Simone de Beauvoir: Quotes about love

Simone de Beauvoir was French writer, intellectual, existentialist philosopher, political activist, feminist, and social theorist. Explore interesting quotes on love.
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“It was said that I refused to grant any value to the maternal instinct and to love. This was not so.”

Simone de Beauvoir

Force of Circumstances Vol. III (1963) as translated by Richard Howard (1968) - Excerpt online http://www.marxists.org/reference/subject/ethics/de-beauvoir/1963/interview.htm <br class="br">General sources <br class="br">Context: It was said that I refused to grant any value to the maternal instinct and to love. This was not so. I simply asked that women should experience them truthfully and freely, whereas they often use them as excuses and take refuge in them, only to find themselves imprisoned in that refuge when those emotions have dried up in their hearts. I was accused of preaching sexual promiscuity; but at no point did I ever advise anyone to sleep with just anyone at just any time; my opinion on this subject is that all choices, agreements and refusals should be made independently of institutions, conventions and motives of self-aggrandizement; if the reasons for it are not of the same order as the act itself, then the only result can be lies, distortions and mutilations.

“One's life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love, friendship, indignation and compassion.”

Simone de Beauvoir

As quoted in Successful Aging : A Conference Report (1974) by Eric Pfeiffer, p. 142
Attributed

“I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth — and truth rewarded me.”

Simone de Beauvoir

All Said and Done (1972), p. 16 ISBN 1569249814
General sources

“Be loved, be admired, be necessary; be somebody.”

Simone de Beauvoir

Source: Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter

“It is so tiring to hate someone you love.”

Simone de Beauvoir

Source: The Woman Destroyed

“I love you, with a touch of tragedy and quite madly.”

Simone de Beauvoir

Source: Letters to Sartre

“If I had amnesia, I'd be almost like other men. Perhaps I'd even be able to love you.”

Simone de Beauvoir

Raimon to Regina. p. 17
All Men are Mortal (1946)