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Benjamin McLane Spock was an American pediatrician whose book Baby and Child Care is one of the best-selling volumes in history. The book's premise to mothers is that "you know more than you think you do."Spock was the first pediatrician to study psychoanalysis to try to understand children's needs and family dynamics. His ideas about childcare influenced several generations of parents to be more flexible and affectionate with their children, and to treat them as individuals. However, his theories were also widely criticized by colleagues for relying too heavily on anecdotal evidence rather than serious academic research.Spock was an activist in the New Left and anti Vietnam War movements during the 1960s and early 1970s. At the time, his books were criticized for propagating permissiveness and an expectation of instant gratification which allegedly led young people to join these movements—a charge that Spock denied. Spock also won an Olympic gold medal in rowing in 1924 while attending Yale University. Wikipedia  

✵ 2. May 1903 – 15. March 1998
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Works

The Common Sense Book of Baby and Child Care
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Famous Benjamin Spock Quotes

“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”

Benjamin Spock

“Most middle-class whites have no idea what it feels like to be subjected to police who are routinely suspicious, rude, belligerent, and brutal.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Decent and Indecent: Our Personal and Political Behavior (1970), p. 103

“You know more than you think you do.”

Benjamin Spock

First sentence. This is printed beneath the heading "Trust Yourself" , and thus is often quoted as "Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. "
Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945)

“It's not the words but the music that counts.”

Benjamin Spock

“People have said, "You've turned your back on pediatrics." I said, "No. It took me until I was in my 60s to realize that politics was a part of pediatrics."”

Benjamin Spock

Associated Press interview (1992)

“As parents and teachers we need to bring up more of our children with generosity of spirit.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Decent and Indecent: Our Personal and Political Behavior (1970), p. 132

Benjamin Spock Quotes about children

“We used to think of cow's milk as a nearly perfect food. However, over the past several years, researchers have found new information that has caused many of us to change our opinion. This has provoked a lot of understandable controversy, but I have come to believe that cow's milk is not necessary for children. First, it turns out that the fat in cow's milk is not the kind of fat ("essential fatty acids") needed for brain development. Instead, milk fat is too rich in the saturated fats that promote artery blockages. Also, cow's milk can make it harder for a child to stay in iron balance. Milk is extremely low in iron and slows down iron absorption. It can also cause subtle blood loss in the digestive tract that causes the child to lose iron. … Some children have sensitivities to milk proteins, which show up as ear problems, respiratory problems, or skin conditions. Milk also has traces of antibiotics, estrogens, and other things a child does not need. There is, of course, nothing wrong with human breast milk — it is perfect for infants. For older children, there are many good soy and rice milk products and even nondairy "ice creams" that are well worth trying. If you are using cow's milk in your family, I would encourage you to give these alternatives a try.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945), Seventh edition (1998), p. 346

“The more people have studied different methods of bringing up children the more they have come to the conclusion that what good mothers and fathers instinctively feel like doing for their babies is usually best after all. All parents do their best job when they have a natural, easy confidence in themselves. Better to make a few mistakes from being natural than to try to do everything letter-perfect out of a feeling of worry.”

Benjamin Spock book The Common Sense Book of Baby and Child Care

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Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945)

“We used to recommend meat, poultry, and fish for children because they are rich in protein and iron. However, we now know that there are harmful effects of a meaty diet, particularly changes in the arteries and weight problems, and that these changes begin in childhood. When children develop a taste for meats, it is hard to break this habit later on. It turns out that children can get plenty of protein and iron from vegetables, beans, and other plant foods that avoid the fat and cholesterol that are in animal products.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945), Seventh edition (1998), pp. 346-347

“The fact is that child rearing is a long, hard job, the rewards are not always immediately obvious, the work is undervalued, and parents are just as human and almost as vulnerable as their children.”

Benjamin Spock

Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945)

Benjamin Spock Quotes

“This solution has great superficial appeal--all the excitement of secret, forbidden, romantic sexuality without family responsibility and family grubbiness.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Decent and Indecent: Our Personal and Political Behavior (1970), p. 62

Secret , Family

“I no longer recommend dairy products after the age of two years. … Of course, there was a time when cow's milk was considered very desirable. But research, along with clinical experience, has forced doctors and nutritionists to rethink this recommendation. It is an area where there are still disagreements among scientists, but there are several points that most everyone agrees on. First of all, other calcium sources offer many advantages that dairy products do not have. Most green leafy vegetables and beans have a form of calcium that is absorbed as well as or even a bit better than that in milk. Along with this calcium come vitamins, iron, complex carbohydrates, and fiber. Calcium-enriched soy or rice drinks are just as tasty on cereal as cow's milk (once you get used to them), and they are free of animal proteins and cholesterol. These beverages, as well as calcium-enriched orange and other juices, provide as much calcium, ounce per ounce, as cow's milk. Vegetables and legumes can provide a healthy source of calcium, along with many other nutritional advantages.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945), Seventh edition (1998), pp. 331-332

Age , Drink , Time , Animals

“I've come to the realization that a lot of our problems are because of a dearth of spiritual values.”

Benjamin Spock

Associated Press interview (1992)

Problem

“Man can be the most affectionate and altruistic of creatures, yet he's potentially more vicious than any other. He is the only one who can be persuaded to hate millions of his own kind whom he has never seen and to kill as many as he can lay his hands on in the name of his tribe or his God.”

Benjamin Spock

Source: Decent and Indecent: Our Personal and Political Behavior (1970), p. 13

God , Hate

“I really learned it all from mothers.”

Benjamin Spock

Time magazine (8 April 1985)

Learning

“In automobile terms, the child supplies the power but the parents have to do the steering.”

Benjamin Spock

Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945)

Parent

“There are only two things a child will share willingly—communicable diseases and his mother's age.”

Benjamin Spock

Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945)

Family , Age , Disease

“I would say that the surest measure of a man's or a woman's maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.”

Benjamin Spock

Quoted in Older & Wiser Edited by G. B. Dianda and B. J. Hofmayer (1995)

Marriage , Pleasure , Joy

“Don't take too seriously all that the neighbors say. Don't be overawed by what the experts say. Don't be afraid to trust your own common sense.”

Benjamin Spock

Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care (1945)

Sense

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