“When we open ourselves
you yourself to me and I myself to you,
when we submerge
you into me and I into you
when we vanish
into me you and into you I

Then
am I me
and you are you.”

— Bernhard Schlink , book The Reader

Source: The Reader

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German writer 1944

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