Eleanor Roosevelt cytaty

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. (ang.)
Źródło: This Is My Story, 1937

Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life. (ang.)
Źródło: przedmowa do The Autobiography of Eleanor Roosevelt, 1961

Artur: Doris Kearns Goodwin, historyk
o odkryciu przez Eleanor romansu Franklina D. Roosevelta z jego sekretarką Lucy Mercer we 1918.
Źródło: Deborah G. Felder, 100 kobiet, które miały największy wpływ na dzieje ludzkości, op. cit., s. 15.

samookreślenie Eleanor Roosevelt
Źródło: Deborah G. Felder, 100 kobiet, które miały największy wpływ na dzieje ludzkości, wyd. Świat Książki, Warszawa 1998, ISBN 8371296665, s. 14, tłum. Maciej Świerkocki.

Źródło: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 29–30
Kontekst: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." … You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

Not by Roosevelt, but from Steven Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People (1989).
Misattributed

Foreword (January 1960)
You Learn by Living (1960)

Źródło: The Autobiography of Eleanor Roosevelt

Źródło: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 29–30
Kontekst: You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." … You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

http://books.google.com/books?id=EcKZ8bbMLDMC&q=%22It+is+not+fair+to+ask+of+others+what+you+are+not+willing+to+do+yourself%22&pg=PA64#v=onepage
http://www.gwu.edu/~erpapers/myday/displaydoc.cfm?_y=1946&_f=md000366
15 June 1946
My Day (1935–1962)

Wariant: Light a candle instead of cursing the darkness.
Źródło: This is My Story

Disputed
Wariant: No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
Źródło: Sometimes claimed to appear in her book This is My Story, but in The Quote Verifier by Ralph Keyes (2006), Keyes writes on p. 97 that "Bartlett's and other sources say her famous quotation can be found in This is My Story, Roosevelt's 1937 autobiography. It can't. Quotographer Rosalie Maggio scoured that book and many others by and about Roosevelt in search of this line, without success. In their own extensive searching, archivists at the Franklin D. Roosevelt Library in Hyde Park, New York, have not been able to find the quotation in This Is My Story or any other writing by the First Lady. A discussion of some of the earliest known attributions of this quote to Roosevelt, which may be a paraphrase from an interview, can be found in this entry from Quote Investigator http://quoteinvestigator.com/2011/03/30/not-inferior/.

Another quote often attributed to her without an original source in her writings, as in The Wit and Wisdom of Eleanor Roosevelt (1996), p. 199. But once again archivists have not been able to find the quote in any of her writings, see the comment from Ralph Keyes in The Quote Verifier above.
A very similar remark was attributed to Nancy Reagan, in The Observer (29 March 1981): "A woman is like a teabag — only in hot water do you realize how strong she is."
Variants:
A woman is like a teabag. You never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water.
A woman is like a tea bag, you can not tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.
A woman is like a tea bag; you can't tell how strong she is and how much to trust her until you put her in hot water.
Disputed

As quoted in How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (1944; 1948) by Dale Carnegie; though Roosevelt has sometimes been credited with the originating the expression, "Damned if you do and damned if you don't" is set in quote marks, indicating she herself was quoting a common expression in saying this. Actually, this saying was coined back even earlier, 1836, by evangelist Lorenzo Dow in his sermons about ministers saying the Bible contradicts itself, telling his listeners, "… those who preach it up, to make the Bible clash and contradict itself, by preaching somewhat like this: 'You can and you can't-You shall and you shan't-You will and you won't-And you will be damned if you do-And you will be damned if you don't.' "

Often attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt without an original source in her writings, for example in the introduction to It Seems to Me : Selected Letters of Eleanor Roosevelt (2001) by Leonard C. Schlup and Donald W. Whisenhunt, p. 2 http://books.google.com/books?id=UeFWjTMcLZYC&lpg=PP1&pg=PA2#v=onepage&q&f=false. But archivists have not been able to find the quote in any of her writings, see the comment from Ralph Keyes in The Quote Verifier above.
Disputed

Preface (December 1960) to The Autobiography of Eleanor Roosevelt (1961), p. xix

Wariant: Happiness is not a goal, it is a by-product.
Źródło: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 95
Kontekst: Happiness is not a goal, it is a by-product. Paradoxically, the one sure way not to be happy is deliberately to map out a way of life in which one would please oneself completely and exclusively.

As quoted in The Beacon Book of Quotations by Women (1992) by Rosalie Maggio, p. 130

5 February 1943
My Day (1935–1962)

Źródło: You Learn by Living (1960), p. 14
Kontekst: One thing life has taught me: if you are interested, you never have to look for new interests. They come to you. … All you need to do is to be curious, receptive, eager for experience. And there's one strange thing: when you are genuinely interested in one thing, it will always lead to something else.