other?”
Source: Dark Reunion
Source: god is Not Great: How Religion Poisons Everything
“Do right. Do your best. Treat others as you want to be treated.”
“Without courage all other virtues lose their meaning.”
“Silence is argument carried out by other means.”
As quoted in Secrets to a Richer Life: Illuminating Wisdom from the Human Family on the 12 Ultimate Questions (2005) by Earl Ernest Guile
Variant: Silence is argument carried out by other means.
“It is the peculiar quality of a fool to perceive the faults of others and to forget his own.”
“Do not make your mind a dumping ground for other people's garbage.”
“I had this story from one who had no business to tell it to me, or to any other.”
First lines, Ch. 1 : Out to Sea
Source: Tarzan of the Apes (1912)
Context: I had this story from one who had no business to tell it to me, or to any other. I may credit the seductive influence of an old vintage upon the narrator for the beginning of it, and my own skeptical incredulity during the days that followed for the balance of the strange tale.
“We all make mistakes, some bigger than others, but none of us is perfect.”
Source: One Hundred Names
Source: Bright Star: Love Letters and Poems of John Keats to Fanny Brawne
Miscellaneous
Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
“Blessed are they whose bodies get destroyed in the service of others.”
The Elements of Law, Natural and Politic Pt. I Human Nature (1640) Ch. 9
Source: Leviathan
“One must not judge other cultures by the standars of one's one,' said Aunt Hilda”
Source: The Morning Gift
“Man never thinks himself happy, but when he enjoys those things which others want or desire.”
“You, on the other hand, wish to know things. And no one can forgive a girl for that.”
Source: These Shallow Graves
Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
“He is great who is what he is from Nature, and who never reminds us of others.”
Uses of Great Men
1850s, Representative Men (1850)
Source: Nature
Source: Y: The Last Man, Vol. 10: Whys and Wherefores
“It is in the interests of both sexes to hear the other sex's experience of powerlessness.”
Source: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. xvii.
Context: Was it possible for the sexes to hear each other without saying, My powerlessness is greater than your powerlessness? It was becoming obvious each sex had a unique experience of both power and powerlessness. In my mind's eye I began to visualize a listening matrix as a framework within which we could hear these different experiences. It looked like this:
“Language has time as its element; all other media have space as their element.”
Source: Either/Or: A Fragment of Life
Variant: Time is the most valuable coin in your life. You and you alone will determine how that coin will be spent. Be careful that you do not let other people spend it for you.
Autobiographical Notes (1952)
Context: I don't like people who like me because I'm a Negro; neither do I like people who find in the same accident grounds for contempt. I love America more than any other country in the world, and, exactly for this reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually. I think all theories are suspect, that the finest principles may have to be modified, or may even be pulverized by the demands of life, and that one must find, therefore, one's own moral center and move through the world hoping that this center will guide one aright. I consider that I have many responsibilities, but none greater than this: to last, as Hemingway says, and get my work done.
I want to be an honest man and a good writer.