“Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary?”

— J. M. Barrie, book The Little White Bird

Often paraphrased as: Always be a little kinder than necessary.
Source: The Little White Bird (1902), Ch. 4

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