“When the gift I give to the other is integral to my own nature, when it comes from a place of organic reality within me, it will renew itself—and me—even as I give it away. Only when I give something that does not grow within me do I deplete myself and harm the other as well, for only harm can come from a gift that is forced, inorganic, unreal.”

— Parker Palmer

Source: Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation (1999), pp. 49-50

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American theologian 1939

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