Oscar Wilde Quotes
812 Quotes on Love, Forgiveness, Rebellion, and Embracing Your Unique Voice

Experience the wit and wisdom of Oscar Wilde through his most famous quotes. From the importance of love and forgiveness to the rebellion within every woman, delve into the captivating world of Wilde's words and be inspired to embrace your own unique voice.

Oscar Wilde was an Irish poet and playwright who gained popularity in London in the late 19th century. Known for his epigrams and plays, Wilde achieved great success with works such as The Picture of Dorian Gray. He was also infamous for his conviction for gross indecency, resulting in imprisonment and ultimately, his early death at the age of 46.

Born to Anglo-Irish parents in Dublin, Wilde showed exceptional talent and intellect from a young age. After studying at prestigious universities, he became associated with aestheticism and immersed himself in literary pursuits. With his sharp wit and extravagant style, Wilde became a prominent figure in social circles. He expressed his artistic ideas through various literary endeavors, including poetry, lectures, and journalism.

Wilde’s fascination with art led him to write dramas that combined aesthetic details with broader societal themes. Although faced with obstacles such as the prohibition of biblical subjects on English stages, he proved resilient and went on to become one of the most successful playwrights of his time. However, his fame took a dramatic turn when he prosecuted the Marquess of Queensberry for libel due to their connection through Lord Alfred Douglas. The trial resulted not only in Wilde dropping charges but also in his arrest and conviction for homosexual acts.

While serving his sentence, Wilde penned De Profundis, a reflective letter that delves into his spiritual journey during his trials. Upon release, he fled to France where he wrote what would be his last work - The Ballad of Reading Gaol - an introspective poem inspired by the harsh realities of prison life. Wilde never returned to Ireland or Britain before his untimely demise. Despite enduring personal turmoil and societal backlash, Oscar Wilde left an indelible mark on literature and continues to be remembered as one of history's most influential writers.

✵ 16. October 1854 – 30. November 1900
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Famous Oscar Wilde Quotes

“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”

The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Context: With the abolition of private property, then, we shall have true, beautiful, healthy Individualism. Nobody will waste his life in accumulating things, and the symbols for things. One will live. To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.

“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.”

Lord Darlington, Act III
Source: Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)

“Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.”

Variant: Always forgive your enemies — nothing annoys them so much.

Oscar Wilde Quotes about life

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

Lord Goring, Act III
Source: An Ideal Husband (1895)

Oscar Wilde Quotes about people

“It is absurd to divide people into good and bad. People are either charming or tedious.”

Lord Darlington, Act I
Source: Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)

“Indeed I have always been of the opinion that hard work is simply the refuge of people who have nothing to do.”

" The Remarkable Rocket http://www.online-literature.com/wilde/179/".
The Happy Prince and Other Tales (1888)
Variant: Hard work is simply the refuge of people who have nothing whatever to do.

“Ah! Don't say you agree with me. When people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.”

This also appears in Lady Windermere's Fan (1892), Act II
The Critic as Artist (1891), Part II

“Only dull people are brilliant at breakfast.”

Mrs Chevely, Act I
An Ideal Husband (1895)

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“The mystery of love is greater than the mystery of death.”

le mystère de l'amour est plus grand que le mystère de la mort.
Source: Salomé (1893)

Oscar Wilde Quotes

“We are each our own devil, and we make this world our hell.”

Source: The Duchess of Padua

“I don't want to go to heaven. None of my friends are there”

No known source in Oscar Wilde's works. Earliest known example of a similar quote comes from a 2001 usenet post https://groups.google.com/forum/message/raw?msg=alt.atheism/ZadPWBw-wew/G_3tx370wpoJ (not attributed to Wilde)
Attributed to Wilde on Goodreads https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/15736-i-don-t-want-to-go-to-heaven-none-of-my?page=83 some time on or before January 2008.
Bears some resemblance to Machiavelli's deathbed dream https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Niccol%C3%B2_Machiavelli#Disputed.
Disputed

“How else but through a broken heart
May Lord Christ enter in?”

Pt. V, st. 14
The Ballad of Reading Gaol (1898)

“There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up.”

Variant: There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up.

“It takes great deal of courage to see the world in all its tainted glory, and still to love it.”

Variant: It takes great courage to see the world in all its tainted glory, and still to love it. And even more courage to see it in the one you love
Source: An Ideal Husband

“A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.”

Variant: A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Because sometimes you have to do something bad to do something good.”

Source: The Complete Fairy Tales

“Only love can keep anyone alive…”

Source: A Woman of No Importance

Oscar Wilde quote: “Religion is like a blind man looking in a black room for a black cat that isn't there, and finding it.”

“Religion is like a blind man looking in a black room for a black cat that isn't there, and finding it.”

This quote was instead first mentioned in a 1931 book titled “Since Calvary: An Interpretation of Christian History” by the comparative religion specialist Lewis Browne.
Disputed

“A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.”

Variant: A dreamer is one who can only find his way by moonlight, and his punishment is that he sees the dawn before the rest of the world.
Source: The Critic as Artist (1891), Part II

“Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood.”

Source: Lord Arthur Savile's Crime and Other Stories

“Experience, the name men give to their mistakes.”

Mr. Dumby, Act III.
Vera; or, The Nihilists (1880)
Variant: Experience was of no ethical value. It was merely the name men gave to their mistakes.
Variant: Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray
Context: Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes. [First used by Wilde in Vera; or, The Nihilists http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vera;_or,_The_Nihilists. ]

“I can resist everything except temptation.”

Lord Darlington, Act I
Variant: I can resist everything except temptation
Source: Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)

“Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.”

Lord Darlington, Act III.
Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)
Variant: What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray
Context: A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing. [Answering the question, what is a cynic? ]

“There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about.”

Variant: If there is anything more annoying in the world than having people talk about you, it is certainly having no one talk about you.
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray

Oscar Wilde quote: “I have nothing to declare except my genius.”

“Life is far too important a thing ever to talk seriously about it.”

Variant: Often quoted as: Life is far too important to be taken seriously.
Variant: Often quoted as: Life is too important to be taken seriously.
Variant: Often quoted as: Life is too important to take seriously.
Source: Lady Windermere's Fan (1892), Lord Darlington, Act I

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”

Lord Illingworth, Act III.
A Woman of No Importance (1893)
Variant: Men marry because they are tired; women because they are curious. Both are disappointed.
Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray

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