Simone de Beauvoir Quotes
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Simone De Beauvoir Quotes: 152 Quotes on Autonomy, Love, Gender Constructs, and Questioning the World

Explore Simone de Beauvoir's profound wisdom and thought-provoking insights on personal autonomy, love, gender constructs, questioning the world—through our inspiring collection of quotes.

Simone de Beauvoir was a French philosopher, writer, social theorist, and feminist activist. She had a significant influence on feminist existentialism and theory. Best known for her groundbreaking work on women's oppression, The Second Sex, she also wrote novels and memoirs that showcased her descriptive power as a writer. Despite controversy surrounding accusations of sexually abusing her students, Beauvoir remained a highly awarded woman throughout her life.

Born into a bourgeois Parisian family in 1908, Beauvoir's precocious intellect was encouraged by her father. Struggling financially after World War I, she pursued an education in philosophy and crossed paths with influential thinkers such as Jean-Paul Sartre. Although she placed second in the national examination for philosophy at age 21, Beauvoir went on to establish herself as a prominent intellectual.

Raised Catholic but later becoming an atheist, Beauvoir questioned religious faith from an early age and saw it as an evasion of the difficulties faced by atheists. She believed in confronting societal concerns through her writing and activism. Simone de Beauvoir's contributions to feminism and philosophy continue to resonate today.

✵ 9. January 1908 – 14. April 1986   •   Other names Simone De Beauvoirová
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Simone de Beauvoir Quotes

“Be loved, be admired, be necessary; be somebody.”

Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter

“One is not born a genius, one becomes a genius; and the feminine situation has up to the present rendered this becoming practically impossible.”

Bk. I, Pt. 2, Ch. 8: Since the French Revolution: the Job and the Vote, p. 133
Source: The Second Sex (1949)

“To abstain from politics is in itself a political attitude.”

Source: Prime of Life

“What is an adult? A child blown up by age.”

A Woman Destroyed [Une femme rompue] (1967)
General sources

“It is so tiring to hate someone you love.”

Source: The Woman Destroyed

“all success cloaks a surrender”

Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter

“I love you, with a touch of tragedy and quite madly.”

Source: Letters to Sartre

“The Communists, following Hegel, speak of humanity and its future as of some monolithic individuality. I was attacking this illusion.”

On her work All Men are Mortal in Force of Circumstances (1963), p. 73
General sources

“The power he exercises is no more dictatorial than, for example, Roosevelt's was.”

On Mao Zedong, in The Long March (1957), as quoted in "Mao and the Australian Maoists" by Keith Windschuttle, in Quadrant (October 2005) http://www.sydneyline.com/Mao%20and%20Australian%20Maoists.htm
General sources

“Try to stay a man amongst men … There's no other hope for you.”

Marianne to Raimon
All Men are Mortal (1946)

“Each of us is responsible for everything and to every human being.”

Fyodor Dostoevsky in The Brothers Karamazov; this was used as an epigraph in The Blood of Others, and is sometimes attributed to de Beauvoir
Misattributed

“No woman should be authorized to stay at home to raise her children. Society should be totally different. Women should not have that choice, precisely because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one. It is a way of forcing women in a certain direction.”

“A Dialogue with Simone de Beauvoir,” in Betty Friedan, It Changed My Life: Writings on the Women’s Movement, (New York: Random House, 1976), p. 397 https://books.google.com/books?id=iv4-Qy82BJ0C&pg=PA397&lpg=PA397.
General sources

“Since it is the Other within us who is old, it is natural that the revelation of our age should come to us from outside — from others. We do not accept it willingly.”

Pt. 2, Ch. 1: The discovery and assumption of old age: the body's experience, p. 288
The Coming of Age (1970)

“Is this kind of ethics individualistic or not? Yes, if one means by that that it accords to the individual an absolute value and that it recognizes in him alone the power of laying the foundations of his own existence. It is individualism in the sense in which the wisdom of the ancients, the Christian ethics of salvation, and the Kantian ideal of virtue also merit this name; it is opposed to the totalitarian doctrines which raise up beyond man the mirage of Mankind. But it is not solipsistic, since the individual is defined only by his relationship to the world and to other individuals; he exists only by transcending himself, and his freedom can be achieved only through the freedom of others. He justifies his existence by a movement which, like freedom, springs from his heart but which leads outside of him.
This individualism does not lead to the anarchy of personal whim. Man is free; but he finds his law in his very freedom. First, he must assume his freedom and not flee it by a constructive movement: one does not exist without doing something; and also by a negative movement which rejects oppression for oneself and others.”

Une telle morale [la morale existentialiste] est-elle ou non un individualisme? Oui, si l’on entend par là qu’elle accorde à l’individu une valeur absolue et qu’elle reconnaît qu’a lui seul le pouvoir de fonder son existence. Elle est individualisme au sens où les sagesses antiques, la morale chrétienne du salut, l’idéal de la vertu kantienne méritent aussi ce nom ; elle s’oppose aux doctrines totalitaires qui dressent par-delà I’homme le mirage de l’Humanité. Mais elle n’est pas un solipsisme, puisque l’individu ne se définit que par sa relation au monde et aux autres individus, il n’existe qu’en se transcendant et sa liberté ne peut s’accomplir qu’à travers la liberté d’autrui. Il justifie son existence par un mouvement qui, comme elle, jaillit du coeur de lui-même, mais qui aboutit hors de lui.
Cet individualisme ne conduit pas à l’anarchie du bon plaisir. L’homme est libre ; mais il trouve sa loi dans sa liberté même. D’abord il doit assumer sa liberté et non la fuir; il l’assume par un mouvement constructif : on n’existe pas sans faire; et aussi par un mouvement négatif qui refuse l’oppression pour soi et pour autrui.
Conclusion http://www.marxists.org/reference/subject/ethics/de-beauvoir/ambiguity/ch04.htm
The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947)