“Sometimes you can't see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others.”
“You're yourself," Tana said, grinning. "More purely yourself than anyone I know. And if you can't see who that is anymore, then see yourself the way I see you.”
Source: The Coldest Girl in Coldtown
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