“Be loved, be admired, be necessary; be somebody.”
Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
Explore Simone de Beauvoir's profound wisdom and thought-provoking insights on personal autonomy, love, gender constructs, questioning the world—through our inspiring collection of quotes.
Simone de Beauvoir was a French philosopher, writer, social theorist, and feminist activist. She had a significant influence on feminist existentialism and theory. Best known for her groundbreaking work on women's oppression, The Second Sex, she also wrote novels and memoirs that showcased her descriptive power as a writer. Despite controversy surrounding accusations of sexually abusing her students, Beauvoir remained a highly awarded woman throughout her life.
Born into a bourgeois Parisian family in 1908, Beauvoir's precocious intellect was encouraged by her father. Struggling financially after World War I, she pursued an education in philosophy and crossed paths with influential thinkers such as Jean-Paul Sartre. Although she placed second in the national examination for philosophy at age 21, Beauvoir went on to establish herself as a prominent intellectual.
Raised Catholic but later becoming an atheist, Beauvoir questioned religious faith from an early age and saw it as an evasion of the difficulties faced by atheists. She believed in confronting societal concerns through her writing and activism. Simone de Beauvoir's contributions to feminism and philosophy continue to resonate today.
“Be loved, be admired, be necessary; be somebody.”
Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
“Some things I loved have vanished. A great many others have been given to me”
Source: The Woman Destroyed
“Today, however, we are having a hard time living because we are so bent on outwitting death.”
Source: The Ethics of Ambiguity
Bk. I, Pt. 2, Ch. 8: Since the French Revolution: the Job and the Vote, p. 133
Source: The Second Sex (1949)
Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
“… counselling man to treat her as a slave while persuading her that she is a queen.”
Source: The Second Sex
“What is an adult? A child blown up by age.”
A Woman Destroyed [Une femme rompue] (1967)
General sources
“It is so tiring to hate someone you love.”
Source: The Woman Destroyed
“The body is the instrument of our hold on the world.”
Source: The Second Sex
“I was very fond of Lagneau’s phrase: “I have no comfort but in my absolute despair.”
Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
“I love you, with a touch of tragedy and quite madly.”
Source: Letters to Sartre
Regina to herself, p. 28
All Men are Mortal (1946)
Pt I, Ch. 4: Old age in present-day society, p. 263
The Coming of Age (1970)
On her work All Men are Mortal in Force of Circumstances (1963), p. 73
General sources
Source: All Men are Mortal (1946), p. 81
“The power he exercises is no more dictatorial than, for example, Roosevelt's was.”
On Mao Zedong, in The Long March (1957), as quoted in "Mao and the Australian Maoists" by Keith Windschuttle, in Quadrant (October 2005) http://www.sydneyline.com/Mao%20and%20Australian%20Maoists.htm
General sources
Regina
All Men are Mortal (1946)
Pt. III : The Positive Aspect of Ambiguity, Ch. 3 : Freedom and Liberation
The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947)
“Try to stay a man amongst men … There's no other hope for you.”
Marianne to Raimon
All Men are Mortal (1946)
“Each of us is responsible for everything and to every human being.”
Fyodor Dostoevsky in The Brothers Karamazov; this was used as an epigraph in The Blood of Others, and is sometimes attributed to de Beauvoir
Misattributed
“A Dialogue with Simone de Beauvoir,” in Betty Friedan, It Changed My Life: Writings on the Women’s Movement, (New York: Random House, 1976), p. 397 https://books.google.com/books?id=iv4-Qy82BJ0C&pg=PA397&lpg=PA397.
General sources
Pt. 2, Ch. 1: The discovery and assumption of old age: the body's experience, p. 288
The Coming of Age (1970)
Une telle morale [la morale existentialiste] est-elle ou non un individualisme? Oui, si l’on entend par là qu’elle accorde à l’individu une valeur absolue et qu’elle reconnaît qu’a lui seul le pouvoir de fonder son existence. Elle est individualisme au sens où les sagesses antiques, la morale chrétienne du salut, l’idéal de la vertu kantienne méritent aussi ce nom ; elle s’oppose aux doctrines totalitaires qui dressent par-delà I’homme le mirage de l’Humanité. Mais elle n’est pas un solipsisme, puisque l’individu ne se définit que par sa relation au monde et aux autres individus, il n’existe qu’en se transcendant et sa liberté ne peut s’accomplir qu’à travers la liberté d’autrui. Il justifie son existence par un mouvement qui, comme elle, jaillit du coeur de lui-même, mais qui aboutit hors de lui.
Cet individualisme ne conduit pas à l’anarchie du bon plaisir. L’homme est libre ; mais il trouve sa loi dans sa liberté même. D’abord il doit assumer sa liberté et non la fuir; il l’assume par un mouvement constructif : on n’existe pas sans faire; et aussi par un mouvement négatif qui refuse l’oppression pour soi et pour autrui.
Conclusion http://www.marxists.org/reference/subject/ethics/de-beauvoir/ambiguity/ch04.htm
The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947)
Conclusion, p. 542
The Coming of Age (1970)
“What has value in their eyes is never what is done for them; it's what they do for themselves.”
Source: All Men are Mortal (1946), p. 315