“Vanity is a weakness. I know this. It's a shallow dependence on the exterior self, on how one looks instead of what one is. I know this well…Vanity and dishonesty may be vices, but they're also the first forms of protection I ever knew.”

— Dennis Lehane , book A Drink Before the War

Source: A Drink Before the War (1994), Ch. 7.

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