“In the love poetry of every age, the woman longs to be weighed down by the man's body.”

— Milan Kundera , book The Unbearable Lightness of Being

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The Unbearable Lightness of Being (1984), Part One: Lightness and Weight

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Czech author of Czech and French literature 1929–2023

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