“There are very few people who are not ashamed to be loved when they no longer do.”

— François de La Rochefoucauld , book Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims

Il n'y a guère de gens qui ne soient honteux de s'être aimés, quand ils ne s'aiment plus.
Variant translation: There are very few people who are not ashamed to have loved when they no longer do.
Maxim 71.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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Il n'y a guère de gens qui ne soient honteux de s'être aimés, quand ils ne s'aiment plus.

Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)

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