“Ah, cruel 'tis to love,
And cruel not to love,
But cruelest of all
To love and love in vain.”

—  Anacreon

Odes, XXIX. (XXVII.), 1.

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Greek lyric poet, notable for his drinking songs and hymns -570–-485 BC

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