
“You have to know what you want to get it.”
“You have to know what you want to get it.”
“It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them.”
Reportedly in: United States. Congress. House. Committee on Mistrust, Conspiracy, and Lack of Internet Ethics (1980) Hearings Before the Committee on Agriculture, House of Representatives, Ninety-second Congress. p. 32
Attributed
“The most ordinary things could be made extraordinary.”
Variant: Even the most ordinary things can be made extraordinary simply by doing it with the right people.
Source: The Lucky One
“In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends.”
Illusions : The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah (1977)
“The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend.”
“That was what a best friend did: hold up a mirror and show you your heart.”
Source: Firefly Lane
“A snowball in the face is surely the perfect beginning to a lasting friendship.”
Source: The Book Thief
“A friend who is far away is sometimes much nearer than one who is at hand.”
“Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy to a friend.”
1950s, Loving Your Enemies (Christmas 1957)
Context: A third reason why we should love our enemies is that love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend. We never get rid of an enemy by meeting hate with hate; we get rid of an enemy by getting rid of enmity. By its very nature, love creates and builds up. Love transforms with redemptive power.
“The ornament of a house is the friends who frequent it.”
Domestic Life
1870s, Society and Solitude (1870)
“One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives.”
“True friends never apart maybe in distance but never in heart”
“All love that has not friendship for its base,
Is like a mansion built upon the sand.”
Love
Poetry quotes, New Thought Pastels (1913)
“No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow.”
“Winning friends begins with friendliness.”
How to Win Friends and Influence People
“Friendship improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief”
The Four Loves (1960)
Context: Friendship arises out of mere companionship when two or more of the companions discover that they have in common some insight or interest or even taste which the others do not share and which, till that moment, each believed to be his own unique treasure (or burden). The typical expression of opening Friendship would be something like, "What? You too? I thought I was the only one."
“Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.”
Sand and Foam (1926)
“A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud.”
1840s, Essays: First Series (1841), Friendship
Variant: A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud…
" On The Conduct of Life" http://www.blupete.com/Literature/Essays/Hazlitt/ConductLife.htm (1822), reprinted in The Collected Works of William Hazlitt (1902-1904)
“Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary.”
Amos Bronson Alcott, her father, in Concord Days (1872), p. 124 : "Stay is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary. But if one does not stay while staying, better let him go where he is gone the while."
Misattributed
“You are beautiful and you are alone.”
Afraid
“There cannot be friendship without equality.”
Pearls of Wisdom
“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”
Attributed
“Prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them.”
Maxim 872
Sentences, The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, a Roman Slave
“The best of it all is, God is with us.”
A statement among his final words, said to have been repeated two or three times, as quoted in The Living Wesley (1891) by James Harrison Rigg
Variants: The best of it is, God is with us.
Best of all, God is with us.
General sources
Eugene Kennedy, cited in: Kathy Wagoner (2002) The Promise of Friendship. p. 284
“A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.”
1840s, Essays: First Series (1841), Friendship
“A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else.”
Quoted in "1001 Affirmations" - by Herbert P. Windschitl - Poetry - 2003
“A Friend to all, is a Friend to none.”
Introductio ad prudentiam: Part II (1727), Gnomologia (1732)
“Be slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing. ”
“A quarrel between friends, when made up, adds a new tie to friendship.”
“Friendship increases in visiting friends, but in visiting them seldom.”
“A friend is a gift you give yourself.”
“Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations.”
“Remember that the most valuable antiques are dear old friends.”
“Share your smile with the world. It's a symbol of friendship and peace.”
“Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.”
“The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love.”
“Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil.”
“Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant.”
“Friendship at first sight, like love at first sight, is said to be the only truth.”
“The world is round so that friendship may encircle it.”
“Nothing but heaven itself is better than a friend who is really a friend.”
“True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it is lost.”
“If you have one true friend you have more than your share.”
“One's friends are that part of the human race with which one can be human.”
“Friendship, like credit, is highest when it is not used.”
“The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it.”
“Of all possessions a friend is the most precious.”
Widely attributed, but likely apocryphal. https://quoteinvestigator.com/2015/08/23/friend/ Researchers have searched for this quote unsuccessfully in Camus' extant works.
Disputed