“Perhaps watching someone you love suffer can teach you even more than suffering yourself can.”
Source: I Capture the Castle
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English novelist and playwright 1896–1990Related quotes

“The purpose of morality is to teach you, not to suffer and die, but to enjoy yourself and live.”

“You can no more make someone tell the truth than you can force someone to love you.”
Source: Portnoy's Complaint

“If you suffer and make your loved ones suffer, there is nothing that can justify your desire.”
Source: The Art of Power

Blissed Out: The Raptures of Rock, by Simon Reynolds (1988)
Love and relationships

“The more you love, the more you suffer”

Source: The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy, and Liberation


“You can suffer the pain of change or suffer remaining the way you are.”

“No one can hate you with more intensity than someone who used to love you.”
Variant: No one can hate you more than someone who used to love you.
Source: The Blood of Olympus