Congress of Deputies, 1st May 2006 
As President, 2006
                                    
            
        
    
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                                        Kunti to Vayu. 
The god of wind thereupon begat upon her the child afterwards known as Bhima of mighty arms and fierce prowess. 
The Mahabharata/Book 1: Adi Parva/Section CXXIII
                                    
Ramakrishna Mission. (1986). Ramakrishna Mission: In search of a new identity.
Source: Man on His Own: Essays in the Philosophy of Religion (1959), p. 62
Poem The Loveliness of Love http://www.umiacs.umd.edu/~ridge/local/iinbid.html
America, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).
1880s, Plea for Free Speech in Boston (1880)
Source: Beyond the Chocolate War (1985), p. 207
Source: The Executive in Action, 1945, p. 79; as cited in Albert Lepawsky (1949), Administration, p. 406-7
Source: The Brain As A Computer (1962), p.2
“Pride, ill nature, and want of sense, are the three great sources of ill manners.”
A Treatise on Good Manners and Good Breeding
“Opinions, yes; convictions, no. That is the point of departure for an intellectual pride.”
Anathemas and Admirations (1987)
                                        
                                         What Really Divides Us https://web.archive.org/web/20120127094927/http://www.ronpaularchive.com/2002/12/what-really-divides-us/ (23 December 2002). 
2000s, 2001-2005
                                    
Source: The Wine of Violence (1981), Chapter 11 (p. 130)
                                        
                                        Don Soderquist “ Live Learn Lead to Make a Difference https://books.google.com/books?id=s0q7mZf9oDkC&lpg=pg=PP1&dq=Don%20Soderquist&pg=PP1#v=onepage&q&f=false, Thomas Nelson, April 2006 p. 58. 
On Doing Things Right
                                    
Source: Translations, The Aeneid of Virgil (1866), Book VI, pp. 225–226
                                        
                                        Foreword to the English edition 
The Order of Things: An Archaeology of the Human Sciences (1970)
                                    
                                        
                                        II, 3 
The Persian Bayán
                                    
                                        
                                        2000s, Fag-Lover Obama (2009) 
Context: This jackass of a president ought to proclaim pride month for decency, abstinence and chastity, not for the most abominable sins known to mankind — in the estimation of God Almighty, that is. Obama will bring down the curses of God upon the whole creation. Remember, you ignorant Americans, you Obama-worshippers around the world, we warned you. He raises a false argument ordering that nobody discriminate against fags. Listen up, you Bible-ignorant moron! It is neither wrongful nor sinful to discriminate against sin!
                                    
                                        
                                        Crabbed Age and Youth. 
Virginibus Puerisque and Other Papers (1881)
                                    
2010s, America: One Nation, Indivisible (2015)
“Pride comes before a fall- although in [Henry Kissinger's] case it's more conceit than pride.”
                                        
                                        As quoted in Asadollah Alam (1991), The Shah and I: The Confidential Diary of Iran's Royal Court, 1968-77, page 391 
Attributed
                                    
Source: The Tales of Alvin Maker, Alvin Journeyman (1995), Chapter 5.
                                        
                                        In a letter to her mother, from Worpswede, 6 July 1902; as quoted in Voicing our visions, – Writings by women artists; ed. Mara R. Witzling, Universe New York, 1991, p. 202 
1900 - 1905
                                    
Muslim Separatism – Causes and Consequences (1987)
Source: They Won! And did it ALA’s Way, 1997, p.75-76
About the fight with the Rai of Banares and capture of Asni and of Benares. Hasan Nizami: Taju’l-Ma’sir, in Elliot and Dowson, Vol. II : Elliot and Dowson, History of India as told by its own Historians, 8 Volumes, Allahabad Reprint, 1964. pp. 222-223 Also quoted in Jain, Meenakshi (2011). The India they saw: Foreign accounts.
Cassandra (1860)
Edinburgh Review (1829). He goes on to promise "enduring fame" to Felicia Hemans.
“Price tags advertise your pride.”
Lyrics, A Crow Left of the Murder... (2004)
                                
                                    “This vice [Pride] does not measure happiness so much by its own conveniences, as by the miseries of others.”
                                
                                
                                
                                
                                    
                                    Haec non suis commodis prosperitatem, sed ex alienis metitur incommodis. 
                                
                            
                                        
                                        Haec non suis commodis prosperitatem, sed ex alienis metitur incommodis. 
http://books.google.com/books?id=6REuAAAAMAAJ&q=%22haec+non+suis+commodis+prosperitatem+sed+ex+alienis+metitur+incommodis%22&pg=PA306#v=onepage 
Alternate translation: [Pride] measures her prosperity not by her own goods but by others' wants. 
Source: Utopia (1516), Ch. 9 : Of the Religions of the Utopians
                                    
Prayer and the Art of Volkswagen Maintenance (2000, Harvest House Publishers)
From, Light on Carmel: An Anthology from the Works of Brother John of Saint Samson, O.Carm.
Source: A Wild Sheep Chase: A Novel (1982), Chapter 22,Sunday Afternoon Picnic
Source: "Kant on the Rational Instability of Atheism" (2006), pp. 63-64
1990s, Victory speech (1994)
2000s, 2003, Columbia space shuttle disaster (February 2003)
Source: A Mother's Advice to Her Daughter, 1728, p. 204
Henri Poincaré, Critic of Crisis: Reflections on His Universe of Discourse (1954), Ch. 2. The Age of Innocence
Open letter to the Masters of Dublin (1913)
“I leave with sadness, but with pride: Dravid on retirement”
In press conference announcing retirement from Test cricket, quoted in " After 16 yrs, Rahul Wall Dravid retires from intl cricket" in Indian Express (Indianexpress.com) http://www.indianexpress.com/news/after-16-yrs-rahul-wall-dravid-retires-from-intl-cricket/921750/0
“When old men decided to barter young men for pride and profit, the transaction was called war.”
Eleven Declarations of War (London: Harcourt Brace, 1975) p. 11
(from vol 2, letter 60: 5 Jan 1780, to Mr J. W___e [still in India] ).
1880s, The Future of the Colored Race (1886)
Families First tax plan speech (5 January 2004), reported in Clark unveils tax plan" — CNN (5 January 2004) http://www.cnn.com/2004/ALLPOLITICS/01/05/elec04.prez.clark.taxes/
                                        
                                        "The War Speeches of William Pitt", Oxford University Press, 1915, p. 7 
Speech in the House of Commons, 21 February 1783, on the peace treaty with the United States. Pitt, who was Chancellor of the Exchequer, knew the government would lose the vote and he would have to resign.
                                    
                                        
                                        2008 campaign speech at Ave Maria University, quoted in * 2012-02-21 
Media Shifts Attention To Rick Santorum’s 2008 Speech About Satan’s Influence On U.S. 
Alex 
Alvarez 
Mediaite 
http://www.mediaite.com/tv/media-shifts-attention-to-rick-santorums-2008-speech-about-satans-influence-on-u-s/ 
2012-02-21
                                    
                                        
                                        Riyadh-as-Saliheen by Imam Al-Nawawi, volume 4, hadith number 612 
Sunni Hadith
                                    
                                        
                                        Referring to the figure of the prostitute. 
Source: A History of European Morals from Augustus to Charlemagne (1869), Chapter 5 (3rd edition pages 282-283).
                                    
                                        
                                        on the Diane Rehm Show. 
Post-Presidency
                                    
                                        
                                        I am an anarchist! 
Prologue 
Anarchism : A History of Libertarian Ideas and Movements (1962)
                                    
                                        
                                        1770s, "Give me liberty, or give me death!" (1775) 
Context: It is natural for man to indulge in the illusions of hope and pride. We are apt to shut our eyes against a painful truth, and listen to the song of that siren till she transforms us into beasts. Is this the part of wise men, engaged in a great and arduous struggle for liberty? Are we disposed to be the number of those who, having eyes, see not, and having ears, hear not, the things which so nearly concern their temporal salvation? For my part, whatever anguish of spirit it may cost, I am willing to know the whole truth; to know the worst, and to provide for it.
                                    
                                        
                                        1900s, The Moral Equivalent of War (1906) 
Context: Such a conscription, with the state of public opinion that would have required it, and the many moral fruits it would bear, would preserve in the midst of a pacific civilization the manly virtues which the military party is so afraid of seeing disappear in peace. We should get toughness without callousness, authority with as little criminal cruelty as possible, and painful work done cheerily because the duty is temporary, and threatens not, as now, to degrade the whole remainder of one's life. I spoke of the "moral equivalent" of war. So far, war has been the only force that can discipline a whole community, and until and equivalent discipline is organized, I believe that war must have its way. But I have no serious doubt that the ordinary prides and shames of social man, once developed to a certain intensity, are capable of organizing such a moral equivalent as I have sketched, or some other just as effective for preserving manliness of type. It is but a question of time, of skilful propogandism, and of opinion-making men seizing historic opportunities.
                                    
                                        
                                        The Dreamstone, Book One : The Gruagach, Ch. 1 : Of Fish and Fire 
Arafel's Saga (1983) 
Context: Men changed whatever they set hand to. They wrought their magic on beasts, to make them dull and patient. They brought fire and the reek of smoke to the dales. They brought lines and order to the curve of the hills. Most of all they brought the chill of iron, to sweep away the ancient shadows.
But they took the brightness too. It was inevitable, because that brightness was measured against that dark. Men piled stone on stone and made warm homes, and tamed some humbler, quieter things, but the darkest burrowed deep and the brightest went away, heartbroken.
Save one, whose patience or whose pride was more than all the rest.
So one place, one untouched place in all the world remained, a rather smallish forest near the sea and near humankind, keeping a time different than elsewhere.
                                    
                                        
                                        Section 29 
The Passionate State Of Mind, and Other Aphorisms (1955) 
Context: A fateful process is set in motion when the individual is released "to the freedom of his own impotence" and left to justify his existence by his own efforts. The autonomous individual, striving to realize himself and prove his worth, has created all that is great in literature, art, music, science and technology. The autonomous individual, also, when he can neither realize himself nor justify his existence by his own efforts, is a breeding call of frustration, and the seed of the convulsions which shake our world to its foundations.
The individual on his own is stable only so long as he is possessed of self-esteem. The maintenance of self-esteem is a continuous task which taxes all of the individual's powers and inner resources. We have to prove our worth and justify our existence anew each day. When, for whatever reason, self-esteem is unattainable, the autonomous individual becomes a highly explosive entity. He turns away from an unpromising self and plunges into the pursuit of pride — the explosive substitute for self-esteem. All social disturbances and upheavals have their roots in crises of individual self-esteem, and the great endeavor in which the masses most readily unite is basically a search for pride.
                                    
                                
                                    “Words from empty words they sever—
Words of Truth from words of Pride.”
                                
                                
                                
                                
                            
                                        
                                        Part III Poems, "Reflection from Various Surfaces" (April 18, 1853) 
The Life of James Clerk Maxwell (1882) 
Context: By the hollow mauntain-side
Questions strange I shout for ever,
While echoes far and wide
Seem to mock my vain endeavour;
Still I shout, for though they never
Cast my borrowed voice aside,
Words from empty words they sever—
Words of Truth from words of Pride.
                                    
                                
                                    “It is dreams that have destroyed us.  There is no more pride
in horses or in rein holding.”
                                
                                
                                
                                
                            
                                        
                                        "Libertad! Igualidad! Fraternidad!" 
Al Que Quiere! (1917) 
Context: Brother!
— if we were rich
we'd stick our chests out
and hold our heads high!  It is dreams that have destroyed us.  There is no more pride
in horses or in rein holding.  We sit hunched together brooding
our fate.  Well —
all things turn bitter in the end
whether you choose the right or
the left way
and —
dreams are not a bad thing.
                                    
                                        
                                        Source: Memoirs of a Superfluous Man (1943), p. 314 
Context: According to my observations, mankind are among the most easily tamable and domesticable of all creatures in the animal world. They are readily reducible to submission, so readily conditionable (to coin a word) as to exhibit an almost incredibly enduring patience under restraint and oppression of the most flagrant character. So far are they from displaying any overweening love of freedom that they show a singular contentment with a condition of servitorship, often showing a curious canine pride in it, and again often simply unaware that they are existing in that condition.
                                    
                                        
                                        The Parable of the Old Man and the Young 
Context: p>So Abram rose, and clave the wood, and went,
And took the fire with him, and a knife.
And as they sojourned both of them together,
Isaac the first-born spake and said, My Father,
Behold the preparations, fire and iron,
But where the lamb for this burnt-offering?
Then Abram bound the youth with belts and straps,
And builded parapets and trenches there,
And stretchèd forth the knife to slay his son.
When lo! an angel called him out of heaven,
Saying, Lay not thy hand upon the lad,
Neither do anything to him, thy son.
Behold! Caught in a thicket by its horns,
A Ram. Offer the Ram of Pride instead.But the old man would not so, but slew his son,
And half the seed of Europe, one by one.</p
                                    
                                
                                    “No eye saw him, while with loving pride
Each voice with each in praise of Jubal vied.”
                                
                                
                                
                                
                            
                                        
                                        The Legend of Jubal (1869) 
Context: No eye saw him, while with loving pride
Each voice with each in praise of Jubal vied.
Must he in conscious trance, dumb, helpless lie
While all that ardent kindred passed him by?
His flesh cried out to live with living men,
And join that soul which to the inward ken
Of all the hymning train was present there.
                                    
                                
                                    “Ill times may be; she hath no thought of time:
She reigns beside the waters yet in pride.”
                                
                                
                                
                                
                            
                                        
                                        "Oxford" 
Context: p>Ill times may be; she hath no thought of time:
She reigns beside the waters yet in pride.
Rude voices cry: but in her ears the chime
Of full, sad bells brings back her old springtide. Like to a queen in pride of place, she wears
The splendour of a crown in Radcliffe's dome.
Well fare she, well! As perfect beauty fares;
And those high places, that are beauty's home.</p
                                    
                                        
                                        To the Memory of Some I knew Who are Dead and Who Loved Ireland (1917) 
Context: Their dream had left me numb and cold,
But yet my spirit rose in pride,
Refashioning in burnished gold
The images of those who died,
Or were shut in the penal cell.
Here's to you, Pearse, your dream not mine,
But yet the thought, for this you fell,
Has turned life's water into wine.
                                    
                                        
                                        The Dominant Idea (1910) 
Context: If you choose the liberty and pride and strength of the single soul, and the free fraternization of men, as the purpose which your life is to make manifest then do not sell it for tinsel. Think that your soul is strong and will hold its way; and slowly, through bitter struggle perhaps the strength will grow. And the foregoing of possessions for which others barter the last possibility of freedom will become easy.
                                    
                                        
                                        Mace Windu, p. 251 
Shatterpoint (2004) 
Context: It dawned on me then that Nick was proud of himself. Proud of what we had done. It may have been an unfamiliar feeling for him: that peculiarly delicious pride that comes from having taken a terrible risk to do something truly admirable. Of overcoming the instinct of self-presrvation: of fighting our fears and winning. It is the pride of discovering that one is not merely a bundle of reflexes and conditioned responses; that instead one is a thinking being, who can choose the right over the easy, and justice over safety.
                                    
                                        
                                        Life Without and Life Within (1859), My Seal-Ring 
Context: Mercury has cast aside
The signs of intellectual pride,
Freely offers thee the soul:
Art thou noble to receive?
Canst thou give or take the whole,
Nobly promise and believe?
Then thou wholly human art,
A spotless, radiant, ruby heart,
And the golden chain of love
Has bound thee to the realm above.
                                    
                                        
                                        Source: The Remains of the Day (1989), p. 244 
Context: It is now some twenty minutes since the man left, but I have remained here on this bench to await the event that has just taken place – namely, the switching on of the pier lights. As I say, the happiness with which the pleasure-seekers gathering on this pier greeted this small event would tend to vouch for the correctness of my companion’s words; for a great many people, the evening is the most enjoyable part of the day. Perhaps, then, there is something to his advice that I should cease looking back so much, that I should adopt a more positive outlook and try to make the best of what remains of my day. After all, what can we ever gain in forever looking back and blaming ourselves if our lives have not turned out quite as we might have wished? The hard reality is, surely, that for the likes of you and I, there is little choice other than to leave our fate, ultimately, in the hands of those great gentlemen at the hub of this world who employ our services. What is the point in worrying oneself too much about what one could or could not have done to control the course one’s life took? Surely it is enough that the likes of you and I at least try to make our small contribution count for something true and worthy. And if some of us are prepared to sacrifice much in life in order to pursue such aspirations, surely that is in itself, whatever the outcome, cause for pride and contentment.
                                    
“They had pride. And they had the precious ability to fire platoon volleys.”
                                        
                                        Sharpe (Novel Series), Sharpe's Escape  (2003) 
Context: They were thieves and murderers and fools and rapists and drunkards. Not one had joined for love of country, and certainly not for love of their King [... ] They were paid pitifully, fined for every item they lost, and the few pennies they managed to keep they usually gambled away. They were feckless rogues, as violent as hounds and as coarse as swine, but they had two things.  They had pride.  And they had the precious ability to fire platoon volleys. They could fire those half company volleys faster than any other army in the world. Stand in front of these recoats and the balls came thick as hail. It was death to be in their way and seven French battlions were now in death's forecourt and the South Essex was tearing them to ribbons.
Narrator, p. 101
                                    
                                        
                                        2010s, Farewell Speech (2017) 
Context: If your family doesn't have much money, I want you to remember that in this country, plenty of folks, including me and my husband — we started out with very little. But with a lot of hard work and a good education, anything is possible — even becoming President. That's what the American Dream is all about.
If you are a person of faith, know that religious diversity is a great American tradition, too. In fact, that's why people first came to this country — to worship freely. And whether you are Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Sikh — these religions are teaching our young people about justice, and compassion, and honesty. So I want our young people to continue to learn and practice those values with pride. You see, our glorious diversity — our diversities of faiths and colors and creeds — that is not a threat to who we are, it makes us who we are.
                                    
                                        
                                        How to Explain Conservatism to Your Squishy Liberal Friends: Individualism 'R' Us 
Why I Am a Conservative (1996)
                                    
                                        
                                        Source: A Daughter of Eve (1839), Ch. 4: A Man of Note. 
Context: This surface good-nature which captivates a new acquaintance and is no bar to treachery, which knows no scruple and is never at fault for an excuse, which makes an outcry at the wound which it condones, is one of the most distinctive features of the journalist. This camaraderie (the word is a stroke of genius) corrodes the noblest minds; it eats into their pride like rust, kills the germ of great deeds, and lends a sanction to moral cowardice.
                                    
                                        
                                        "Love" 
The Forerunner (1920) 
Context: O love, whose lordly hand
Has bridled my desires,
And raised my hunger and my thirst
To dignity and pride,
Let not the strong in me and the constant
Eat the bread or drink the wine
That tempt my weaker self.
Let me rather starve,
And let my heart parch with thirst,
And let me die and perish,
Ere I stretch my hand
To a cup you did not fill,
Or a bowl you did not bless.
                                    
                                        
                                        Howard Zinn on War (2000),  Ch. 14: Vietnam: A Matter of Perspective http://www.thirdworldtraveler.com/Zinn/Vietnam_Perspective_HZOW.html 
Context: Scholars, who pride themselves on speaking their minds, often engage in a form of self-censorship which is called "realism." To be "realistic" in dealing with a problem is to work only among the alternatives which the most powerful in society put forth. It is as if we are all confined to a, b, c, or d in the multiple choice test, when we know there is another possible answer. American society, although it has more freedom of expression than most societies in the world, thus sets limits beyond which respectable people are not supposed to think or speak. So far, too much of the debate on Vietnam has observed these limits.
                                    
“One cannot attain divine knowledge till one gets rid of pride.”
                                        
                                        Source: The Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna (1942), p. 874 
Context: One cannot attain divine knowledge till one gets rid of pride. Water does not stay on the top of a mound; but into low land it flows in torrents from all sides.
                                    
                                        
                                        Source: The Devil and Daniel Webster (1937) 
Context: Then he turned to Jabez Stone and showed him as he was — an ordinary man who'd had hard luck and wanted to change it. And, because he'd wanted to change it, now he was going to be punished for all eternity. And yet there was good in Jabez Stone, and he showed that good. He was hard and mean, in some ways, but he was a man. There was sadness in being a man, but it was a proud thing too. And he showed what the pride of it was till you couldn't help feeling it. Yes, even in hell, if a man was a man, you'd know it. And he wasn't pleading for any one person any more, though his voice rang like an organ. He was telling the story and the failures and the endless journey of mankind. They got tricked and trapped and bamboozled, but it was a great journey. And no demon that was ever foaled could know the inwardness of it — it took a man to do that.
The fire began to die on the hearth and the wind before morning to blow. The light was getting gray in the room when Dan'l Webster finished. And his words came back at the end to New Hampshire ground, and the one spot of land that each man loves and clings to. He painted a picture of that, and to each one of that jury he spoke of things long forgotten. For his voice could search the heart, and that was his gift and his strength. And to one, his voice was like the forest and its secrecy, and to another like the sea and the storms of the sea; and one heard the cry of his lost nation in it, and another saw a little harmless scene he hadn't remembered for years. But each saw something. And when Dan'l Webster finished he didn't know whether or not he'd saved Jabez Stone. But he knew he'd done a miracle. For the glitter was gone from the eyes of the judge and jury, and, for the moment, they were men again, and knew they were men.
                                    
                                        
                                        13 February 1945. 
Disputed, The Testament of Adolf Hitler (1945)
                                    
                                        
                                        George Boole (1851), "The Claims of Science, especially as founded in its relation to Human Nature". Published in Boole, GeorgeStudies in Logic and Probability. 2002. p. 201-202 
1850s 
Context: The scepticism of the ancient world left no department of human belief unassailed. It took its chief stand upon the conflicting nature of the impressions of the senses, but threw the dark shade of uncertainty over the most settled convictions of the mind; over men's belief in an external world, over their consciousness of their own existence. But this form of doubt was not destined to endure. Science, in removing the contradictions of sense, and establishing the consistent uniformity of natural law, took away the main pillars of its support. The spirit, however, and the mental habits of which it was the roduct, still survive; but not among the votaries of science. For I cannot but regard it as the same spirit which, with whatever profession of zeal, and for whatever ends of supposed piety or obedience, strives to subvertthe natural evidences of morals, - the existence of a Supreme Intelligent Cause. There is a scepticism which repudiates all belief; there is also a scepticism which seeks to escape from itself by a total abnegation of the understanding, and which, in the pride of its new-found security, would recklessly destroy every internal ground of humant trust and hope... Now to this, as to a former development of the sceptical spirit, Science stands in implied but real antagonism.
                                    
                                        
                                        Source: Structures (or, Why Things Don't Fall Down) (1978), Chapter 15, A Chapter of accidents 
Context: In the course of a long professional life spent, or misspent, in the study of the strengths of materials and structures, I have had cause to examine a lot of accidents, many of them fatal. I have been forced to the conclusion that very few accidents just "happen" in a morally neutral way. Nine out of ten accidents are caused, not by more or less abstruse technical effects, but by old-fashioned human sin — often verging on plain wickedness. Of course I do not mean the more gilded and juicy sins like deliberate murder, large-scale fraud, or Sex. It is squalid sins like carelessness, idleness, won't-learn-and-don't-need-to-ask, you-can't-tell-me-anything-about-my-job, pride, jealousy and greed that kill people.
                                    
                                        
                                        Statement broadcast to the United States and the Pacific Fleet, after ceremonies in Tokyo Bay accepting the official surrender of Japan (2 September 1945); a portion of this is engraved on the National World War II Memorial in Washington, D.C. 
Context: Today all freedom-loving peoples of the world rejoice in the victory and feel pride in the accomplishments of our combined forces. We also pay tribute to those who defended our freedom at the cost of their lives.
On Guam is a military cemetery in a green valley not far from my headquarters. The ordered rows of white crosses stand as reminders of the heavy cost we have paid for victory. On these crosses are the names of American soldiers, sailors and marines — Culpepper, Tomaino, Sweeney, Bromberg, Depew, Melloy, Ponziani — names that are a cross-section of democracy. They fought together as brothers in arms; they died together and now they sleep side by side. To them we have a solemn obligation — the obligation to insure that their sacrifice will help to make this a better and safer world in which to live. … Now we turn to the great tasks of reconstruction and restoration. I am confident that we will be able to apply the same skill, resourcefulness, and keen thinking to these problems as were applied to the problems of winning the victory.
                                    
                                        
                                        Travis McGee series, The Deep Blue Good-by (1964) 
Context: These are the playmate years, and they are demonstrably fraudulent. The scene is reputed to be acrawl with adorably amoral bunnies to whom sex is a pleasant social favor. The new culture. And they are indeed present and available, in exhausting quantity, but there is a curious tastelessness about them. A woman who does not guard and treasure herself cannot be of much value to anyone else. They become a pretty little convenience, like a guest towel. And the cute little things they say, and their dainty little squeals of pleasure and release are as contrived as the embroidered initials on the guest towels. Only a woman of pride, complexity and emotional tension is genuinely worthy of the act of love, and there are only two ways to get yourself one of them. Either you lie, and stain the relationship with your own sense of guile, or you accept the involvement, the emotional responsibility, the permanence she must by nature crave. I love you can be said only two ways.
                                    
“Good-breeding is opposed to selfishness, vanity, or pride.”
                                        
                                        Misattributed, Jackson's personal book of maxims 
Context: Good-breeding is opposed to selfishness, vanity, or pride. Never weary your company by talking too long or too frequently.
                                    
Achilles' Loves, only surviving fragment, often quoted as "Love is like ice in the hands of children".
                                
                                    “I shared with ships good joys and fortunes wide
That might befall their beauty and their pride”
                                
                                
                                
                                
                            
                                        
                                        "Sailing Ships", p. 162 
Collected Poems (1933) 
Context: While many a lovely ship below sailed by
On unknown errand, kempt and leisurely;
And after each, oh, after each, my heart
Fled forth, as, watching from the Downs apart,
I shared with ships good joys and fortunes wide
That might befall their beauty and their pride…
                                    
                                        
                                        Letter XXVIII (April 1820) Views of Society and Manners in America (1821) 
Context: The Virginians are said to pride themselves upon the peculiar tenderness with which they visit the sceptre of authority on their African vassals. As all those acquainted with the character of the Virginia planters, whether American or foreigners, appear to concur in bearing testimony of their humanity, it is probable that they are entitled to the praise which they claim. But in their position, justice should be held superior to humanity; to break the chains would be more generous than to gild them; and whether we consider the interests of the master or the slave, decidedly more useful. To give liberty to a slave before he understands its value is, perhaps, rather to impose a penalty than to bestow a blessing; but it is not clear to me that the southern planters are duly exerting themselves to prepare the way for that change in the condition of their black populations which they profess to think not only desirable but inevitable.
                                    
                                        
                                        Speech to the St. David's Day Banquet in Cardiff (1 March 1927), quoted in Our Inheritance (London: Hodder and Stoughton, 1938), pp. 46-47. 
1927 
Context: ... that chauvinistic spirit which so often has been the curse of modern Europe. The best way in which you can develop a true national feeling and put your own country in the pride of place which belongs to her is to do it in communion with other nations and with the sole object of improving the world at large. It is not from disillusionment we have suffered since the War; we are taking a more sober view both of ourselves and of the world... Nationalism can take on some very ugly shapes. It looks as if as many crimes will be committed in its name as in the name of Religion or of Liberty. Indeed the source of the trouble is that Nationalists are apt to assume the garments of Religion... Love of one's country has been perverted into hatred of our neighbour's country by the preaching of lop-sided intellectuals, who themselves generally manage to escape the martyrdom they provide for others.