“The institution of marriage in all societies is a pattern within which the strains put by civilization on males and females alike must be resolved, a pattern within which men must learn, in return for a variety of elaborate rewards, new forms in which sexual spontaneity is still possible, and women must learn to discipline their receptivity to a thousand other considerations.”

—  Margaret Mead

"Male and Female" in Ladies' Home Journal, Vol. 66, (September 1949), p. 36;
1940s

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